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theres not always 2 points of views. point of 1 deals with all the love situations and point 2 and point 1 do the rest together.
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well I have been talking to this guy and he asked if I wanted to be his gilfriend. But he has only seen pics of me that are like old and crap and dont even look like me but im nervous to meet him what do I do?
it depends on how old you are..if your a teenager i certainly wouldnt go meet some guy you just met online..he could be some 50 year old physco guy...soooo ummm if your older i would maybe call him first?
I'm currently a senior in hs and already have a dress for my Senior Prom but I like my Junior Prom dress better. So would it be weird to wear last year's dress again. Or should I just suck it up and wear my new one.
omg..who cares what other peoples think? not me..SUCK IT UP
my best guy friend and i tried to start a bf and gf relationship but we feel uncomfortable being that. we just wanna be really close friends. i was wondering should i ask him to the prom and just say we can go as friends?! and when should i ask him?!
maybe you should talk to him and try to get to know each other better before commiting to more than just a friendship. umm sure why not go to the prom together just talk it over with him.
panic attacks can you feel sick with them lifeless dizzy as though you are going to pass out can you help me please
umm the best advice i can tell you is to go to the doctors..no one on here is gonna know exactly what to tell you to do
how do you delete a xanga so that it no longer exists?
you go to your xanga site and sign in. then you click account info then find a little x next to it says "shut down site" click it then when box pops up hit "ok"
okay so here it is. i wanna break up with my boyfriend and its Friday and we go back to school Tuesday. Hes suppose to give me my christmas present at school. Should i break up with him on the phone tonight or tomorrow that way he doesnt have to give me my present or should i break up with him on Tuesday. i need major help my mind is going crazy.
break up with him before you go back, otherwise your just using him for the gift. and it is really embarassing to get dumped in school. give him a couple of days to get over the whole thing.
Hey, im almost 15 and a female. I have been told by many many people that I am not fat... But I can't help but think I am. I only weigh around 121 lbs. or something but I don't know... I really hate looking at myself in the mirror. I have tried to not eat... but I just couldn't. I tried to be vegitarian... But it didnt work out. I do situps everyday! Last night I did 100 situps 100 crunches and 100 of these leg exorcises. And this morning did 50 situps. And I can see that my stomach is getting flatter... but It just doesnt seem to be flat enough for me. What should I do? My mind frame is that of an anarexic (sp?) or balemic (sp?) person. And I don't know how to stop from thinking like that.
well 121lbs for a 15 year old female isnt overweight hun..i would reccomend asking your mother or father about going to see a dietician. continue with your excerises but dont kill yourself with overload of them. and most certainely dont go bolemic or anorexic there both very dangerous things and hard to stop. being a vegitarian doesnt always make you less fat, most people dont use it for that. another thing you may want to know is if you go anorexic and dont eat your body will store as much fat as possible at first so it can survive. id go with the first option of a dietician
when i grow up i want to be a chef but i also want to be a teacher but i dont want to be a teacher that teaches cooking
*****chef and teacher*****
this question would be easier to answer if you put an age, but since you didnt. my best advice would be just to research both careers and see which one you would best match up to..or ask your friends and family what they think
I'm gonna get straight to the point.My dad hates me he said it himself he told me last yr. in New Years Day that he was gonna make it hell for me and he kept his promise now he's doing the same thing this year.Im 14/f and I'm really tired of it.And my sister doesn't make it any better because she looks through my things constantly I can't hide anything cause she finds it and uses it against me.She is 2 years younger and makes life living hell for me.My older brother is going to the Army soon and he barly is never there and me and him don't get along.Then there is my mom she doesnt understand all she can say is calm down be patient and soon this will end.PLZ HELP what can I do.Thank you on advance.
why dont you try to find a relative or a friend to live with, me and my dad didnt really get along but its getting better..who knows maybe somehting will hit him in the head and he will realize how stupid hes being
Ok there's this girl she's my old girlfriend and i still like her but i don't know if she likes me and i like love her should i ask her back out or just let it go
if you like the girl GO FOR IT. the worst that could happen is her say no. i think you should ask the girl out.
a friend from school died about 3 weeks ago from cancer. now one of my close friends has cancer too. its making me so incredibly frustrated and upset and angry and so worried about my friend all at the same time. i need someone spiritual to please give me a new outlook on all of this, because right now i can't stop praying and questioning why the hell things like this happen.
ok ive actually delt with a similar situation before. my cosuin of only 22 years passed ago not long ago and we were very close. she died of cancer as well. i cant tell you why these kind of things happen, but my mom is very spirutual and believes all things happen for a reason and that God has soem big puzzle were every aspect of your life leads up to why you exist. we just cant understand this. sorry about the cancer things, im confused about why things happen as well.
I know this is a dumb question, but I've never kissed a guy and I don't know how. It always freaks me out cause I think I'm gonna gonna mess up. Help?
its not a dumb question to ask...no question asked is dumb your dumb when you dont ask. i cant really tell you how to do it. but i was scared about my first kiss to, though if you really love the guy and he loves you it wont matter. just give it a try, who knows you could be the best kisser ever LOL
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How do i know if my bf is just using me?
We went out last year for like almost 9 months but i broke it off because i started at a new school and i couldnt handle the relationship too. He begged me to take him back and after 3 months of getting settled and really missing him...i did. But it just doesnt seem the same anymore. Now when we do see each other all he wants to do is make out, feel me up, get down my pants. Ya know. Its not like we're hanging out. Its like i'm just there for sexual stuff. What should i do? Is he using me?
female, 16.
if you feel that there is no real love in the relationship then maybe you should talk to me. sadly it sounds to me like he is using you....try to have a long talk with him and look deep in your heart.
i have a question. if you wear skater clothes but you dont skateboard or you used to but not anymore are you considered a poser?
ok this whole poser thing drives me freakin crazy. listen dont care about what others think...people just call you a poser to feel better about themselves. stop worrying so much about other opinions, though sadly to tell you they will call you a poser most likely...but who cares?
OK, I said yes to this guy when he asked me out. Now, I don't want to go out with him.. so I'm going to, well not exactly dump him cuz we didn't go out by tell him I don't want to go out with him. I still want to be really really good friends with him. How do I say that I don't want to go out with him?
thats a really hard thing, you never should of said yes cause now hes gonna be hurt. try to explain that you dont want to ruin a great friendship ive done that lots and its not a fun thing. if this friendship dont go over well or hes to hurt try to wait a bit then talk to him one on one.
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ok.....this boy bob likes my friend lets call her Maria. i am really close with Maria. Maria also likes bob and i absolutely HATE bob. i know Hates a strong word but its true. she gets mad at me when i say dont go out with him do go out with him. its come to the point that im saying dont go out with him or i wont be your friend. i dont want her to get hurt what so ever and i know he has broken girls hearts and made them cry. i dont want her to cry over him.....not to mention she already did once. What should i do?
ok for this kind of matter its one of them friend boy things...once again ill say it FRIENDS ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN BOYS!....try to show her that this guy is that kind of guy. i owuldnt stop being her friend over that if they do go out then just ingore the guy and tell her never make you two need to be close bob and you that is. talk to her and make sure she understands how you really feel, try to lay down evidence and dont be rude about it but prove to her this guy is wrong for her.
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Tomorrow night I'm having a friend over. We'll both be home alone, cuz my rents are gonna be at the neighbors. We're both 13/F. What should we do when the ball drops??? SOMETHING EXCITING AND WILD
why not invite some friends over and just have a mini party. maybe soem confetti and just invite friends and dance eat sing and have a blast!
yesterday i was watching tv and i changed tha chanel and it was porn!! i didnt even bother to change it and i wanted to watch it and im 15/f is that normal?!?! i got really horny and i wanted to call my bf to come over! whats wrong with me?!?!
well its ok if you feel attracted to this kind of imagery. dont get me wrong im not saying its right. but its no reason to feel all let down and mental or anything. its just because at your age your hormons are changing. i wouldnt call your bf though unless you are sure your ready for that kind of thing. just try to not get addicted to it.
Ok I'm a boy my friends call me lil John ok now i'm a boy and i want dreads and my friends think i'm gonna look like a girl and i really want dreads but my friends think i'm gonna look like a freak. if you don't know what dreads are there like like braids but like bigger.soooo should i get them, or not.plez i need some advice so i need an answer
ok well normally the friends are the best source to trust, but your opinion is more valuable then your friends afterall it is your body.
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My friend and I got into a dispute about homosexuality. I told her I had a friend who was gay, and that I stopped hanging around that person because they became attracted to me. She told me I was an intolerant loser and blocked me on AIM, I'm also pretty sure she blocked my phone line (getting semi-serious now). How do I-if I can at all-get her to talk to me again without offending her, or seeming intolerant. (I am sticking by my heterosexuality no matter what.) -bRaNdOn
wow thats a really touchy subject, in my opinion theres nothing wrong with homosexuality its just something that some people have. i mean granit its not 100% normal to most people. but why not try talking to your friend and explaining that you just felt a little uncomfortable. not that your judging the person but your not used to someone of the same sex crushing on you. though gay/lesbians can be the nicest of people..keep that one in mind.