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HEYYYYYYYYYYYYY! its missy lol well i thought it would be really fun to give people advice...so i guess dont me afraid to ask me anything

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ok i had this 1 best friend but we got in a big fight and now we arent friends anymore. But now she is turning all my other friends and other people against me. they are all spreading rumors like that i have aids and that i give out blow jobs and other things. one of the people even brought a knife to school and treatened to kill me. i have tried to become her friend again but its not working. she is callling me a slut cause i made out with her x-bf but then the next day she goes and has sex with him. how do i get the rumors to stop? and how can i get all these people not to hate me anymore?

ok oviously those people arent your real friends! you deserve better than that no matter who you are!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and your old friends sound horrible so ditch them and dont even worry about them because if they were ur true friends they wouldnt talk shit about you! but rumors are really hard to stop BELIEVE ME you just need to tell people the truth and if you didnt do whatever they are saying then just tell yourself you didnt and ignore those fags! that really sucks and im sorry!

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ok well i have a best friend and we keep getting in all these fights and saying things we dont mean like the littlest things she does can make me SO mad or SO happy but lately it just seems like ive been getting mad more often. One second i love her to and the next im so ticked off. Sometimes it seems like she favors other people over me and it makes me sad.
What should i do to stop the fighting? How do i try to oversee the little things she does that make me mad/ sad? and how do we just be happy as best friends? thanks for your help!

like i have said so many times fighting is just something that comes along with friendship... but if yall are bestfriends there is no way that she could favor someone more than you i think she just has met cool people that she likes to hang out with too! but if she is doing things that make you mad or sad you shouldnt ignore you need to be honest because if shes your best friend she should understand how you feel!


i hope i helped!

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hey is there such thing as relying on a friend for too much

no never!thats what friends are for

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ok well me and like my best friend r like rly rly close...but lately it seems like she hates me and she dosnt wanna b my firend..sometimes she makes it seem like she dosnt wanna talk 2 me bout stuff and that she jus hates me or something..n when i dont do something with her thats tottaly stupid she gets pissed..n weve been gettin in fights SO much lately..like at least 12 times a month..idk if its jus me..but what do u think??

most people get into a lot of fights with there friends! a little is nothing to worry about but to much isnt cool and its just a waste of time! but the most important thing is what yall are fighting over if its a missunderstand then you should both realize its ridiculous and move on and get over it but if its important or serious things yall are fighting over then the best thing i think yall should do is talk about it! im sure your friend doesnt hate you tho like she might be going through alot and haveing a really bad day or week or whatever so im sure she does want to talk to you but just be there for her and ask her if she needs to talk about anything and let her know that your there for her even if she is ok! fighting can bring you closer or seperate you but just try your best to not get into fights and if you do then just talk about it shortly and say sorry (even if u think its all her fault) cause for me that helps and brings things back to normal...i hope this helped! feel free to ask me anything and good luck with your friend :)

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ok this girl i introduced to that guy i really like is really starting to get on my nerves, we're all 3 in a chat room right now and she is like flirting like crazy and it's about to drive me insane. i can tell she's getting on his nerves because he's not joking around about it anymore but it's like really getting to me...what should i do..

i wrote the last one saying "i think i made a really bad mistake by introducing this guy i REALLY like to this girl" and the one about "my friend and i have been fighting a lot lately" just so u have an idea of who is writing all these

ok it seems like she is trying to rub this guy in your face and try to prove to you that she can get him? idk but thats what it seems like it and its a good thing for you if shes getting on his nerves but can you please im me cause this advice thing is kinda hard to write back and forth

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hey its fran and i just wanted to tell you what great advice you have and even though your leaving me for michelle i understand...hopefully we can work things out BEST FRIENDS FOR LIFE
~Francesca(a.k.a. Fran)~

FRAN!!!!!!!!! *cough michelle cough* you are seriously the funniest person i know LMAO

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Ok well see this girl and i have been best friends since all i can remember.(well we became friends this year)and now all of a sudden shes ditching me for some weird guy who doesnt even speak her own slang and my guacamole is hotter than him and she said that green curdory pants are ugly and that smiles with sprinkles are the most disgusting thing that shes ever eaten and that she would rather sleep in a tree fort than on the trampoline and it is just really hurting my feelings and now shes getting my name mixed up with some other girl named FRAN!its getting to the point to where i dont even want to split my zebra cakes with her at lunch anymore!its bad.think you have any advice?

ahhhh michelle (aka raven) your so freaking hillarious but heres some advice...never ever stop spliting the sebra cakes hahah thats the funnest part of lunch!!!!!!!! and the whole tree fort trampoline thing most be a friend and i know this girl is secertly craving green curdory pants in the inside...even tho she likes salsa doesnt mean that you cant like guacamole...but just dont put to much salt in it hahahahahahhah and dont worry i opps i mean she is steering clear of this weird guy who doesnt speak her language...well my brothers friends are tossing me around hahahahah so i gotta jet but feel free to ask me questions anytime lol


michelle BFFL!!!!!!!!!! hahah so many crazy parties and good times

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hey missy i just wanted to say thanks for the great advice..i'll let you know how it goes. you give really good advise! thanks!

oh no problem at all! i love helping people! lol i dont know which question you asked but yeah! if you want IM me at missyhlovesya so i know who you are!

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ok i think i made a big mistake...i introduced the guy i REALLY like to this girl who likes to flirt and she has already gotten the other guy i sorta like to like her and now they're going out. the guy i really like is also one of my best friends and i don't want anything to harm our friendship or anything. help me please!

ouch im sorry about all of this! but first of all try to be happy for your friends! i totally understand how much it hurts tho but the best thing you can do is tell your friend (the girl) that you like him...but it might not be a good idea to tell her when they are going out! but about this guy...well if yall are good friends then i wouldnt tell him that you like him unless he gives you a hint that he likes you just incase he sees you as just a friend! but the best thing to do is just wait it out and jr high realtionships usually dont last very long so just try to be paitent and if your friend talks about this guy 24/7 then you should say something about likeing him so she can back off lol that situation really sucks tho tell me how everything goes!!!!! SRY

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whats the best guitar in the world

FENDER!!!!!!!!!! defintley...even i know that

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Hey Missy! Ok me and my best friend have known each other since 3rd grade. Shes been there for me through thick and thin, an i have done the same for her too! But my question is, that i have other friends too and they want me to hang out w. them! But when I tell my best friend Im going to hang out w/ them n she can meet us up at the mall or something she gets really pissed off at me! Hoe can I tell her that I can have other friends too?

wow im sure everyone has gone through this...at least alot of people that i know! first of all try to include your best friend but if you just want some time to yourself then she should totally understand and if she doesnt thats really gay! i think you should just be honest to her and say that your gonna hang out with other friends! also never ditch her for them because i have been there and it really hurts! but i bet she has other friends so she needs to realize that you do to! maybe you could tell her that you met some cool people that you dont think that they would get along but just talk to her about it and i hope she understands! sorry this was really hard for me to answer...but i tried...if u have any other problem you can ask me again :) or im me and missyhlovesya but i really hope everything goes ok! oh by the way who is this

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ok..my friend and i have been fighting a lot lately and i always seem to be the cause of it. she absolutely hates this guy who is like my best friend and also happens to be the guy i like at the current time. i don't want something like that to ruin our friendship. what should i do?

ok this is what i think yo should do...tell your friend that you really like this kid and that maybe you see him different than many people but try not to hang out with them together because there might be a little competion but honestly fighting with your friend is ok a little but to much isnt cool...if yall are fighting over stupid little things you need to try to just forgive and forget like for example my bff (kelsey) and i have got in a lot of stupid little arguement but we always make up so its best to just talk about it then move on and go back to normal but remember chick over dicks and never ditch your friend for this guy you like! please tell me how it goes

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okay i really like getting on the roof in the middle of the night for sleepovers.. i mean i get overly excited and wake up from sleep when someone says the word roof.. is this normal??

oh yes this is quite normal...hahahah but there is this really weird girl sarah...i think she witnessed many of these cases hahahah for everyone who wants to know this is what happened

sarah and i slept over at katys house one weekend and i when we were all laying in bed i got realy tired and i was laying in between katy n sarah so to me they were TALKING REALLY LOUD lol but i still fell asleep and every once in a while i would hear a few things they said and i then i heard katy ask sarah if she wanted to go on the roof so i jumped up and was like I WANNA GO ON THE ROOF so yeah then i was really hyper and they got tired but it was so much fun haha

sarah u crack me up!

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ok...if you have a boyfriend but you like another guy more then him but you know that yall would never work out should you break up with your boyfriend? why or why not?

ok thats really hard! i have been there so many times...do you feel bad about liking this other guy? and if there is no chance with him then maybe you should just try to stear clear of him and try to get over him! its really hard...BELIEVE ME but in the end you will be happy but do answer your question just wait a while because sometimes you dont know how much someone means to you untill they are gone TELL ME HOW EVERYTHING GOES!!!! and good luck

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Do you think i should break up with him? i think that he lied to me...but not sure. and he said i love you to me today and we have only been goin out for 2weeks? WHAT DO YOU THINK?! lol

heyyyyyy! ok well i know who this is hahah and your so awesome but about this guy...well he is really nice OVIOUSLY and i doubt he cheated on you but that whole nikki thing is really gay! if i were you i would ask him about it and if he doesnt answer you then it wasnt ment to be! i love ya girl!!!!!!

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