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I have a great personality and i am fun to talk to! Trust me, im here to help not laugh!

`~*Dani*~`

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How do *you* flirt with guys.. i want everyones ways hehe


thanx

u r a little slow... but that is ok

talk to the guy u like a lot, try to be around him, laugh at his jokes, give him stuff... please rate! hope i helped!

`*~Dani~*`

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My ex-boyfriend & I were on and off for over a year. He was the only boy I ever loved and we became very comfortable with each other and had no secrets at all. We broke up 2 weeks ago and it was the most horrible break-up we ever had and this time it really felt completely over. We are now on 'talking terms' but I haven't talked to him in about a week. He has a new girlfriend already and I just feel so used & heart broken. He supposedly was in love with me but then he stopped calling and went out with another girl. I'm not the desperate type at all and I never call him. I really want to hear his voice again and see how he's doing. If I show him that I do care and still love him, he'll become egotistical. Should I wait for him to make the move & call me? It was his fault we broke up, also.

I have gone through the exact same thing, my b/f broke up with me (we were on and off for 2 years) and he hated my guts after i told him i was moving! so when i go back to visit he still hates me and i miss his voice and i found out he is gouing out w/ another girl!

what i did was stupid i waited for a week till i called him and when i did we got to talk and stuff and we became good friends again!

its all your choice but i say you make a good decision and call him and get him to talkto you more!

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20, male.

Okay, the girl I'm going out with and I are sitting watching TV. We've only been dating for a few days, but I've been her friend since before elementary school. She mentions a mutual friend was talking about a movie that we passed. So I, the idiot that I am, accidently call her by the friend's name. She pulled away from me for a few seconds, and then went into my arms again.

I explained that it was only because she mentioned her name seconds before, but is that enough? Should I try to explain in detail that I have no feelings for this other girl or should I drop it?

drop it was an accident i called my best friend sumthing else and a guy i major like the wrong name too. its no big deal and if she asks jus say sry it just came out. pleaz rate!!

`~*Dani*~`

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i want to go to this party but i'm not sure if my dad will let me. How do i ask if i can go? answer ASAP 2 hrs til the party! will make people favorite columist And give fives!!!

u could lie and say that there will be chaperones (if there isnt any)

or you can explain that you are grown up and you deserve to be allowed to go to a party.

i hope that helps!

`~*Dani*~`

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well i'm 13 and i'm a female and i totally broke out on my forehead and i have a dance coming up!! i need help on how to get rid of it fast!! any advice or suggestions? also, is it because i ate chocolate or like junk foods? (i've heard that the reason people break out...)ThAnkS fOr uR HeLp!!! *i RaTe*

drink water, get a little healthier, and definetley use face stuff like stridex or all that other stuff!

`~*Dani*~`

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14/m 8th grade
im one of the most outgoing pppl in my school except when it comes to asking girls out. theres this one girl that i really like and i want to ask her before its too late but i dont know how to say it or lead her in to it. plz help

just talk to her more, flirt with her, and one day ask her to a scary movie. lol the movie could help! :D

`~*Dani*~`

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I had sex with a guy almost 3 weekends ago.. and the condom fell off... i didnt get the morning after pill but my friend said i could just take 3 birth control and it would be the same thing... but i'm afriad! what are some EARLY pregnency signs?! lately i have felt nausaous and i've had spotting... please help...

you will have morning sickness, you will be throwing up non-stop. you will probaly eat more. and you might miss your period. if you have your period, you might not be pregnant.

`~*Dani*~`

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My mother was crying about something with my family and I gave her a hug and she got green eyeliner and black mascara all over my new velour sweatshirt. How can I get it out it's my favorite sweatshirt? I will rate 5's.

did you try washing it?

you could hand wash it, just to get that one spot!!

`~*Dani*~`

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I'm about to make my friend a cd and he said to put whatever songs are cool and new and I like all old music. Does anyone know any good songs that are r&b and are new?

nelly, usher, 50 cent, snoop dogg, ludacris, that new song candy shop! these should work, please rate!

`~*Dani*~`

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Are you supposed to wear a bra under a cami? Im not very big....like kinda flat...Thanks

you dont really need to wear a bra if you're flat. and i think you can wear a bra under a cami.

`~*dani*~`

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i have a horrible sunburn.... i mean horrible! it doesnt even look that red but it KILLS! for example, i went to bed at 10pm and i woke up at 12 not being able to sleep bc it hurt so bad! what can i do! when can i start going to the tannign place again?

i had the same problem when i was living in floridal. what i did was i put ice on it to cool it down (even if it hurt) and i used cream. lots and lots of cream! lol that should help, pleaz rate!

`~*Dani*~`

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how long do you think me and my gf should start kissing? 2 monthes 3...?

2.5 months,dont kiss to soon but dont kiss after a while!

`~*Dani*~`

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What are some good movies.. mostly chick flicks or comedy.. thanks!

dodgeball, the notebook, the incredibles, 13 going on 30, bruce almighty, ever after.
hope these help, please rate!

`~*Dani*~`

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At a recent school dance, they had 2 grades there: 7th and 8th, and im in 8th grade. My friend billy was there (7th grade) and me and my friends were hanging out with him and his freidns who are also in 7th grade, a year younger than us. I was flirting like a tonnn with this one kid, steven, and it was really fun and he was being a flirt back..he's very nice and sweet, has adorable green eyes and is very cute. he's got a cute voice and cute hair and is my height too, which is a plus. Anyway, my boyfriend and i of 1 1/2 months just broke up and it was really hard for me. But at the dance, flirting and hanging out with steven made me realize how much fun that was you know? so like we became friends at the dance and then my friends and his friends were like hey i see a connection here! and they kept saying stuff so he asked me to dance and we danced together and talked and like...i really liked it. I felt comfortable with him, in his arms, and i just wanted to kiss him. It was really cool, but hes in 7th grade and im in 8th. People think it's weird to go out with a 7th grader when youre in 8th grade, and if you do, everybody talks about you and it alters your reputation. I don't really want people to think anything bad about me or get a bad rep from going out with a 7th grader. He's very cute and sweet and i think i really like him...but he's not "popular" but i cant see why..i'm confused on what to do..could someone please give me some advice? stay just friends or date him? Thanks!! and sorry it's so long!!

you shouldnt care about what other people say! do what your heart wants! go out with him, dont care about everyone else. do what you want, you can make yourself feel better with a guy that might be better to you than your old b/f. do what your heart wants, dont listen to the stupid rumors. you shouldnt care about what other people think and say! hope i helped. please rate!

`~*Dani*~`

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Okay me and this guy have been friends for this whole school year and we've been pretty tight. I really like him but I'm not sure he feels the same. He smiles at me a lot, we talk in class all the time. And he used to never talk to me at my locker, but now he does. He gives me back rubs in class and I don't know what to do. How can I talk to him and let him know how I feel without wreckin' our friendship?

i had the same problem last year. guy was my bff, i told him i liked him, he freaked, but i talked to him, we hooked up and we have been together since! we talked and i found out he liked me back! be brave, talk to him! let him know how you feel and then tell him you dont want it to ruin your friendship!
hope i helped!

`~*Dani*~`

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i rate 5's

sorry if this gets long..

Well my life is kinda messed up because i live with my grandparents and they wont let me do anything i mean like walk around places, go out with guys, have a boyfriend or any thing like that.. well the thing is when you dont let a person do things they end up going behind the other persons back and doing it any ways, well so i have a sister and she is 3 years older than me and she lives with me to and my grandparents do everything for her they let her go places and do stuff and they dont trust me, they just trust her and shes really mean to them and everything and im nice but they still dont like me, well i cant live with my mom for reasons and my grandparents where saying that they didnt want me any more and they wanted to get rid of me *it kind of sounds like im a animal or something* well i hate it and i hate that they are so over protected and some times everything gets soo screwed up and i juss cry and i wanna kill my self and some times i thought about it and i dont know what to do because i dont wanna end up like some people how they are.. so can some one please help me!

dont listen to them! that is jus wrong and grandparents shouldn't do that. talk to someone about it. talk to your grandparents! my life is bad sumtimes too! i live with my aunt cause my mom is gone and i cant see my dad for certain reasons. my aunt can make my life a heck but i get over it and i get happy again! when i feel like you do i play games i like, i talk to my friends, i do stuff i like to make me feel happier! sorry my answer is so long!! lol
hope i helped!

`~*Dani*~`

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my mom is going back to college.What should I do?

my aunt (kinda my mom) is going back to college too! i have no problem with it. deal with it, accept that your mom is going. its better, cause then your mom is out of the apt. or house or whatever, and you get time alone! lol

`~*Dani*~`

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For health class i have to pick an anti-drug..like yeah kno...sports.. my anti-drug, but i can't think of any. I don't wanna use sports cuz sum1 already has it? does any1 hav some ideas? thnx

family, friends, activities, pets, shopping.
those are sum ideas!

`~*Dani*~`

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i wanna be a cheerleader but i dont think i can. what knid of things do you have to know how to do.i rate good

be able to feel comfortable in their outfits and work on the routines and cheers and stuff to be good at it!

`~*Dani*~`

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hi theres this guy and i like him but he is always complaining he needs a gf but i dont tink he likes me cuz im not the pritest girl a live and what r some ways to look better or impress him??? or suld i ask him to be his gf?

im not that prettiest grl alive, i dont care and neither shouold you.
you should ask him out or ask him who he likes or you could find out who likes him. hook them or you and him up! go for what you want!
hope i helped!

`~*Dani*~`

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