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Well my name is Rebecca...I love giving others advice and I love recieving advice...Helping people is what I live for...lol Relationships/Friendships/Families/school
are the main topics I like talking about and helping others with... if you need some advice... just send me a message! thanx!
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Member Since: August 26, 2004
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i recently met this guy about 3 weeks ago and weve hung out and talked on the phone once about 4 times n im pretti sure he likes me but im not totalli sure hes 19 and im 16 and hes mentioned sumthing b4 about him being older but he still hangs out with me n talks to me n stuff we went to the movies the other night and he like flirted with me n everything n bought my ticket but he didnt hold my hand or anything and wen he dropped me off at my house he was just like well ill talk to u online or sumthing n then hes like well if ur on and im like yeah bye i was just wondering if u thin he likes me or not (link)
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he's probably interested but he isn't sure if he wants a relationship cuz the ages...
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If your belly button peircing is infected and bleeding because you messed with it too much as in taking it out and putting it back too much, can you put peroxide on it?! If not what can I put on it?! Thanks (link)
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ummm...well when my sister got her belly button pierced professionally...they told her she could go buy some tree oil...it comes in a lil brownish bottle...and put that on it...or you can use peroxide
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Ok..all my friends have either madeout or done more with there boyfriends. But i havent done nething not even madeout yet. Ive been pressured to do it by my friends but i really dont want to. Im 14..is that bad? (link)
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no...if you're not readi then you're not readi
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Well.. I'm not sure how to put this... last year before school ended.. I started liking this kid named Kevin. Well we dated.. and then decided we didnt know enough about each other to be together so we broke up. Then he said when he gets to know me better we will get back together. I've talked to Kevin ever since school ended and yesterday we hung out all day long.. and he really really likes me. and If i didnt have a boyfriend wed be together. I really like Kevin. My problem is. I have a boyfriend. And I like Kevin more then my own boyfriend. And I'm not sure how to break up with him. Without him knowing that I'm going to be with Kevin. :( Ahh man... I sound like a slut. (link)
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well...why don't ya...find a reason you wanna break up with your boyfriend...then like a week later...or a few weeks later...start going out with Kevin...sorri if I didn't help
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*sry if to long but please read*
well im in 7th grade and we have some 8th graders in my PE class. and theres this guy i think is pretty cute but ive never met him but were always kinda glancen at each other every once in a while n stuff and it might be a bit obvious that i think hes cute but idk if he thinks i am. anyways so today he was talking to these 2 girls and i was talking to 1 of my friends and one of them turned around and was all hey do yall think hes cute? so i was like uhh idk and i said softly (well i hope softly) liek not really and my friend was like no and they were like omg i think hes cute n stuff and i was kinda blushing. i would go out with him if he wanted to go out with me but im not sure and i REALLY hope that that didnt make any of a difference. id really kno what im asking, i just need someone to kinda tell me if i did the right thing or not
please help...x3 (link)
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well if he was near by you should've acted like you didn't know he was like and be like "OMFG YES HE"S HOT" lol...then he might be like "Kool she likes me I can make my move" haha but now...he might know all your friends or whoever said they think he's cute...and he might try and get with one of them
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Hey! I have a problem....okay..I told my best friend to tell this guy that I like him and now he is nervous to even talk to me...and now I feel the same way about him.....I'm confused! What do I do? (link)
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lol this has always happened to me...still does every once in a while...just knowing that they know I like them...or knowing that he likes me...kinda...gets me nervous...but I just try and not be alone with them...I try and be in a group with them...so I can act my self and not worri about it
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Ok im 14 and a 34 in like ltd 2 bras that is wicked small!!! but im fit! and i went through everything.. im going to be a freshman in a couple of days!!! what do i do!!! im small! and i cant wait for them to groww!!! and guys are going to not want to go out with me HELP!!!! and dont tell me to stuff cause that is like so obviose!!!
signed so SMALL!! (link)
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lol...alotta muh friends that are in highschool are really small I'm in 8th and I'm bigger than them...but I don't think there's anyway of helping them grow...sorri
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okay well my two best friends started going out... why does that bother me???
mods please DONT delete pleasee (link)
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maybe cuz you like one of them...lol
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My friend smokes..and hes 13. Im trying to ask him to quit and i give him my point of view. Ive tried almost everything in the book..so dont say talk to him. i have. (link)
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well...I mean I know alotta people that smoke...I sue to then quit...I mean it's their life...I understand you care about him...but...sometimes cigerettes and calm you down...and help you be relaxed...cuz that's what it did for me...well sorri I couldn't help
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I'm 14/f and I've never had a real boyfriend. My only "boyfriend" if you can him that lasted for 1/2 day and I broke up with him because I get all nervous around guys that like me. I get really sweaty and light headed, sometimes my stomach starts to hurt too. Is this a normal reaction to guys that like me? I have also never kissed a boy. What is the average age for first kisses? (link)
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Well my first kiss was when I first turned 13 and I'm gettin readi to be 14 in sept....well when I first started having boyfriends I'd be really quiet and nervous around them...and then I just started actin my self...and if they don't like who I truely am then they don't deserve me...yeah this might sound kinda weird but when I use to talk to my boyfriends on the phone I'd start feeling sick...it was weird lol...let things happen naturally...don't worri bout kissing...find someone u really care about and they care about you as well...and then worri bout the kissing...hope i helped
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Hi im 13 and am a female and am 5'2 weighing 150 pounds i wear a size 9 in juniors....my mom said that its baby fat and when i hit a growth spirt it will be gone but im not really thinking she is right anymore how can i loose this weight fast?? Also i have no friends...i kinda am a loner, im in 8th grade and everyone is clickish and dont except me...and I HATE STANDING OUT IT MAKES ME FEEL LIKE A LOSER! also i really truly love this guy austin he is soo perfect, perfect height, weight, brownish blonde hair brown eyes, plays sports popular and as you can see im no hottie. also eh is really mature and when im around him i start acting weird...and kinda immature how can i mature...YOU WONT HURT MY FEELINGS! (link)
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Well this kinda reminds me of me...I'm kinda chubby yes...I do situps/crunches...eat healthy things...drink water...and juice...slow it on the junk and the soda...ummm do you wear makeup? if not...ask ur mom or someone to get you some...some eyeliner, mascara & eyeshadow...get a blackeyeliner, black mascara and a silver pinkish eyeshadow if u need help with putting it on...ask an older sister...or get a magazine...and look at how famous people do it and kinda copy 'em...and when you're around austin act like he's someone else...let him get to know you and how you are around others...and you shouldn't really care about fitting in...and being popular...hope I helped
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Im 13 years old and im very scared. This summer my boyfriend who wasnt my boyfriend then got out of jail for drugs. He said he would change for me and I believe him. We've been goin out now and Last night he called me crying sayin he thinks he is going back to jail. All I know is that his dad and him got into an arguement and that he wants to move in with his grandparents. And He wouldnt answer me why He thought he was going to jail again. Then he said he had to go and that he loved me and he never called back. I dont know if he went to school today or not, but Im really scared and I dont know what to do about it. Should I call him and ask him about it or what? Last night I cried all night long. I tried calling 2 times and nobody answered. I dont want to loose him. What do I do? (link)
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omg! i had a similar situation it sucked...i hope everything gets better...but yeah...keep trying to call him...call his friends...or something...sorri that i couldn't really help...
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how do u get an icon 4 ur column? (link)
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ummm well go to a site...find one...i get alot from the people on greatestjournal.com well...go there... right click on the image...click save as...name it...then come back here...under either column settings or profile settings...there's a place where it says something bout having a pic of you on your advice column...well click browse and then find your picture click open...and then there ya go hope i helped...might be a lil confusing
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Ok, I have blue-ish eyes with green around my pupil. I have tan skin. School is starting soon and I wanna make my eyes stand out. Like when I'm walking down the hall, I want people to turn around and be like "Who's that girl". What kinds of colors of eye makeup such as eye shadow, mascara, and eyeliner should I use. I'm going into the 8th grade also. Please help! Thanks (link)
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hey well...the eyeliner should be black...make it kinda dark...not too dark...mascara...black..get it on there kinda heavy but not too heavy...eye shadow...do a silver pinkish color...it's very cute...i've seen it on alotta girls @ my school...that have your eye color...I have brown...I wear silverish eyeshadow...mascara and black eyeliner
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I have a friend and me and her have been friends sense 4th grade we're in the 8th now , but lately she has been thinking that every single one of her exboyfriends likes me. I keep telling her that its not true, but she still thinks it. I dont want her mad at me over something like this. Its not like I like them back is what I tell her. What should I do? (link)
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ummm...well apparently she thinks you're prettier than her...and I guess maybe she still has a thing for her ex's...ummm well...if she truely trusts you...you wouldn't have to keep telling her that you don't like them back...and IF they do like you...well you don't like them...tell her you're sorri...for the confusion...and that if she doesn't wanna trust you then...this isn't a very good friendship...cuz every relationship with friends/family and significant others the # 1 priority is trust Hope I helped...
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OK When I was about 14 my mom told me that when I wanted to go on birth control that all I had to do was ask her about it. Well its been over a year and I dont know how to bring it up. We're not really that cloce. She meant when I'm 'in love' and I want to do it with that special person. Well thats kinda not the deal rite now I'm not in love at all. I dont even have a bf. But I want to go on it .. how do I ask her ? I cant just bring it up out of nowhere.. (link)
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well gurl...i think you shouldnt confront your mom about it when you find someone you really want to do this with...someone you really care about...you should never lose your virginity to anyone that sooner or later you might regret...but when you do find someone...talk to your mom about it...and just be honest with her
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ok well i cut and stuff but i really want to tell my mom about it because i meen i want to get help but i just was wondering like how could i like talk to her about it? me and my mom are like really close and stuff but i think it would like kill her! should i tell her or no? (link)
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yes you should definately tell her...you should be like "don't say anything until I am completely finished and listen to every word...i cut my self and i really wanna quit...i need help...you're my mom and i love you...and i'm sorri for keeping this from you for so long" good luck much luv
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Hey i'm not allowed to get a tattoo, so i really want to get a henna. where can i get a really good henna kit, thats not expensive?
thanks.
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hey gurl...my opinion you shouldn't do it...i mean...you might do it wrong or something...but if you decide to do it...just be careful and make sure you think of all the consequences
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Alright well first of all.. I'm 16/female.. if you needed that info to help me out or whatever
Well.. last night I was over at my friend caitlin's house and we got bored so we walked around the corner and met up with some friends(rachel,chrus,anthony,katie) and we were hangin out talkin and what not.. and then we decided to walk back to rachels house.. so we're walkin and talkin and I'm a smart ass.. and someone said somethin stupid so i made a remark about it.. ya know? but chris stares at me and laughs.. like nto staring bad way.. just staring.. but yeah.. then we're back at rachels and chris wanted to swim so he strips down to his boxers and jumps in.. hah it was cute.. but anywhos.. the whole time when we're all sittin out there talkin I would look over and catch chris lookin at me.. I mean it feels like there's somethin there.. but I don't know.. I mean.. he's an awesome kid.. I'd like for there to be somethin there but I don't know.. I mean he's a grade younger than me.. but he's not immature and sldflk I don't know.. I wanna get to know him better to see if there is something there and everything.. but he's not one of the people that I hang out with all the time.. so what do i do?
Thanks a bunch (link)
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start hanging with him more often and find if you really do like him or not...if ya don't just stay friends...and just cuz he doesn't hang with ur crew doesn't mean anything...if ya like him...u should go for it
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I don't know what to wear for the first day of school. I don't really have a great sence of style and i was wondering if you could help me. My hair is brown and eye brown and i am 5'2. Got any good styles for that??? (link)
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well I have the same hair color and eye color...but a lil shorter...i wear ...a dark eyeliner...foundation...silver pinkish eyeshadow...or a dark redish brownish...to bring out my eyes...mascara also...maybe some tight blue jeans...and a cute shirt that says something on it
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