Member Since: March 4, 2005
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Last Update: March 5, 2005
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Okay me and this guy have been friends for this whole school year and we've been pretty tight. I really like him but I'm not sure he feels the same. He smiles at me a lot, we talk in class all the time. And he used to never talk to me at my locker, but now he does. He gives me back rubs in class and I don't know what to do. How can I talk to him and let him know how I feel without wreckin' our friendship? (link)
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well back rubs??!? I think thats a hint that there is someting between you to. I think hes dropping hints you should to! go for it!
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Theres this guy in my class, we're kinda friends, but recently since I told friends I liked him they say they haven't told but he's been kinda blankin me mostly. One of the friends says I should ask him out, but I'm no Sandra Bullock. So should I or shouldn't I????
Thanx (link)
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Take it slow if he's been "blankin" you then maybe you should still be friends and wait just a little but if you feal confident and take a risk! hope i helped :)
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im meeting this guy for the first time tonight.. and we might possibly hook up.. i want to look perfect.. does anyone have any makeup, hair, or clothing tips that I could use? (link)
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just be urslef, don't over do it. U dont know what time of guy he is so don't try to look too sleazy. be urself!
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Okay I dont know what exactly to say about this but I'll try. I have this problem. Everyone makes fun of me becasue I sitll think about it all the time but its something hat has really gotten into my mind. Well... I am a music freak, and I love to sing, and everyone tells me that I can sing.. and everything.. but then the person whose opinion matters the most to me just recently told me that I cant sing and in all seriousness. I want him to think that I can sing.. that I can do just as well as any of his other "favorite people" that CAN sing! It tears me up that he thinks that I cant sing... All of my friends tell me that this person is just joking and that I'm good and all.. But I still dont believe them ever since this person told me that I cant sing... I feel so horrible over it.. like I dont even want to isng anymore.. what should I do? Much help needed... And please only serious answeres for this one. (link)
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ok well did you know that a lot of famous artists have been told that they can't sing? But htey just kept pushing. You need to be strong an keep on going the voice is an instrument as you practice more and more it gets better and better. If you bilieve in your music and you truly want this then you can't give up and you have to strive to get it. You cannot give up your dreams because poeple are insecure. If this person told you that you cannot sing and hes the person matters most to you then something is wrong with that. Maybe get a voice teacher or get a different techinique in how you practice but the main thing is DONT GIVE UP! If you did then poeple will be satisfied that they their way, prove those people wrong and don what you love to do...on a more personal not i used to be horiible at singing i was in your situation but i wanted it so much that i kept on singing despite what poeple say to me, i got a voice teacher and things were getting better. I didnt listen to those poeple. Music is about your emotions and doing what you love to do, its beyond poeple and its beyond a lot of things its a another world. So keep your head up high and keep singing!!
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see here is the thing!i like this guy named chad but my friend taryn liked/likes him, and i know he used to like her but he told me he didn't anymore and now i like him. he even invited me to one of his baseall games and everthing should i go and continue likeing him or wat? (link)
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no that would not be good. You should not like a guy that your friend likes because you need to realize that there will always be boys, but friends should always come first. Even he doesn't like her it doesn't matter. Just wait for the whole thing to blow over and then talk to her casually like say " so how are you and chad." something like that and take it from there :)
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ok well i liked this kid, we'll call him fred, :P well, anyway my friend, we'll call her megan, was always up on him when i liked him. well i stopped liking him and she laid off. and the other day she told me she likes him, so i went up and told him cuz she asked me to, and hes like, yeh thats cool, but i like you again. and i was like woh ok? so i was hanging around him alot and stuff, and then today "megan" was like, i cant believe ur nosing around my guy. and i was like, WOAH OK FIRST OF ALL, and i told her what she'd been doing, and she was like, well atleast he liked me! and i was like, ok no he didnt, and he likes me. and she was like, yeah right i doubt it, so i went up to him and askedh im and he said yeh and now shes all pissed at me, and its not my fault. (link)
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Alright, okay well i think it is really low how "megan" did that in the first place when she was "up on him" and tehn when you stopped liking him she stopped. I don't think shes your real friend. But just be careful not to sink to her level. If he likes you thats great, but remmeber not to get too wrapped up with a guy. Its not your fualt so dont worry about it, but just dont go to far with ures and "Freds" relationship:)
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Okay, my friend Jackie introduced me to this guy she knows (over the internet) and he lives in New York, where she used to live, and they're sort of "going out" but not, since we live in AZ, and anyway, I've been talking to him and I think I'm starting to like him just a little bit and I don't know what to do, because she really really likes him.. I know I should let her have him, but should I tell her or just try to keep quiet about it and try to stop talking to him so I don't like him more or what? (link)
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Okay let’s get realistic and practical. Don’t take this the wrong way or anything but think about it, an internet relationship. If you live in NY and he lives in AZ how is that supposed to work? If your friend likes him, and is sort of going out with him then that’s fine, but were is it going to go from there? The only thing that can come out of that is her getting hurt because he lives far away! And anyways u always have to be careful on internet chats. Because he might be acting one way on the internet with u but you don’t actually know what kind of person he is, not to be pessimistic but you never know who he is and what he does. But just be careful!
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our gruop of friends is falling apart.wel we were invited to go to this house party last saturday but only one of us could go my freind .she went and ever since she went she just dropped us hasnt said two words all week.i dont want to lose her as a freind but i cant carry on like this?what can we?anyone got ne ideas.plse reply swn xxxx (link)
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ok, i can totlly realte to your situation. What you need to do is just talk to her, the main thing is make it normal, just start out and say hi to her and see how she reacts to that. She should react fine and give a Hi back, if she was a real friend she would do that. You need to remmebr that you have to stand your ground and don't suck up to her. But u need to talk to her and explain to her wat ure feeling and if she blows you off then you need to rethink ure friendship with her. if she loves you as a friend then shell understand you.
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