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I love you
So this one boy tells me that he loves me. And I don't love him. But he really seems to mean it. How do I respond to that statement if I don't love him back and I don't wanna lie?
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OMG trust me just be strait foward becuz my friend waited for ever to tell her boyfriend something and she almost died...
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tell him that you like him but not in that way. he might be upset for a while but he will eventually get over it. but make sure that there isn't anyone else around because you don't want to imbarris him.
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I am not sure, but NEVER tell him you love him if you don't. I did because I felt pressured into it and it was a very big mistake. Goodluck!
~WestsideAngel~
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hmmm... puzzling... well, if he seems nice & all... you could at least try it or if you don't even wanna do that, the best thing is to tell him the truth, I mean, I would like the truth then her being with me cos of pitty, so I'd tell the truth, but if you can't do that then you can just try things out & see how they go, who knows, he might be a really nice guy
-Cameron
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say "I don't love you" there difficult and harsh but the best way.
Solemnstar
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just be blunt and say i dont love you sorry thats all you have to do but dont sound mean when you do it say it nice dont say it angry.
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Tell him you definitely value him as a friend, but nothing more. Say it gently, but firmly so he will get the idea. You might want to tell him why you don't feel the same way about him because he'll be wondering why.
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Be honest. Tell him why too.
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How about "your such a good friend".
Or you just tell him that is nice of you but I don't feel the same.
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well of course u dont wanna lie i mean... thats just mean tell him the truth.. tell him u just wanna be friends and nothing more but dont break his heart too much
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Say that shit I hear. "You're a really great guy, but I just don't think of you like that."
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Say you arent ready tom move that fast into a strong relationship with im. Say you really like him and would like to get to know him better before you can say "i love you" back. Hope i helped!
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Uhh...
ok, options below. (please note that, because I'm hyper right now, some of them are ridiculous.)
1. Mumble, "uhhmm"
2. Say, "uh.. you too?"
3. Honestly sit down with this boy and tell him that you don't love him, but you'd like to get to know him better
4. Shoot him with a paint ball gun
5. Dye his hair pink while he sleeps and write on his walls "I don't like you!!" - in hot pink!
6. Write him a letter telling him that you think he likes you wayy more than you like him.. and you don't want to hurt him, but you can't lie to him.
7. Ignore the fellow.. he might get the idea
8. Get a friend to tell the guy how you feel
9. Be totally honest with yourself, and him!!
10. Pray about it.. this and being honest with this boy are your best bets.
-FunnyCide
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Sya
I dont love you
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Just tell him what you fell like hey its great the you love me and all but its just that i dont feel the same way about you ok
Hope it works
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tell him you would rather love him "like a brother" than a bf. whatever you do, dont lead him on or flirt with him cuz when he finds out you dont like him back, it will hurt him. <3
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sayy something like... thats really sweet of you, your a great friend but im sorry.. i just dont like you that way.. haha sorry if that didnt help, im sorta bitchy when it comes to telling guys i dont like them :-/
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ok this happend to me and it's really annoying....some guys don't mind and if you tell him you don't love him he will get a new crush. but, if he isn't one of those guys try to talk to him and (gently) say i'm sorry but i don't feel the same way then just be nice to him whenever you see him. this way you won't feel bad b/c you lied and he will get over it quicker. hope i helped!
xo.me.xo
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just tell him that you dont feel the same and that u would just rather be friends
if that wont work you can personally ask me again and i will try to give u a better answer
~*kristen*~
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