I have a friend and me and her have been friends sense 4th grade we're in the 8th now , but lately she has been thinking that every single one of her exboyfriends likes me. I keep telling her that its not true, but she still thinks it. I dont want her mad at me over something like this. Its not like I like them back is what I tell her. What should I do?
Additional info, added Monday August 30 2004, 8:42 pm: she likes 2 of the boys that she thinks likes me.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? xOxLuvYasxOx answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 8:14 pm: First of all i think that u should remind her how long u guys have been friends and then tell her that a silly boy isnt gonna ruin any of that. then i think that u 2 shoudl go out 2getha liek to the mall or soemthin and just tha 2 of u hang out. so its like tha good times u used to have together b4 any of this happend. then shell remember what a good friend u r and shell totally 4get bout tha guys ((hopefully)) [ xOxLuvYasxOx's advice column | Ask xOxLuvYasxOx A Question ]
yoursosweetx answered Monday August 30 2004, 7:16 pm: hellooo .. well i think you should try to explain to her, that they don't like you... and if they do it shouldn't really be a problem unless she likes them all also.. find out if she likes them and stuff before you take any chances with any of the guys .. if you decide to like one <3 rate please [ yoursosweetx's advice column | Ask yoursosweetx A Question ]
SexXxiiShortiie answered Monday August 30 2004, 5:59 pm: ummm...well apparently she thinks you're prettier than her...and I guess maybe she still has a thing for her ex's...ummm well...if she truely trusts you...you wouldn't have to keep telling her that you don't like them back...and IF they do like you...well you don't like them...tell her you're sorri...for the confusion...and that if she doesn't wanna trust you then...this isn't a very good friendship...cuz every relationship with friends/family and significant others the # 1 priority is trust Hope I helped... [ SexXxiiShortiie's advice column | Ask SexXxiiShortiie A Question ]
UnluckyWishes answered Monday August 30 2004, 4:38 pm: I know it'll pry get annoying but just whenever she says that just reisure her that you dont like them, so dont worry.Or just talk to her and ask why do you think all your old boyfriends like me.Maybe thats how she deals with break-ups.you should definatly talk to her and let her know that u dont want to get into a fight or have her mad @ you over something stupid like that and lose your friendship.hope i helped and everything works out! [ UnluckyWishes's advice column | Ask UnluckyWishes A Question ]
PuReLuVeR143 answered Monday August 30 2004, 4:34 pm: alota times girls can see right thru their ex-bfs, especially when they think they like their best friends...all u can do is act like u dont care at all..if she ever says nething about it,be like ew u think he likes me..ugh..oh well sOo wutcha doin this weekand..or like change tha subjeCt and totallllly act like ur uninterested..dont argue back and say like no they dont, dont think that...cause trust me thatll get u no where...if she keeps talking about just keep on saying..i dunno maybe who cares..n stuff like that...
love kristin [ PuReLuVeR143's advice column | Ask PuReLuVeR143 A Question ]
jesikuh977 answered Monday August 30 2004, 4:12 pm: tell her it doesnt matter even if her EX'S liked you...cuz their juss that..HER EX'S!!! their not anything anymore...and tell her to shut up cuz thats dumb to get mad over lol
Kittie.And.Chains answered Monday August 30 2004, 3:40 pm: Ah.. I've been friends with someone for 6 years. Bestfriend forever. And we've had problems kind of like this.
Tell her you would never ever do anything with an ex boyfriend of hers, like she would never do something with one of hers. And if she doesn't lay off, ignore her for awhile untill she gets the point. If she cares about you as much as you do her, she'll lay off and realize your great friends. [ Kittie.And.Chains's advice column | Ask Kittie.And.Chains A Question ]
wakegurl21 answered Monday August 30 2004, 3:38 pm: As many times as you tell your friend they dont like you, she will still think they do. So if i were you i'd eather a) get a boyfriend b) tell her about someone you are crushing on so she will stop sayin all that stuff. [ wakegurl21's advice column | Ask wakegurl21 A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Monday August 30 2004, 3:29 pm: tell her you dont like them, so stop tripping. if she doesnt believe you, forget her. you dont have to prove shit to no one. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
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