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I Don't Know


Question Posted Monday March 7 2005, 8:00 pm

13/middle school
I don't know how to talk or start a convo with a boy (mainly a boy I like). Can someone please tell me ways to talk or start a convo without sounding like I like them? I am always so shy nd nervous so I really need help.


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kleokriesel answered Monday March 7 2005, 10:48 pm:
Ask him if he's seen some recent movie, like Shaun of the Dead or Ray. From there, move on to talking about some similar movie. Start complaining about an actor that you mutually hate and there you go.

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argyle answered Monday March 7 2005, 10:47 pm:
just talk to him and guys like it when you touch them when your talkin to them so try that

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pinkngreen answered Monday March 7 2005, 10:32 pm:
im a 13 year old guy and you should just go up to him and be like Hey hows it going guys like it when you start the convorsation

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amore05 answered Monday March 7 2005, 10:04 pm:
same here.
except im 15, but im so shy at talkin with guys and i realli HATE that. i wanna change and be more talkative and more of myself but its realli hard. i guess i just have to try realli hard and change, just have enough courage and walk up to that boy and talk to him, after all hes just a person just like you and me. so i hope i helped.

xoxo amore

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AdviceoDaRobot answered Monday March 7 2005, 9:26 pm:
Alright considering how I am a guy in middle school i should be able to help you. Well first when your talking to him just say "Hey" and "Hows it going" to start a talk. Ask about how his weekends are. Dont talk to much about you unless he asks let him talk to find out more about him. After he gets a little hint you like him im sure he will get nervous and start flirting with you. After awhile you should be talking alot and not being nervous. OK hope i helped you! :)

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Romantic_Guy answered Monday March 7 2005, 9:05 pm:
Just be cool. Walk up and be like, "Hey. Whats up." Thats a good start. Then you can start talking about him a little then change the subject to you. After a while you can start dropping hints that you like him. Be a little flirty but not too much.
Hope I helped.

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SweetThoughtz answered Monday March 7 2005, 8:52 pm:
hey gurlie! i think you should just ask him a question like um...so what are you gonna do today? or what sports do you like you know just ask a question about what he likes...much love *Doll~Face*

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x0xdReAmEr answered Monday March 7 2005, 8:49 pm:
you could just start out by saying hey wats up? thats how i start mine and it alwayz gets good after that. =)

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gubblebum answered Monday March 7 2005, 8:49 pm:
Well, I'm not an expert, but I do know that you should treat this person as you would treat any other person. Like the other day, me and a few friends were hanging out. One of thos friends happened to be a guy I liked. I just started talking to him by saying, "You have really small feet! What size do you wear?" And that may sound lame to you, but it worked. We've been talking a lot more since then and he still doesn't have a clue how I feel about him! Just don't make it obvious, and don't make it a big deal. Remeber, he's a regular person, and you should be able to start a convo with him the same way you would anyone else! (:

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