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Ok, this is my problem. A girl in my class seemed really nice at the begining of the year, but now she's getting on my nerves. She thinks she knows everything and won't ever agree with me. She acts like my best friend, but then when we're around her "popular" friends she acts like she doesn't know me. I've tried telling her, but she won't listen. How do I get her to realize that she's not better than me?

if your friend is like that, to tell you the truth, shes a total wannabe. I say to try to talk to her again. Just IM her or something and go "[[girl's name here]], we need to talk" and tell her exactly what's going on. If she doesnt listen to you, then frankly she isnt a real friend because she doesnt even give you time to explain. friends depend on eachother to be honest and open if they want to, and apparently your friend here isnt doing that. I hope I helped, and if you need anything else feel free to leave something in my inbox.

xOo Nikki xO

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ive been with my boyfriend for a 3 weeks and we were originally planning to keep it a secret so no one would bug us. well, now every knows and wants to know all the details (have u kissed yet...how far have you gone..) and i really dont know what to do besides tell them to shut up and stay out of it. thanks in advance.

I know how it feels when people are all up in your shit about stuff and you're all like "EVERYONE JUST SHUT UP ABOUT IT!!". I would tell you to ignore them or tell them that you dont want to be bothered, but I see that you've been through that already. I suggest that you guys pretend to break up, to make a neutral silence. and then start over and try to keep it more of a secret, and if you're gonna tell anybody, make sure that they're trustworthy enough to keep it a secret. I really hope I helped. If you need anything else, feel free to ask me.

xOo Nikki xO

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I was in Disney like 5 years ago, and I was wondering- what do you think is the best place of interest in that area? Like Epcot, Universal, Disney, or should I make it a point to maybe visit all three?

Universal Studios is definitely the best, because they have a bunch of rides and stuff. 3D Movies....rides....games...and everything else lol. But really, you can visit all three. They're all pretty cool. Hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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In high school, we get to choose which language we want to take- French or Spanish. I signed up for Spanish, but I'm having second thoughts. I like French a lot more, but I want to do what's best for me. Does anyone have any pros or cons for taking a certain language, or just general advice on what I should do? Thanks!

Personally, I dont care which language you take, because the choices you're choosing from are very benificial. You can use Spanish more after you use it because if you visit other countries you'll be able to know what they're saying. But then again French is good too because if you ever go to Canada, some Canadians speak French. Both of them are really good, but I suggest that you take spanish because its more benificial and more people know the language, and as far as i'm concerned, mexicans are invading the united states as we speak. But seriously, if you take French, that wouldnt be too bad too. Who knows, maybe you'll be an interpreter when you grow up -- they pay a lot of money for jobs like that. I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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Does anyone think it is absolutley gross for a grade 7 to go out with a grade 8?

and why?

I dont think it's gross because --cmmon-- its just one grade and one year, I've seen worst. My friend Colton, his parents are 10 years apart. 10!!!!!!! Yeah, lol. sOo thats pretty normal for just one year.

xOo Nikki xO

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I have very vivide dreams where I can feel everything is this normal?

Yeah its totally normal...and AWESOME! Lol..its totally normal to have vivid dreams where you can feel everything. I heard dreaming gives your brain excersise sOo..yeah, lol. Hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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so i REALLY wanna be a freshman cheerleader but the problem is when i get in front of the judges i like freeze up and forget stuff like last year i messed up on my cheer and wasn't very loud cuz i was like omg judges so does anyone know how i could get over my fear of the judges?

Okey, first of all, lets get rid of the nervousness. My drama club teacher taught me this a few years back:: Look right above the judges' heads. If you do that, you wont have to see their faces yet the judges will think you're looking straight at them. Next thing, just say to yourself "Okey, the judges are here for CHEERLEADING, which means I HAVE to be loud." Judges want you to be the best you'll be so they'll know if you're physically and mentally ready for cheerleading. Just remember that the judges arent there to make you nervous or make you scared. They're there to --hopefully-- make you a cheerleader.I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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okey, i didn't know what category to put this in so i just chose love life. Anyway I was wondering about all the sweet nicknames.. I mean everytime a guy calls me babe or darling i die inside..seriously just a name can make me fall. But what can we call guys? Is there anything we can say to make them shiver? can we call them babe? Is there any laid back names? (like you know if we're just talking on msn and he says : hey, babe - what's up? Can we say something like that, even if we're not dating? cuz guys can use babe howvever..do we have anything like that? Something that will make them all nervous and stuff or just happy. And nothing that will make them embarresed, like darling is probably too feminin for them..Thanx!//marlena

Call them something like Baby Boy or Baby. Never call them Darling, lol...to feminine, I gotta admit, too...Also, you can add the word "Baby" after their name. I call alla my friends by baby names, lol. I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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im almost 14 and i still havent been kissed or had a boyfriend is that normal??? I feel like im abnormalk or something...

Yeah, its totally normal. Its just that you havent found the right person yet. Dont feel so abnormal, Im sure lots of people are lke that. I'm positive. hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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im in student gov and we have to plan the spring dance. does anyone have any ideas for a theme? plz no under the sea or hawiian. thnx!

Do a masked ball, or maybe something fun like a costume party or sumtin like that. I hope I helped. Reply to me if you need more ideas.

xOo Nikki xO

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Sometimes when a girl likes a guy a lot, she becomes dumb around him and can't think of anything to say. Well, I'm like that. I'm too nervous to say anything, I never talk to him unless he talks to me... I think he has a crush on me, cause I really never noticed him until he started talking to me . And I developed a crush on him .
The problem is that everyone's telling me
"dont walk up to him, people will start talking"
That's one of the reasons I'm too nervous to talk to him!
When is the perfect time to talk to a guy you like? should I start saying hi to him instead of waiting for him to say hi to me? never really say hi to him, he always does and I reply.
Please dont delete this question, I need the advice. I rate of course.

Okey, first of all lets get rid of some of your nervousness. when people say "Dont walk up to him, people will start talking" then dont listen to them!! I mean, cmmon you walk up to a person and say "Hi" Oooooh what a big deal! Dont listen to those people, they're juss trying to scare you. The next time you see him just go up to him and say hi. It's really easy!! I promise you theres no pressure. I mean, all he's gonna do is say "Hi" back and maybe talk to you a little. Oh yeah, by the way, the perfect time to talk to your crush is ANY TIME. I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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this girl that says im her best friend always talks about my other friends behind their back, so i tell them because i dont think its right for her to do that. The other day she was talking about one of my friends named danielle, and so i told danielle this weekend and dnaielle said that my suppose to best friend called me a spoiled brat and a bitch and said that she doesnt hang out wtih me that much because i act stuck up .. but she is always calling me. I talked to the best friend and she siad she didnt say that, but how do i know because she always talks about everyone else to me. What should i do? i rate high!!

Well, heres the thing. No friend talks about other best friends behind their backs. If she really did call you all of that then shes not worth being your friend! Nobody deserves to be treated like junk, even if they talk junk to other people. So, what I'm trying to say to you is::Drop her. Otherwise, just tell her to stop talking about you and your other friends behind their backs. I hope I helped. Tell me how it turns out.

xOo Nikki xO

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Hi, I'm going to a carnival dance and I'm not sure on what to wear. The weather is in the high forties to low fifties, but the place of the dance is EXTREMELY HOT.

Is this a good outfit:

White tank, black miniskirt, and pink tweed heels

OR .. ANY SUGGESTIONS? AND HAIR SUGGESTIONS? I'll rate high for appropriate answers.

I think that outfit would be tremendouesly...PERFECT!! Lol...and as for the hair, maybe crimp it or curl it a little bit. Dont make it too complicated, it aint your wedding, you know what I mean? Or maybe put it in a messy bun? You can also add some cute bracelets or a really cool ankle bracelets!! If you're gonna use earrings, I suggest you dont use the hoops. Anyway, I hope I helped!

xOo Nikki xO

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I have a problem with boys, none of them like me. If one of my friend's tells a boy I like them they pretend to gag and stuff. Well I was at a dance and there was this really hot boy and my friend asked him to dance with me and he said no so my other friend asked him and he said I have a girlfriend as an excuse to not make me feel upset. What can I do to get boys to like me?

You can't get boys to like you. You need a guy that will like you for you, not just because you change yourself to be more attractive. I mean, maybe now you cant find a guy who will like you, but someday you will, and thats a garuntee. Like I always say, sometimes a person who likes you is a stranger to you or one of your best friends. I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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hey i noticed you added me to your favorite columnists, thats really cool ! I was looking at your site and its really neat, how did you get the pop up thing on your site and how and where did you get your music?? Hey if ya wanna talk sometime just IM on renfro sayS :)
ill rate!

Hey!! Lol thanks for the compliments ;] Anyway, I got the music off of Diamondrains.com, it says it at the top of my column. And as for the stuff with the pop ups, email me about that. I usually dont show that website to public because, you kno, if everyone started going there it wouldnt be cool...so email me at hoodiebaby3@yahoo.com and I'll give you the site. I'll try to IM you when I can :)

xOo Nikki xO

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okay well my two best friends started going out... why does that bother me???



mods please DONT delete pleasee

Maybe because they leave you out of everything, or maybe you're jealous. I'd hate if my two best friends went out because I would feel left out. I wouldnt blame you if it bothered you. I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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is it bad to pop your knuckles? Some people say it is and others say it isn't...

Yeah it's pretty bad because when you get older you'll get artritis. Hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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One of my best friend's brother died in a car crash because of street racing. Tomorrow I am going to his funeral with our friends and to be there for my friend. I really dont know what to wear and what I'm supposed to do there. Do I bring a gift. I feel really bad. He was onlt 17 years old. Please help.

You wear something formal like a tux/dress. And you'll probably see some people you know there, so you can just talk to them and cry if you feel sad of course :( of course, its always nice to bring a gift. maybe bring a rose to put on his grave. I hope I helped, my friend's parents died so I know how you feel.

xOo Nikki xO

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Okay, one of my friends who used to be a really good friend of mine is mad at me. She says I follow her every-where, and do every-thing like her. But I don't, I wish we could just be friends again, but she won't even talk to me. I don't know what to do, I'm so confuzed! Please help! I rate!!

Thanks, a desperate friend!

Well, I mean, I kinda have a friend like that. Sometimes people get tired of someone hanging around them 24/7. I mean, they have a life, too. So one day just go up to the mirror or something and ask yourself. "What do I do to make this person mad?" And maybe go up to her and ask her what you did wrong. I mean, its probably not your fault because you probably didnt notice it. I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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Hey i've been working with the same SN since 7th grade almost and now i'm a 9th grader...i want a new sn heres somethings about me or words i want in it.

Icy
Figure skater
Pink
silver
16
18

thats all i can think of right now i hope you guys can help me. THANKS IN ADVANCE!

-IcyFigureSk8er18
-IceRider16
-SilverSkater18
-IceSkater16

Thats all i can think of right now. if u need more, feel free to ask me.

xOo Nikki xO

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