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Question Posted Tuesday August 31 2004, 7:55 pm

okay well my two best friends started going out... why does that bother me???



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SuGaRuSh3810 answered Sunday March 20 2005, 12:03 am:
Maybe because they leave you out of everything, or maybe you're jealous. I'd hate if my two best friends went out because I would feel left out. I wouldnt blame you if it bothered you. I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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shockren-b12 answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 1:05 am:
maybe you are jealous

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XxSXyKaYlYnXx answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 11:20 pm:
YOu ProB ARe thinking that they are gonna leave yah out or your gonna be the 3rd weel.

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BeezKneez answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 11:14 pm:
Ur probably just feeling a little jealousy right now and maybe ur feeling a lil like the "third wheel." Let them have their fun... and always remember that they r still ur best friends no matter wut.

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SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 10:44 pm:
Since they are ur best friends u probably feel like u r gonna be left out a lot since they are gonna want time to their selves... yeah it may be like that @ first but dont worry... it wont be like that for too long :)

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ScOoByGiRL80 answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 10:05 pm:
I think that bothers you because maybe they leave you out on stuff and instead of the 3 of you it seems like the 2 of them and 1 of you!
-ScOoByGiRL80

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BrunetteBeauti answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 9:26 pm:
mb bc u feel left out cuz theyre a couple. dont wrry theyre still ur friendz

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SexXxiiShortiie answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 9:19 pm:
maybe cuz you like one of them...lol

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SNAKE answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 9:08 pm:
ur probably jealous or u just dont feel good wen ur w/ them and their kissin and stuf i no how it is i get the same feelin w/ my bestfriends but it will al go away once they brake up and beleive me they brake up fast at this age ;)

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MeganKristine answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 9:05 pm:
Aw. You probably feel bad because they're your 2 best friends, who you most likely spend a lot of time with, now that they're dateing, they probably will hang out with eachother, more then with you. You're probably feeling left out?


Good luck!


-Megan Kristine-

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BewareOfCat2 answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 8:36 pm:
You probably feel like since they are starting to go out they won't have time for you anymore. Don't worry, I've been in the same situation. It's OK the feel that way. Just respect their new relationship! Hope it all works out!

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girdy_goo15 answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 8:35 pm:
well u probably feel left out. or that you have feelings for one of them.

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joolaygurl89 answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 8:35 pm:
You may like one of them as more of a friend, or they might make you feel like the third wheel.

You should just try to be happy for them, as hard as that may seem.

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XoKaKeYxO answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 8:30 pm:
well LOVe -

you may feel this way because you had never pictured them together.PLUS,they are your bestfriends.also, you may be kinda mad , maybe even jelous , that there going out and maybe you feel discluded.you also may be jelous that she has a boyfriend

KaTE*

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xForeverxForgottenx answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 8:27 pm:
well you might feel this way because now its like they have something between them that doesnt really include you. maybe you feel like things are going to change(i hope they dont) and that it will just be them or something. and you just dont want to lose them. sorry, i havent been in this situation so i can't really help. but good luck.

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A.Good.Lie answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 8:26 pm:
That may bother you because you probably think that now that they're dating, they'll spend more time with eachother and less time with you. And if that's the case, then you should bring it up with them. Maybe you guys could double or something.

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Karen answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 8:25 pm:
I think this bothers you because you love your best friends so much that it's hard for you to see them going out. Don't worry, this feeling will go away once you get used to hanging with them while they are going out. Hope I helped :)

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