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How to dump him?
OK, I said yes to this guy when he asked me out. Now, I don't want to go out with him.. so I'm going to, well not exactly dump him cuz we didn't go out by tell him I don't want to go out with him. I still want to be really really good friends with him. How do I say that I don't want to go out with him?
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Just tell him the truth. If he still likes you the he will want to still be your friend. Tell him it is really working out but you still want to be friends with him. Hoped i helped.
(*SwEeT DrEaMz*)
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Im going through the same thing right now, and well i like this guy but i dont wanna go out w/ him anymore becuz well we had a great friendship b4 i ever said yes and i just realized that but im afraid to break it off becuz i have a feeling things wont ever me the same, but the way im gonna dump him is by telling him..Im really sry but im not ready for a relationship so i still hope we can be frens and im just really sry if i hurt u in anyway.
Ok im done, hope i helped
xoxo
~becca~
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thats a really hard thing, you never should of said yes cause now hes gonna be hurt. try to explain that you dont want to ruin a great friendship ive done that lots and its not a fun thing. if this friendship dont go over well or hes to hurt try to wait a bit then talk to him one on one.
-point of view 1
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you definately shouldn't candy coat it cuz he probly wont get it lol jus be like "Im sorry, im jus not ready to step into a relashionship right now, you're a really sweet guy and all but im jus not ready" or sumthin like that.. good luck!
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tell him that you had a change of heart and you would like to be friends if that's aright. and if not, you understand. hope that helped :)
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tell him.. " i looove you to death.. but.. i dont want to go out with you because im soo scurred that its gunna mess up our friendship" oor.. be like... " sRrY.. but i dont want a b/f rite now.. " :) works for me!
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Just say you'd rather be friends with him. Good Luck.
~Brina~
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Just go up to him and tell him that ya'all need to talk now. Then say somethin like "Look i don't think this is workin out because i don't want a boyfriend at this moment but i still wanna stay good friends" k good luck hunny! xOx0 *Everybodiiez_Fool* <3
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just say you liked it better when you were friends.. and if he doesnt except that he wouldnt be your true friend... if he does you kno he is there for you and is your true friend
hope i helped and good luck
sam
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I would tell him that he wasn't the guy that you thought he was. And that you see him more as a friend and not a boyfriend.
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Try the classic "I just want to be friends." It's true, and make sure he knows how you feel about this. He might be hurt, but with time he'll get over it. Just remember to be there for him. =)
♥ lAuRa
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Give him a call and ask him to meet you at a local eatery or mall so that you can talk (always do this in person, over the phone is just too cold) in an open place. Tell him the truth, that you made a hasty decision when he asked you out and after consideration you feel that you guys are just really good friends and to make it into anything more than that will complicate the friendship and possibly ruin the good thing that you two have going. Give it to him straight and he will respect the decision and you much more. Best Wishes!
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you already said the you would so you at least own him one date, just make sure that you are open with him and tell him that you did give it a chance but you would just rather be friends
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