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Q: 14/m 8th grade
im one of the most outgoing pppl in my school except when it comes to asking girls out. theres this one girl that i really like and i want to ask her before its too late but i dont know how to say it or lead her in to it. plz help
Dude just chill. I know it seems hard at first but chill. Look if you really like this girl just walk up to her and tell her. If you really are that shy then take the indirect approach. Either write poetry or find some, put poetry in locker at the beginning of the week, on friday walk up to her and say, "Did you like those poems?" Its romantic and should work if she has any since.

Q: i taught myself how to play the guitar 4 yrs ago. Now my friend wants me to teach her. Everything i show her she cant understand, does anyone know where she can go.like a website,or get a book,etc. she really wants to learn and i'd really like to help her. i'd appritiate your advice.
If you like to use tabs then use www.mxtabs.net i use this site alot. If that not good enough then go to google and serch. i hope i helped.

Q: hello to get straight to the point i lost some one i loved and i dont mean a family member.im happy he moved on and im happy i have a boyfriend now to. he says i can talk to him about anything its werid to talk to him now though. and i like my boyfriend alot but i still think about my ex ALOT and i cant get him out of mine. its driving me crazy. please help
Well you could talk to him about it. You know, why yall broke up, if he still likes you, that stuff. It should help you to get it out of your system.

Q: 13/middle school
I don't know how to talk or start a convo with a boy (mainly a boy I like). Can someone please tell me ways to talk or start a convo without sounding like I like them? I am always so shy nd nervous so I really need help.
Just be cool. Walk up and be like, "Hey. Whats up." Thats a good start. Then you can start talking about him a little then change the subject to you. After a while you can start dropping hints that you like him. Be a little flirty but not too much.
Hope I helped.

Q: Just saw someone ask about their school talent show and thought I'd ask too...but my questions are a little different.

I'm going to do a solo dance to a song from the movie chicago.

(1) Which song do you guys prefer, "And All That Jazz" (first song), or "Hot Honey Rag" (the song at the end where Roxie and Velma dance together)?

(2) If I do Hot Honey Rag: at the beginning of the song, there's a slowed down chorus of Nowadays, where in the movie Roxie and Velma are wearing long robes. Then when the tempo increases, they take off their robes to reveal short flippy dresses. Would that be appropriate for school? (My dress won't be that short of see through, mid thigh length).

(3) Any dos or donts/tips for practicing and performing?

Thanks!
I would go with "And All That Jazz". I don't know what kind of school you go to but I think that the "stripping" is appropriate.

Q: i just got over this huge break up and i've finally moved on and the guy i moved onto always makes me laugh and we always flirt and i realized i have feelings for him. I want to tell him that i like him, and well i did..but he said he kinda liked me and he didn't want a girlfriend and wanted to stay friends..its so weird cuz i think about him day and night and i just want to be with him...can i say something to him to make him give me a chance? please help!
Give it a while. Just play it cool. Then if you still like him just tell him that you want to be more than friends, and that you wish he would give it a chance. I hope I helped. Let me know how it goes.

Q: Does anyone know where I can find one of those tshirts that say "I need a hug" or something like that?? Or does anyone know where I can find any other cute tshirts that say cute stuff like that?? I've been looking for them for like forever and I cant find any!! Thanks!!
I like Hot Topic and Pac Sun

Try those Hope I helped

Q: OK guys please answer this.. girls u can help too...
for v-tines day i think im getting my bf...
sliky boxers... cologne... and maybe like a movie gift certificate?
is that totally stupid???
if so tell me... and also can you guys give me some ideas on somthing to get him!!
thanx in advance!!!!!!!!!
**Sammie**
Ok first i would trad in the movie certificate for something else. Maybe some candy. Then give him the candy then the cologne, and then give him the boxers and ask him to try them on. Now that should be a romantic night.

Q: This one's a question for guys....how would you feel about getting a teddy bear for Valentine's Day from a girlfriend? Or is candy a better alternative?
Go with what feels right to you. If he really likes you then he wont care what the present is. But personaly i would go with candy.

Q: I need help QUICK!! Im getting my braces tightened for the first time tomorrow and I know to expect pain but how much? And do they hurt WHILE he's tightening them or AFTER hes done? Should I take advil first? Will i be able to eat/chew food afterwards? How long does it take for him to tighten them? Thanks ill rate high!!
My braces always gave me a headache about 2 hours after they were ajusted. take two or three advil right before you go in and you should be fine.

Q: Hi. I have the chance to be a foreign exchange student to Germany this coming school year (my senior year). I am so excited-this means the world to me. An interviewer is coming to my house in the next week---I am obviously so nervous about this. Does anyone have any tips in how to make this a smooth, successful event?
Be sure to make a really good first impression. Because you never get a second chanse to make a good first impression. Be cool and just be yourself.

Q: I am a senior this year. I will be going to college next year. Here is my problem. I don't know whether to choose a Nursing major or an Art major. My parents really want me to go for nursing, but art is what I love. Plus, most artists don't make a whole lot of money. What should I do?
Well seeing that you have taken all the right stuff for a nuse then thats what i would go for. I would just go into my first year and get a feel for what i want to do.

Q: anybody know where i can get guitar notes for playing on the song called brain stew by green day ?? like the sheet music for it so i can play it on my guitar
Go to www.mxtabs.net They should have what your looking for.

Q: well i am moving to Colorado next year before school starts and like i am really outgoing and stuff and i play volleyball, and that starts before school so i can meet people by doing that to, but i am like really scared of the change and i dont know waht to do to make the move easier????

Please help me out
On the day that you arive in Colorado go out on the town and see all the sites. Keep in touch with all your old friends through MSN AIM or Yahoo. Tell them about your trip and what Colorado is like, and ask about your home town.

Q: ok, first of all, let me tell you that i just want to know what y'all think about this - please tell me honestly if you think this guy likes me or not. i usually see answers that 'since i don't know you both, i don't know', but please tell me your gut feeling.

i'm a senior and there's this guy who sits behind me in one of my classes (he's also a senior). i really like him and he can probably tell, but everyday when there's a break in the class or something we end up talking. not just like, 'can you help me with this worksheet' but more personal things. also, when i go through the halls i glance over and he's usually looking at me. from your viewpoint, do you think he likes me?
If he is like most guys he likes you but he wants to make sure that you like him before he will make his move. Or it may be that he is waiting for you to make the first move.

Q: ok well my bf and i we hang out all the time!!! but after awhile we get bored! but when he comes over or if i go over there we usually just watch tv! and i want to do something different! cuz we both can't drive yet! ideas would be great of wat to do!!!

and his birthday is in a couple of days and i want to do something for him soo Help me please so i can get ideas thanks a bunch
Be creative. Use what you have in your house to have fun. The next time he comes over have a pillow fight or whatever. for his b-day. See if you can get your parents to drive you to a restaurant, but first see if they will leave you two alone. If not invite him over and have a nice romantic candel lit dinner.
P.S. see if you can get your parents to act like buttlers.

Q: My fourteen year old daughter has been going out with this nineteen year old boy since the beginning of January, first of all she lied to me saying that he was sixteen. I am quite worried about this. Can somebody help me and tell me what I should be doing. She is my only daughter, in fact my only child. I am worried. Help.
Well first of all a 19 year old guy has one thing on his mind. SEX. Your daughter needs to be going out with guy 15 to 16 years old. Break them up in a hurry.

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