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missing ex-boyfriend
My ex-boyfriend & I were on and off for over a year. He was the only boy I ever loved and we became very comfortable with each other and had no secrets at all. We broke up 2 weeks ago and it was the most horrible break-up we ever had and this time it really felt completely over. We are now on 'talking terms' but I haven't talked to him in about a week. He has a new girlfriend already and I just feel so used & heart broken. He supposedly was in love with me but then he stopped calling and went out with another girl. I'm not the desperate type at all and I never call him. I really want to hear his voice again and see how he's doing. If I show him that I do care and still love him, he'll become egotistical. Should I wait for him to make the move & call me? It was his fault we broke up, also.
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I'd wait for him to make a move. In the meantime don't sit by the phone. Go out and have fun with your other friends...maybe even a guy. I know you probably don't feel like it because you still love the ex, but he isn't sitting at home.
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i've been in this same thing for over a year and i m still trying to find the answer for myself.. but if he alreadys has a girlfriend maybe he is just trying to hide his feelings for you and if you think that he is worth it and you love him.. call him tell him how you feel dont hide it you are just going to hurt more...and if he still loves u he will show it eventually i mean people dont get over love in a snap.. hun its going to be ok i promise
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I have gone through the exact same thing, my b/f broke up with me (we were on and off for 2 years) and he hated my guts after i told him i was moving! so when i go back to visit he still hates me and i miss his voice and i found out he is gouing out w/ another girl!
what i did was stupid i waited for a week till i called him and when i did we got to talk and stuff and we became good friends again!
its all your choice but i say you make a good decision and call him and get him to talkto you more!
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you dont have to call him, maybe try saying hi in school..things are going to be awkward for awhile.,,i know the feeling and it sux. So maybe you can call him and say hi..you dont have to tell him you still love him..just call to hear his voice and talk. If you want maybe after a few minutes say you have to go so he doesnt think your desperate, etc.
once the ice breaks and you guys get back to normal, you will probably become good friends :)
-melissa=
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