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FRIENDS FIGHTING WITH-CAROLYN
FAV. TIME OF DAY-2 A.M. (staying up late!)
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i need to make a new book cover for the book hoot for a school project!! does anyone have any ideas that would be creative for it???please help. i rate high! dont answer this question if u havent read the book

I wouldn't do what that last person said cause that is a minor part. i would probably draw an owl coming out of a hole in the ground with the main character right next to it. or you could draw the owl coming out of a hole and the trailer next to it.
best of luck
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I'm a really good singer. All of my friends have said so, and are threatening to take me too American Idol when I'm 16. And I love to sing. But when I go to do it in front of some people I get really nervous and choke up. Any suggestions on how to get rid of my nervous-ness??

Just practice alot on your singing. Like that one commercial where there is this girl and she is really nervous and she brings her favorite teddy bear and when it is time to preform all she sees is her teddy bear in the audience. You could do something like that maybe with a guy or something.
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Ok, Well you see I'm not allowed to have a b/f. But I do. And when I go somewhere with my friends and hes there he always hangs out with me and stuff. And he's awesome! But when I go ice skating or something my brother usually goes. And since I'm not allowed to have a b/f or anything we can't hold hands or anything! It makes me so mad! My brother is 11 and he'll tell my parents whatever I do!! Someone please help me because this is gonna happen again tonite!!

Ok. so one way to fix this is to tell your parents but who knows what they would do. another way would just go sometime your brother doesn't go or tell him you cannot tell mom and dad. he might keep it as a secret but he might not. my parents are the same way and the don't let me do anything. i hope you find a way 2 go out with him
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dear advice givers,

my life is falling apart. the big thing happening right now though is my friends hating me. usually i can give myself advice but this is one of the worst situations ive been in. ok let me start from the beginning...

yesterday my cousin came over. i love her so much so i was cheering about to rip my homework into confetti. so anyway, she saw that i was holding school pictures so she phyced. she asked if she could see them so i said, sure, why not? she grabbed the pictures and pointed to people saying, "geek, know-it-all, freak, annoying, popular, a cross between popular and pretty, stupid," and so on. i thought that was amazing because she was right except for a few people where she called them a geek and really they weren't. well i thought it was so cool that i couldn't keep it to myself, i wanted to tell my friends what she said! so i did near the end of the school day in my last class because i was deciding whether to tell them or not through the whole day. so my friends aren't happy with what they hear. only a few of them are because they were considered popular or pretty, or both. well the other people ended up thinking that -->I

Wow you wrote alot! well i would just try telling your friends that your cousin said that stuff and the person to be mad at is your cousin not you. i don't know what else to do because what you wrote kind of doesn't make much sence. Sry i can't help you out on anything else. maybe if you explained it alittle bit better i could help.
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I have to do a speech and presentation in English on Tuesday. I am really nervous and hate looking at people, and if I look at my friends I just laugh. However, I can't get anything higher than a B if I don't have 'audience awareness' and I have to get all A's. So does anyone have any tips on how to be less nervous or how I can have more 'audience awareness' or even how to stop myself laughing at the funny parts of my presentation?
Thanks!!

Try to give your speech many times before you actually have to do it in class. Invite your friends over and give the speech in front of them. Train yourself not to laugh as much. Even give your speech in front of your family.
hope it works!
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Ok, theres this guy that went to my church last night and he was SOO cute and really funny! and his eyes are VERY pretty, they arent blue or green they are brown but SOO pretty! lol anyway, we have a youth group place and we went to the worship place and its where we like stand up, then sit down and then stand up ya know and when i looked at him he was staring at me! im only 13 and i guess i should know what that means but i dont! haha everytime i looked he was staring at me! and when he first did it, he like jerked his eyes away quick and i did the same but later on we would take like 2 seconds glances, like i dunno! what does that mean? does he like em or jsut think im cute! please i need advice before i make myself look stupid! haha

Ok just go up to him and ask him his feelings about you. Then tell him your feelings about him. Most likely he likes you to because i stare at someone i like to then he sees me and i turn away.
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The other day, I told my ex boyfriend's best friend that I sometimes still care about my ex. I am going to guess the he told my ex this. Today, after english class my ex walks up to me. He said my name and I said what. Then he said "I don't hate you." Do you think he said this because he still cares about me? Or do you think he said this just to let me know that he doesn't hate me. I find it ironic that he's just going to walk up and tell me this. Thanks. Good answer, good rating.

Just ask him if he does or doesn't. It isn't that hard.
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Okay, I actually think I have ADD. I've secretly researched it for a few months now, and I have a lot of the symptoms majorly. I used to be really good in school, I used to be able to focus and concentrate most of the time. Now, I have SO many things going on in my head and I seem to act like I'm listening, but really my head is off in like, a million different places. I told my friend that I had it and she's the type of girl that will just not concentrate because something is "boring". She thinks that she has ADD too. Everytime we talk about it, she starts laughing ("I have ADD, lol!"). It pisses me off so much. How is anyone going to take me seriously after she tells EVERYONE she has it, and starts laughing after? Its kids like her who use out the term ADD. I bet many students like her go to their doctor and say they have it. But what about us who actually think we have it? I feel like the doctor is just going to turn me away and say "yes, you think you have ADD along with the rest of the student body at your high school...". I NEED to get help quick, but how am I supposed to approach help, and how do I convince my friend that she doesn't have it, and not everything in this life is "fun". I can't even concentrate on the things I enjoy anymore...

Ok my dad has ADD and he takes medicine to slow down his thinking process. To see if you have it you can stare at a sign and if you keep looking at the sign and notice everything on it then you don't have it. But if you look at the sign and everyting around it and keep looking around and around then you probably do. It is ok if you do get it just go to the doctor and actually see if he thinks you have it. you might then after that take medication like my dad.
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i wanna be a cheerleader but i dont think i can. what knid of things do you have to know how to do.i rate good

Well 2 be a cheerleader you have to be pretty felxible and you have to be able to do gymnastics pretty well. You also have 2 be a really fit and cheery. YOU CAN'T BE REALLY SHY!
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i like this boy for a while but he never knew. today i walked into my class and he strait out tells me he found something out..so i asked what and hes like "you like me.." and i kinda got all nervous and wwent to the bathroom and when i come back hes like teasing me..like saying "oh. why wont you turn around..?" and cutsy stuff like that.. by him being so forword does that mean he might like me? or am i just crazy and having wishful thinking?

i'm sorry but that probably means he doesn't but just let ur life run and c if he actually does or not
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I want to get a cat 2 weeks from now. I know that I will be a responsible owner and that I'm old enough to make my own decisions (20). So even if I know that my mom wouldn't allow me to get a cat (because for her it is a "waste of time and money"), Iam getting one! by adoption..

How can I make her less mad when I surprise her with my adopted cat?

Well just tell her the cat will keep you comforted and entertained and it is my compainion. also tell her that u will b totally responsible of it. (if u can handle it)
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I have this problem because I have hair on my upper lip just a little bit kind of and what should I do about it?? I tried bleaching it should I try waxing it but I am afraid it would hert please help me (age 13 1/2) thanks!

R u a boy? It could be a beard growing in. you could shave it. i don't know if waxing would hurt probably though. but i'm a girl u know
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well it goes like dis:some times i dont no wheter my friends are my friends or not cause first day talk 2 me like day really ma friends then lata they dont talk 2 me like i'm a stranger or day TRY 2 dis me around people. what should i do? i am confused. are day really my friends?

What i think you should do is ask them "r u my friend?" if they say yes then try and say "well then stop dissing me every other day" Some day they probably will make up there mind whether 2 b ur friend or not
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OK for the school talent show, aside from singing, an act I will do is dance with my friends. I was wondering if you guys think Helena by My Chemical Romance is a good song to dance to. I was either thinking that or !,2 step by Ciara. We will most likely be doing Helena and I was wondering if you guys think my friends and I should do the moves the dancers do on the video or make up our own. We have until towards the middle of the month. Thanks

P.S~ if you want to see the video of Helena go here http://music.yahoo.com/ar-309929-videos--My-Chemical-Romance (hit the one that just says Helena not Helena laucnh preformance or whatever)

I think you should do Helena and make up ur own moves. If u didn't isn't that copyrighting? Well good luck
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I just found out my boyfriend is a bisexual...i don't know what to do, it freaks me out

Lucy

Well if you like him then keep going out with him. If you don't then just dump him.
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Well me and this guy are friends I like him and stuff well he wants to go to the movies this weekend but my mom said I cant date until im 17. I told her its just as friends but she still says no. Just because she iddnt start dating until she was 17 doesnt mean she had to do that to me. What should I do? I really realllly wanna go with him.

Ok well what I would do is get some other friends to go and tell your mom that it is going to be whoever and whoever and this guy. My mom would probably say it is ok. You might also want to try to just say your girlfriends are going (the whoevers)
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