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Does anyone know any inspirational sayings? I am in need of inspiration.

~Nokomis~ (link)
Stand up for what you believe in, even if it means standing alone.

Its not whether you get knocked down. Its whether you get up again.

Watch your thoughts; they become words.

Watch your words; they become actions.

Watch your actions; they become habits.

Watch your habits; they become character.

Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.

Never regret. If it's good, it's wonderful. If it's bad, it's experience.

Every great achievement was once considered impossible.

The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.

You were not born a winner, and you were not born a loser. You are what you make yourself be.

When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile.

It's not what you know, it's what you do with what you know.

A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step

There are two kinds of people, those that do the work and those that take the credit. Try to be in the first group, there is less competition there.

Sometimes people put up walls, not to keep others out, but to see who cares enough to break them down.

Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.
.::*hope these helped u*::.

XoO Sammie Xo


I want to tell my friends how much they mean to me and they lov hearing quotes. Could someone tell me so cute friendship quotes? (link)
If all my friends were to jump off a bridge, I wouldn't jump with them, I'd be at the bottom to catch them

Everyone hears what you say. Friends listen to what you say. Best friends listen to what you don't say.

My friend, if I could give you one thing, I would wish for you the ability to see yourself as others see you. Then you would realize what a truly special person you are.

Truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, and impossible to forget.

Friend: One who knows all about you and loves you just the same.

I believe in angels, the kind that heaven sends. I'm surrounded by angels, and I call them my best friends.

A real friend is someone who you can sit in complete silence with and still walk away feeling like you just had the best conversation of your life.

Friends are like stars, they come and go, but the ones that stay are the ones that glow

Friendship isn't about whom you have known the longest... It's about who came, and never left your side...

Of all the friends I've ever met, you're the one I won't forget and if I die before you do I'll go to heaven and wait for you.

Side by side or miles apart, dear friends are always close to the heart.

Because once upon a time, we were best friends. And, yes, there's been a lot of bad stuff in between. But none of that matters right now, okay? You need me, I'm there. Any time, any place, anywhere

What's Tommy without Chuckie , What's Steve without Blue , What's Spongebob without Patrick , It's me without you

.::*hope this helped*::.

XoO Sammie Xo


i like this guy but my best friend likes him alot!!
i dont know what to do i dont wont to like him but i cant help it i cant stop thinking about him i dont know what to do HELP
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Sometimes you just can't help your emotions. Even though your friend likes him, you have the right to like people too even if its the same guy. I know you dont' want to becuz your friend does but if you like the guy you have feelings and you should ask him out becuz it's your feelings and your emotions so go for it becuz your friend can ask him out if she wants to but i would if i were you, becuz if your friend asks him out he might say yes and you'll be stuck thinking about him knowing you can't have him.
.::*hope i helped*::.

XoO Sammie Xo


Okay, one of my friends who used to be a really good friend of mine is mad at me. She says I follow her every-where, and do every-thing like her. But I don't, I wish we could just be friends again, but she won't even talk to me. I don't know what to do, I'm so confuzed! Please help! I rate!!

Thanks, a desperate friend! (link)
Ok...i kinda know you and i know the "some one" it's about and i'll give you the answer. She feels as if you're staying around her too much like when she's trying to do something with somebody else and not with you. She doesn't want to be around you her the whole day. She likes you a lot and wants to be your friend but she needs time apart of you sometimes. She doesn't think that you do everything like her, She just thinks that you are trying to stay with her the whole day instead of letting her b with other people during the day. She has a lot of friends and wants to be with them sometimes too. Just try to bak off. She really apologizes if she acted like she was trying to pick a fight. She wsa just trying to tell you something. Thanks.
.::*Friends Always*::.

XoO Sammie Xo


Hey do you know any cute quote sites? That have more than just love quotes like quotes about friends and idk just cute quotes? Thanks lots! :) (link)
My favorite is www.boardofwisdom.com. There's a ton of quotes there in catagories like Friendship, Love, Wisdom, Humor, Fun Phrases, Inspirational, Movies, Life, Sports, and even more.
.::*hope i helped*::.

XoO Sammie Xo


Hi, I'm sorry to bother you, but I noticed on your column you have two pictures, very cute by the way, I was wondering if you could tell me specificly how you did it, because I'd like to have two pictures on my column.
thanks. (link)
I went to www.msndollies.com and i right clicked it then went down to Save Picture As and save it to your pictures. Then, if you don't have an account at www.photobucket.com, sign up for it (it's free!) and add albums to your account and then add pictures to those albums with your picture that you have saved. (there's a browse button at Photobucket so u can pick out the picture that you want.Then once it's in your album there's the tag, and the URL. if you want your picture in the left hand corner like mine...then you have to find the space on the Profile Settings in advicenators that says URL a picture of you. Find the space in photobucket that says URL under the pictureyou want there. Copy and paste that code in that space that says URL a picture of you and put that code there. then if you want a picture anywhere else in your profile then you just copy and paste the Tag in photobucket into the big profile box in profile settings.
.::*hope i helped*::.

XoO Sammie Xo


okay. my bestest friend EVER is having a birthday soon. i want to write a poem and have it framed. the poem has to say how good a friend she is. can anyone help me out??? PLEASE!!! (link)
When we first talked to each other
I knew we would always be friends.
Our friendship has kept on growing
And I'll be here for you to the end.

You listen when I have a problem
And help dry the tears from my face.
You take away my sorrow
And put happiness in its place.

We can't forget the fun we've had
Laughing 'til our faces turn blue.
Talking of things only we find funny
People think we're insane-If they only knew!

I guess this is my way of saying thanks
For catching me when I fall.
Thanks once again for being such a good friend
And being here with me through it all.


.::*hope i helped*::.

XoO Sammie Xo


hey where did you get your music for ur advice column at? thanx by the way u give really good advice (link)
Thanks so much! I got it a www.diamondrains.com
There's a ton of songs there so u have a really wide selection.
.::*hope i helped*::.

XoO Sammie Xo


Dear Sammie, I have a problem, and maybe you can help me. I have a crush on this guy, lets call him Bob. Okey, so I've known Bob for a while but he didnt really know who I was until I introduced myself on IM. I used to think that he was one of those popular jerks, but hes really really sweet and i started liking him and I dont know if he likes me. I wanna tell him sooo bad but i cant because Bob is the popular type and im lyke the geeky smart regular person. what should I do???

please help me,
GEEK.LOVE
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You should definitly get it to him that you like him somehow. Like ask one of your friends to tell him on IM or tell him yourself. I've done it before to a guy that im realy close with so..if you're not close with him it's really not thta bad..becuz when i told the guy...it wasn't hard at all. You never know if he'll like you becuz even if he's popular and "shallow" He woudln't know what you looked like anyways. I say go for it and like my pic says at the top of this column..."Dare to Dream....".

.::*hope i helped*::.

XoO Sammie Xo


When my b/f puts his arm around my shoulder is it beeter to put my arm around his shoulder or waist (link)
His waist cuz it makes u feel cozy

.::*hope i helped*::.

XoO Sammie Xo


ii havent got my period for the month of february n i was supposed to get it around february 24th n i didnt! what does this mean ii mean i just satrted november 2004 (link)
Ur irregular for about the maybe the first months to a year when u start so u dont need to worry.
.::*hope i helped*::.

XoO Sammie Xo


For health class i have to pick an anti-drug..like yeah kno...sports.. my anti-drug, but i can't think of any. I don't wanna use sports cuz sum1 already has it? does any1 hav some ideas? thnx (link)
Friendship, Love, Dedication, Strength, Hope, Faith, Jesus, Family
.::*hope i helped*::.

XoO Sammie Xo


Ok im gonna get right to the point. I really really like this kid in my class but the prob is hes really popular. I mean we hang out and stuff,but i have like no chance of getting him. One reason is he keeps going on and off wit this one girl. But we flirt all the time. (and i mean him 2) So I really dont kno wat to do to get his attention. PLEASE HELP ME!!! (o im 13/f nd so is he)



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Ok...I know it's hard to like a popular person becuz well..they kinda flirt with everyone. But if you really want his attention..Have someone tell him that you like him. Becuz you never know what he's thinking. Never say you don't have a chance becuz well...boys are weird and you never know what goes on inside their brains so he could very possibly like you too. I really suggest that you tell him becuz well..one: that will definitly get his attention. two: You'll get it off your chest and even if he doesn't like u, u still know that you don't have to keep it a secret any longer. Just tell him and see what happens.
.::*hope i helped*::.

XoO Sammie Xo


OK one of my good friends is sorta crazy. Shes always going on bout how ugly she is nd she once attempted to kill herself.I dont kno y she thinks shes ugly cuz she has had more b/f this year than sum people do in 5!!! Plz help me to get her to realize shes not wat she thinks she is!!


~* Want To Be A Good Friend *~ (link)
OMG she tried to kill herself??? That's really not good. She should really go see somebody about it like talk to a counselor at her school or something like that. Her family life at home may not be the best and i know that some parents are pushing their kids to be perfect nowadays. Ask her if everythings alright and when she says she's ugly tell her...no you're not and even if you were, it wouldn't matter becuz ur beautiful no matter what anybody says. Say that she has got a ton of friends behind her and that you're all supportive of her.
.::*hope i helped*::.

XoO Sammie Xo


Hey Sammie,
You know me and i asked for your advice before but i need it again. Well one of my friends is being well i don't know, not nice lets put it that way. She is going out with this kid who is really annoying and is a nerd. She isn't going 2 break up and she is mad at me cause we aren't really getting along together very well. I don't think going out with him is the best choice for her but she thinks it is. What should i do? I can't stand him but she likes him. Please help!
One of your friends (link)
I have had friends go out with people i can't stand and i kinda had to deal with. Try to talk to her and see why she is being mean to you, and make sure this guy isn't making her this way. I just tried to stay away from the guy as much as possible cuz well...i couldn't stand to be around him. You shouldn't try to get her to break up with him becuz if she really thinks that this guy is special...well...would u want someone to tell you that your bf sucked?..didn't think so. Try to live with it and try to talk with her and tell her that you just don't get along with her bf but that doens't mean that they should break up.
.::*hope i helped*::.

XoO Sammie Xo


I have a botfriend, but he says that i could do so much better then him and he almost broke up wit me on friday night. I'm only 12 and i go to kitley...But he was cryin on the phone when i was talkin to him, i was cryin to...cuz i mean i luv him so much. We've been together for about three weeks now. Now i'm scared that he is gonna break up wit me. I'm goin to the basketball game wednesday night, but i dont know if i want to now, bcuz he will b there and i dont wanna get hurt. Sammie, u know me...but i'm not gonna say my name on here...I really hope u can help me...cuz i need it!
signed,
*purdue chick* (link)
Ok...I don't know if i'd wanna go to his game either if he was gonna break up with me..but even if he doesn't do it at his game, he probly will some other time. I know you dont wanna get hurt..but if he really wants to break up with you he will whether you are at his game or not. This guys sounds like he has mixed up feelings or something and you should really talk to him about it. See if he's going to break up with you or he really is going to be with you.
.::*hope i helped*::.

XoO Sammie Xo


which part of the egg has protein or the most protein? (link)
It's the white part of it.
.::*hope i helped*::.

XoO Sammie Xo


well u c theres this one kid who is a good friend of mine that im constantly thinking about all the time, i think im starting to like him a lot, but i dont want to like him, and i dont no what to do, every time i think about him i tell my self not to but i cant help it. i cant concentrate on my classwork. ohh ya and im a f/13
and hes a m/14. i really dont want to like him that way, but now i cant help it. what do i do?!?!?!
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This has happened to me before...sux doesn't it?
Anyways...Sometimes u just can't help what you're feeling so you might have to face your feelings. But if you really don't want to lke this kid the only other option i can think of is not to talk to him as much.I know it would suck to not talk to him as much but if you really don't want to like this kid..then that might be ur only option. Another option would be to try to find somebody else that has a really good personality and try to grow on them and get your mind off of this other kid. I'm really sorry if this isn't exactly what you wanted but i did try and and i did my best.
.::*really hope i helped*::.

XoO Sammie Xo


My friends trying to quit smoking, he asked me for adviced and I told him to use those patch thingys. But is there any other ways to quit smoking? If you smoked, and now you dont..how'd you stop? Thanks and I'll rate everyone! (link)
Ok..i've never smoked but you could ask your doctor about different pills that can be prescribed to help. If you get gum prescribed by a doctor that is made to help stop smoking habits.
.::*hope i helped*::.

XoO Sammie Xo


I love skirts and i thynk they`re so cute but i`m not confident enough to wear them becuase of my legs. mainly the calfs[sp] are there any exercies i can to the thin them out? I appreciate all the advice i can get.. thanx (link)
Yea..If you run around your block or somethin like that everyday that'll burn some of the fat off of your legs. Also..if you have an excercise bike or just a regular bike..ride it. If you have an excercise bike..then spend 20-30 minutes riding it. if u have a real bike..ride it around your neighborhood or wherever you live. You can also do those bicycle workouts that u lay on your back and you make your legs go like you're riding a bike.
.::*hope i helped*::.

XoO Sammie Xo




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