Question Posted Tuesday February 22 2005, 10:52 am
my best guy friend and i tried to start a bf and gf relationship but we feel uncomfortable being that. we just wanna be really close friends. i was wondering should i ask him to the prom and just say we can go as friends?! and when should i ask him?!
punk_rock101 answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 5:25 pm: ya, lot of people go with friends to their prom, you guys would be more comfortable and maybe even have more fun. also ask him asap, u dont want someone else to get there first [ punk_rock101's advice column | Ask punk_rock101 A Question ]
xO_Natalie_Ox answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 5:33 pm: Go for it! As long as you both know you guys aren't going as like a couple that might make him uncomfotable. Make sure you tell him it's only as friends! I would ask him as soon as you can before anyone else asks him. Then you'll regret for like everrr not asking him sooner [ xO_Natalie_Ox's advice column | Ask xO_Natalie_Ox A Question ]
xoPandaBabyxo answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 3:09 pm: Yeah, you guys can go as friends. That wouldnt be a problem at all! You should ask him asap (a.s.a.p lol) and just tell him that you two are juss going as best buds. I mean, if you guys dont feel comfortable being bf/gf, then dont be. I hope I helped.
duckylama123 answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 2:03 pm: Well, i think that you should ask him to go as friends because itf you feel unconfortable then ju7st be really close friends. I would ask him in a place that is very relaxing 4 the bothof you. [ duckylama123's advice column | Ask duckylama123 A Question ]
NEVERLETG00 answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 1:43 pm: yeah, you can def go to prom as just friends, i was going out with my bf at the time (he was a junior i was a freshman) and his friend asked him to go to prom with her and i was fine with it, no big deal to me or both of them, they went as friends and had a good time, i think you will too. ask him before its too late! sooner the better right? [ NEVERLETG00's advice column | Ask NEVERLETG00 A Question ]
Judy101 answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 1:25 pm: If you just want to be this guy's friend, then just act like his friend! Just ask if he wants to go to the prom with you if he doesn't end up getting a date. Just don't be to pushy and let him know that you are available whenever he needs you. [ Judy101's advice column | Ask Judy101 A Question ]
Karen answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 12:13 pm: You should definitely ask your best guy friend to the prom and go as friends. There's nothing wrong with that and it's great that you two are close. You should ask him when ever you are ready, probably today, before he gets a date. Just tell him that you want to go as friends and I'm sure he would want to.
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
AdviceGivers0601 answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 11:33 am: maybe you should talk to him and try to get to know each other better before commiting to more than just a friendship. umm sure why not go to the prom together just talk it over with him. [ AdviceGivers0601's advice column | Ask AdviceGivers0601 A Question ]
MFS answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 11:29 am: By all means, ask him. I mean, you're close friends, you likely care about each other, and as such there's no reason you can't attend prom together. Going to prom as friends or as boyfriend and girlfriend should be irrelevant, really.
Besides, the best romantic relationships start off with strong friendship... who knows what might happen given time. [ MFS's advice column | Ask MFS A Question ]
jbdreamer answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 10:58 am: Yea, there is nothing wrong with that. I think most people that go to school dances are just friends. Ask him today, what do you have to be scared of, he's your friend. [ jbdreamer's advice column | Ask jbdreamer A Question ]
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