Okay me and this guy have been friends for this whole school year and we've been pretty tight. I really like him but I'm not sure he feels the same. He smiles at me a lot, we talk in class all the time. And he used to never talk to me at my locker, but now he does. He gives me back rubs in class and I don't know what to do. How can I talk to him and let him know how I feel without wreckin' our friendship?
Olgy answered Saturday March 5 2005, 1:55 pm: well back rubs??!? I think thats a hint that there is someting between you to. I think hes dropping hints you should to! go for it! [ Olgy's advice column | Ask Olgy A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Saturday March 5 2005, 1:25 pm: well i dont think it will wreck your friendship it actually sounds like he likes you more then friends...*i never get back rubs from even my best friend* but um i think you should tell him like you like him alot and you know you have been tight for the whole school year but tell him like you have more for him like you like him more then friends but you dont mind jus staying friends...much luv let him make the decision on what happens next after you tell him that.. dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
karenR answered Saturday March 5 2005, 12:50 am: If he's talking to you and giving you backrubs I'd say he's interested in you. Just sit back and enjoy the friendship you have.Don't be in such a rush to tell him how you feel.If he feels the same you will know soon by the sound of it! [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
SAMzasis answered Saturday March 5 2005, 12:05 am: He probably likes you anyway. Just go for it. Say it straight out. OR, if you're comedic like me, you can just scream it to him, and laugh about it, and see if he jokes back. I'm sure that'd work. If it doesn't I'm sorry. Don't sue me. I'm funny.(yea, like that works)
XoXoDaniXoXo answered Friday March 4 2005, 11:19 pm: i had the same problem last year. guy was my bff, i told him i liked him, he freaked, but i talked to him, we hooked up and we have been together since! we talked and i found out he liked me back! be brave, talk to him! let him know how you feel and then tell him you dont want it to ruin your friendship!
hope i helped!
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