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OK, I said yes to this guy when he asked me out. Now, I don't want to go out with him.. so I'm going to, well not exactly dump him cuz we didn't go out by tell him I don't want to go out with him. I still want to be really really good friends with him. How do I say that I don't want to go out with him? (link)
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I would tell him that he wasn't the guy that you thought he was. And that you see him more as a friend and not a boyfriend.
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ok im 13/f and my bf always asks me do u wanna make out and hell yea i do but i dont know how how? i mean idk.i really like my bf but i am kinda prude and i wanna atleast make out so this is kinda a stupid question but how do u make out with sum1?
ok i need advice asap bc my bf is starting to get annoyed bc i keep saying not right now not right now...any1 have any ideas? im afraid he may break up with me? (link)
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It's pretty easy. All you have to do is follow ur boyfriend. After awhile it will come easier. Just watch and see what he does to you like long open mouth or some tongue action. Whatever he does then try and do it back to him. DOnt think about it to much just let it flow and everythin will be good. Hope this helps.
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So this guy that i've been off and on with for about a year just told me recently that it was over for good and i don't know why! He won't talk to me or look at me or anything! but thats not even the bad part! I really like him! I can't stop thinking about him or being with him! I don't know what to do! Should i just leave it alone? (link)
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If he doesnt want to talk to you about it then yes leave him alone. It will only make the feelings strongier if you chase him. Let him cool down for awhile and in a couple of weeks try to talk to him again.
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my friend has had this off and on relationship with this guy.hes fingered her and made out alot and stuff but he goes off and does stuff like that with other people.shes like my best friend EVER and she calls me crying sayin hes makin out with some girl.it breaks my heart and i think she should leave him.all he does is break her hearrt.she deserves so much better but she claims she loves him so much.other times she hates him.can someone help me?im afraid im in the middle.
Signed,
Concerned Friend (link)
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Your friend definitly needs to get away from this guy. She means nothing to him if he goes off and does stuff with other girls. She needs to leave him and find someone that does like her and will respect her. I would basically tell your friend that she is going to ruin her self-esteem and her self worth if she stays with this guy. Only sluts do it with guys that could care less about them, so dont let your friend become a slut.
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ok well i'm 15/f/ i'm dating this guy named Jesse and yesturday we were hanging out together and some chick named Stephanie text him saying I LOve you 2! and well i read it and i asked him what was that all about he tells me that this girl has a crush on him and thinks that he will go out wiht me and with her at the same time and well he told her that he would never cheeat on his girlfriend......what you all think? PLEASE HELP ME BECAUSE I"M CONFUSED (link)
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If the girl texted his phone and said that he loves him 2 then he must have said he loved her first. So if i were you i'd break up with this guy before he cheats on you or before you get your heart broken. You can find so much better!!!
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I am going to my friend's birthday party in 3 days. My other friend has a cold sore and today I got this cut on my lower lip and I don't know how it got there. My friend said that when she first got her cold sore, it started out as a cut. Sometimes I get cuts on my lips and hands when it starts getting cold. If i actually have a coldsore, does anybody know how to get rid of it before the party? (link)
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There is medicine you can buy at a drug store that kills it.
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last year was the bomb but this year sux. i have a new bestfriend and i love her to death but ok lastyear all of the guys kinda liked me and now they don;t like me anymore. i was talking to my best guyfriend and he said guys are scared to get regeted by me. CAN you believe that they are scared of me! so0o0o0 stupid! so now they r moving on to the new best thing, my best friend. I dont know but i kinda miss knowing guys like but i am trying to get over it but i miss knowing that someone likes me. I dono im so0o0 confused. But if you think about it either way i was screwed... if i went out with all of them id be called a slut or hoe but now that i regeted them they are all scared of me. i need help!! plzZzZzZ
SIGNED,
I DON'T WANNA BE SCARY (link)
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Honestly there really isnt anything you can do, but sit back and wait for the guys to get over ur friend and move to someone else. Not all guys like the same girl so there has to be someone that likes you still. If you did regect all of them then why does it matter to you if they like you or not? Dont act like ur to good for them, just try to be there friend and they will respect you again. Hope this helps
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Im a 14 year old girl and feel a little selfconcious about my looks. What are some safe ways for me to loose weight? (link)
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What helps me a lot to keep on track is not thinking about loosing weight or dieting. Dont deprive yourself of somthing you really want, because next time you see it you will eat a lot more of it. Also a good motivation for me is thinking about a nice pair of clothes or a party that is comming up that you really want to look good at so when your running think about how many guys will think ur hott after loosing a couple of unwanted pounds. Hope this helps
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Im 13 and me and my bf have been goin out for about 4 months now. I really love him with all my heart and he's like my soul-mate. He cares 4 me and loves me a lot to! (also 13).
I've been in a past relationship where the guy took kissing and making out for advantage.. and I still haven't really healed from it. My bf wants to make out and says he respects me not being ready. He asks me when I will be ready or if I ever will. It seems like all he wants is to make out.. Wut do I do?
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All guys will want something from there girlfriend. If you have been dating him for 4 months and havent really done anything then maybe you just aren't feeling the guy as much as you thought. You said you got hurt in the past but you cant dwell on what happened before. If you trust this guy then kiss him, but if you dont feel anything then move on cause there's not enough time to stay with someone you really dont care much about. Hope this helps
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I am 15 and i just started my sophomore year of high school. I've had 1 boyfriend and i've never had my first kiss. i have 2 problems...
1. i think im weird because im one of the only people i know in my grade who havent been kissed other than liek the really ugly girls ((not tryin ot be mean!)
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2. I go to St. Ignatius in Illinois.... im trying out fro teh school play and im a really good actor ((not to sound cocky))so if i make the lead role, tehn im going to have to ksis teh lead role guy... there are onyla few guys trying out for the play and i am good friends with all of them so if i were to be the lead i woudl ahve to kiss one of them. im afraid that that is going to eb awkward adn tehn if i kiss them im afraid it will eb more awkward afterwards....
any advice is helpful please!!!! (link)
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i say you should just ask the guy who is chosen if you can practice with him. Watch a lot of make out movies too.
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I have a friend and me and her have been friends sense 4th grade we're in the 8th now , but lately she has been thinking that every single one of her exboyfriends likes me. I keep telling her that its not true, but she still thinks it. I dont want her mad at me over something like this. Its not like I like them back is what I tell her. What should I do? (link)
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As many times as you tell your friend they dont like you, she will still think they do. So if i were you i'd eather a) get a boyfriend b) tell her about someone you are crushing on so she will stop sayin all that stuff.
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okay i was supposed to get my period on friday and it's now monday... i've never been late before could it be the stress of going back to school or something? because i'm a little freaked out that something might be wrong (link)
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You dont have to have your period every month. It's actually normal to miss a couple.
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i was dating this guy for about 3 months and things got pretty serious. we spent every day together and he would stay and my house and vice versa. his ex girlfriend called one night and he broke up with me to see if things would work with her and they didnt. he called about a month after we broke up and said that he made a huge mistake for breaking up with me cause i was the best thing that had ever happened to him. we got back together and things were great, actually better than ever or so i thought. one day when she called again he started getting weird again and told me that he once again needed time. i took all of my stuff from his house and said that i wasnt playing second best anymore. i gave him all i had and thought that this was it. that he was the one. and unfortunately im a mess over him. i know he treats me horrible in this situation but ive never been so inlove with someone before. and i dont know what to do. someone just help. please. (link)
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This has happend to me, its actually kinda freaky. My exboyfriend dumped me for his old gf and then wanted me back. I went with him and he ended up dumping me again like 2months later. Well now were just friends and its 10 times better. Dating a guy after he dumps you for someone else is kinda messed up. It's totally not worth it.
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okay so there is this boy josh and we've liked eachother off and on for about 1 year...and well everytime i do sumthing with him or hook up with him he always plays me over again and again. i don't knoe wut to do cuz i really like him alot too and hes a good kisser and i have fun when im with him. but this last time he played me was bad and i promised to my self that i wouldn't EVER fall for him again but ..... he told my friend shaniqua that he felt really bad for wut he did and he never should have and that he really wants me back... and well i kinda want him back too but i don't wanna get hurt again. so wut do i do??
help me fast (link)
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If it's been over 3 times, then let it go, there's really no connection if it didnt work the first 3 times.
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ok so i went out with this kid Sean, and things started to get weird so i broke up with him, then i was starting to think of asking him back out but i thought he liked this girl Sarah, who i happen to hate, and he said he didnt but the next day when i was going to ask him out he was going out with her .. what should i do?
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Forget him. If he said he didnt like her one day and then goes out with her the next then it's kinda shady.
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My so called friend i think is only my friend cuz he likes my girlfriend and he even said so, i think there is a chance that she likes him, should i see if she really wants to go with him, or let her know that he really is a jerk or what...?? help please!! (link)
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If she really likes you then she won't do anythin with your friend, but i wouldn't have them together with you a lot.
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my b/f goes to NH every weekend and has a lot of friends up there .. a lot of them are girls .. i am obviously wicked jealous because he is seriouisly very cute/hott.. so girls would like him.. anyways, some girl keeps callin me from his phone and asking for me then hanging up.. she did it yesterday and at 9 in the morning today .. its really pissing me off - what should i say to him when he gets back!? HELP! i dont wanna come off like a bitch but i want him to know that im not takin his shit anymore and he cant just walk all over me like that ..sry its long (link)
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I would ask him why the girl is calling you. And if she keeps callin try to talk to her to see what is up. If you do get jelous about all the girls he goes to NH with then ask if you can go with him sometime, or have him stay with you for a weekend. Hope this helps
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Ok well I have this boyfriend and he doesnt go to my school or anything. I meet him through my friend from soccer camp. We started talking online and then a while later we started going out. Later he broke up with me saying that he disn't think things were going to work out because we still hadn't seen each other. Now a year later, we still haven't seen each other but we are going out again. I am thinking that now I don't want to go out with him until I see him and stuff. How should I tell him this without hurting him too much? (I have never broken up with anybody before) please help soon!!! Thanx and I'll rate you! (link)
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Just say the same thing he said to you, but make sure it's really how you feel.
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My name is Leah....
Me n my boyfriend have been going out for 1 month.. but we went out before 4 four months...
Me n hym are in love like so much!! n we r perfect for eachother b.c we know everything about eachother... but
LAST NIGHT... I was on the fone w/ My friend Adam n then My friend who was sleeping over...((Lisa)) wanted to talk to ((MIke, my boyfriend)) b.c. they r tight... n i was like go head idc.. cuz i wus on the fone w/ Adam n he was leaving tommoroe...
Well i wusnt flirting w/ Adam... but to all my friends (( guy n girl )) i say I love you... but not the same way i love Mike...
Well since my friend, Lisa was on the fone... w/ mike... He heard me say i love you to Adam... he started getting pissed at me cuz he thought i was flirting w/ Adam....
So wen i talked to hym later that night im like Wait, r u mad at me..?? Mike is like ya... u were flirting w/ Adam.... i wus like no i wasnt!! hes like YeaH! im like no!! im like w.e . since u dont belive me i gues im a liar....
well i broke up w/ Mike that night b.c. i though that since we r going into jr. high this year... n since he thinks that i was flirtng by saying I love you to adam.. then i thought.. we needed a break....
do u think i was right to take a lil Break... n do u think i shoudl go back out w/ Mike.. b.c i rly love hym n hes the sweetest guy i have eva known n he treats me like a queen... n he loves me soo much!! n i love hym.. but sumtimes i like being single.. but every time i think of Mike i am always liike omg i miss hym i love hym soo much!!
PLEASE HELP ME!!
xOx-Leah...
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If you're just start jrhigh then there is no point to go back with him, there are going to be so many other people.
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I am always biting my nails all the time. I have tried fake nails. But I cant have them on because I play so many sports. Is there a way I can stop? I do it even when I dont realize I am doing it. I also know its not healthy at all. Any tips will be helpful... thank you! (link)
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There's is this special nail polish you can buy, it's clear, and it tastes really bad so you wont want to bite your nails.
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