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Brother in way
Ok, Well you see I'm not allowed to have a b/f. But I do. And when I go somewhere with my friends and hes there he always hangs out with me and stuff. And he's awesome! But when I go ice skating or something my brother usually goes. And since I'm not allowed to have a b/f or anything we can't hold hands or anything! It makes me so mad! My brother is 11 and he'll tell my parents whatever I do!! Someone please help me because this is gonna happen again tonite!!
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OMG gurl i know how you feel my brother is always telling my parents my bizznass. Tell your parents that your growing up and you need some space between you and your brother. It worken for me but that was a different sub. cuz im allowed to date boys.
I hope i helped!!! sorry i couldnt give you more avice.
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dont go ice-skating, go to his house and say you;re going over a friends or soemthing. hope i helped1 xox ari
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this is your cue to tell us your age. you cant ask a question like this and expect help without giving your age. see if your 9, then theres probably a reason your parents dont want you to have a boyfriend and theres no way around it, but if your like 16, then its something you need to sit down and talk to your parents about. otherwise threaten to beat your brother to a pulp and if he doesnt believe you, then do it.
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Say your bro embarasses you in front of your friends.
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get serious black mail on him and then do whatever you want!! thats what i do to my brother, and ohh how it works.
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You have a few of option.
Option 1 Deal with the fact that your brother will be there and he will rat on you. There is no getting around that. Keep it cool with your undercover lover when the brother is around. I know it's hard but at least your cover won't be blown.
Option 2 Get your brother occupied doing something else whilst you get your flirt on with your hottie! examples: Video games, his own friends, eating.
Option 3 Tell your parents about your guy. At least you tried to be honest. Hopefully they will cut you some slack.
Good luck and I hope I helped!
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You don't say how old you are but I'm guessing your parents don't think you are old enough to date, right?
You can have a friend that is a boy without dating you know.And holding hands while skating is not a big deal I don't believe.
Instead of making a big secret of it why don't you just ask your mom's advice? They like to give it once in awhile and letting her know that you value her opinion and that you will consult her about such things may just lead her to believe You are growing up.I wouldn't go into the times you have seen him before...I would just start fresh today. Tell her a friend of yours who happens to be a boy would like to skate with you tonight, and does she think this will be okay. Have fun,Hope things go your way. Let me know!
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Ok. so one way to fix this is to tell your parents but who knows what they would do. another way would just go sometime your brother doesn't go or tell him you cannot tell mom and dad. he might keep it as a secret but he might not. my parents are the same way and the don't let me do anything. i hope you find a way 2 go out with him
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tell your brother not to come with you any more.ask your mom and dad if you can drop him off at a friends house when you go somewhere. hope i helped.
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