14/m 8th grade
im one of the most outgoing pppl in my school except when it comes to asking girls out. theres this one girl that i really like and i want to ask her before its too late but i dont know how to say it or lead her in to it. plz help
Xo_AnGeL_3_eNe_Xo answered Friday March 11 2005, 9:34 am: OK i`m a girl and i`ll tell you how i would like a guy to ask me out... First if you dont talk to her you better start!! I wouldn`t just want a guy going up to me and asking me out... Second of all flirt with her a little bit too... Maybe ask her to hang out or something. When you think the time is right, then bring her someplace alone and ask her.. Or you could leve a note in her locker describing who you are (make it obvious) and maybe she`ll go out w/ you..! Well i hope i helped! tell me how it goes~<3~ [ Xo_AnGeL_3_eNe_Xo's advice column | Ask Xo_AnGeL_3_eNe_Xo A Question ]
Romantic_Guy answered Thursday March 10 2005, 10:27 pm: Dude just chill. I know it seems hard at first but chill. Look if you really like this girl just walk up to her and tell her. If you really are that shy then take the indirect approach. Either write poetry or find some, put poetry in locker at the beginning of the week, on friday walk up to her and say, "Did you like those poems?" Its romantic and should work if she has any since. [ Romantic_Guy's advice column | Ask Romantic_Guy A Question ]
xxBrOkEnxx answered Thursday March 10 2005, 9:04 pm: flirt with her.or just tell her straight out that you like her or ask her who she likes over and over..thats how i no people like someone [ xxBrOkEnxx's advice column | Ask xxBrOkEnxx A Question ]
lilrocksta13 answered Thursday March 10 2005, 8:12 pm: Don't be shy. Go right up to her and tell her how you feel. This may not be easy but tell it to her slowly. Don't come on too fast. Hang out with her a little bit and talk to her. Or you can write her a letter telling her how you feel. It is a really good way to start friendships and to get relationships started. You will feel much better once you do this. [ lilrocksta13's advice column | Ask lilrocksta13 A Question ]
XoXoDaniXoXo answered Thursday March 10 2005, 8:07 pm: just talk to her more, flirt with her, and one day ask her to a scary movie. lol the movie could help! :D
grape answered Thursday March 10 2005, 7:56 pm: WELL i would tell you to just be your self...walk up to her and try to flirt i know it sounds weird because hey you're asking a girl and all....but dont let her see tha you are and all but try to atleast say hi:name:tell her ures:how old are you:a subject that you both like to have a convo on:and ask is she dating?:then make your move from there:hope i helped:please please please rate and leave me another question in my inboxxxx:SIGNING OFF GRAPE: [ grape's advice column | Ask grape A Question ]
xluvinux answered Thursday March 10 2005, 7:36 pm: hey..i think you should start a conversation with her first. talk about school, current events, hobbies, whatever. then casually ask "hey, do you want to go out with me?" if she likes you, she will say yes. if not, there's still time to get to know her better. when you talk to this girl just try to be your usual outgoing self. i know it's hard but once you start talking to girls it will get easier. good luck. =)
i3ARBIExLOVE answered Thursday March 10 2005, 7:33 pm: Just be yourself otherwise shes bound to say no. Just talk to her like a normal person and give her special attention and flirt with her.
Always there..
Donna [ i3ARBIExLOVE's advice column | Ask i3ARBIExLOVE A Question ]
Shorty8706 answered Thursday March 10 2005, 7:32 pm: Well, just try to flirt with her or something. I know that its hard to do that, but just try it. Or you could ask her if she would like to go somewhere with you and your friends, and have have a friend or two with you to ask her if you need to. Just try and break the ice and she feels the same for you and tell her how you feel. Maybe she does and if she is a nice girl, she shouldnt get mad at you for being honest. Just try and see what happens. Get back to me and tell me how everything goes if you can. Love, Shorty, Candace. [ Shorty8706's advice column | Ask Shorty8706 A Question ]
Teza answered Thursday March 10 2005, 6:30 pm: Well you gotta give her signs that you like her. Always flirt with her, talk to her a lot, give her nice comments and stuff like that! Make eye contact with her! And she will get the point that you like her then maybe later you can ask her out! x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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