ok well i liked this kid, we'll call him fred, :P well, anyway my friend, we'll call her megan, was always up on him when i liked him. well i stopped liking him and she laid off. and the other day she told me she likes him, so i went up and told him cuz she asked me to, and hes like, yeh thats cool, but i like you again. and i was like woh ok? so i was hanging around him alot and stuff, and then today "megan" was like, i cant believe ur nosing around my guy. and i was like, WOAH OK FIRST OF ALL, and i told her what she'd been doing, and she was like, well atleast he liked me! and i was like, ok no he didnt, and he likes me. and she was like, yeah right i doubt it, so i went up to him and askedh im and he said yeh and now shes all pissed at me, and its not my fault.
*ashlee* answered Friday March 4 2005, 8:41 pm: that is the most immature story ive ever heard. "i was like she was like" "he said she said" you must be in middle school. [ *ashlee*'s advice column | Ask *ashlee* A Question ]
CraziForRey619 answered Friday March 4 2005, 8:14 pm: I would either talk to her, or find a new friend. She is jealous that she isn't getting attention from any guys, so she goes and takes the one you like to make YOU jealous. Besta Luck [ CraziForRey619's advice column | Ask CraziForRey619 A Question ]
Olgy answered Friday March 4 2005, 5:34 pm: Alright, okay well i think it is really low how "megan" did that in the first place when she was "up on him" and tehn when you stopped liking him she stopped. I don't think shes your real friend. But just be careful not to sink to her level. If he likes you thats great, but remmeber not to get too wrapped up with a guy. Its not your fualt so dont worry about it, but just dont go to far with ures and "Freds" relationship:) [ Olgy's advice column | Ask Olgy A Question ]
mylinhthan answered Friday March 4 2005, 4:29 pm: anonymous -
To put in simple words, your friend is a bitch. If she's willing to betray you and go up on a guy that you liked first, just drop her. What's important is that "fred" likes you, and don't let her get in the way of that. She really isn't worth the trouble.
My thoughts on why she's pissed is because maybe she has this super ego that a guy just has to choose her over you. Another thing that can add to her pissyness is that she's embarrased that you confronted "fred" about liking you and he agreed to it. She just might be ashamed.
But if you do want to be friends with her again, then I'd suggest that you talk to her. Tell her that you don't appreciate her reacting like this when instead she should be happy for you.
twizzler2 answered Friday March 4 2005, 4:11 pm: Friends always do this-no matter what theres always that jealousy deep down inside, its a natural feeling. You shouldn't let something like this get in between you and your friend. Just let things happen, if he asks you out then there is your answer if he asks your friend out there is also your answer(if that makes sense). If he does like one of you more im sure he'll tell you or ask you out. For your friend---just give her time, and if this "fred" does like you instead of your friend, then make sure your friend knows that you still appreciate her. i hope i helped. Good luck *Loretta [ twizzler2's advice column | Ask twizzler2 A Question ]
Teza answered Friday March 4 2005, 4:10 pm: Shes just jelous because he likes you and not her. She will get over it and thats a stupid reason to be pissed. Talk to her about it cuz she just doesnt get how stupid it is. You cant help if someone likes you better then her! x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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