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im having the worst problem..ok me n my bf well we had sex and i mean i love him with my whole entire heart and we went out for a year and hes my world..and well im not tryin to be mean at all here but he got with this extremely ugly girl thats like 5 inches taller than him..and he tells her all this stuff and they had sex on vday and shes denyin it all and i mean atleast he had enough man in him that he could tell me bout her n all this and i forgave him and now hes telln me he still loves me and he wants me back and i just never thought id ever forgive him but i have no idea what to do i mean today he came over and we messed around which i shouldnt have and his other girl has no idea ..but shes always with other guys too and he just doesnt care and he still likes her but he tells me he loves me and i mean i know its kinda like well hes just wantin some more but its just not like that and i have no clue what to do and im not easy its just that i think im so inlove with him. just i want someone elses advice on this ..im 14 female (link)
i think that you should get back together with him. if you are that in love with him, then i say go for it.


my dad hits me. and i'm really afraid of him. when he comes home from work i stay in my room. but whenever i do something wrong. even when i get less than an A on a test he'll hit me and say i'm not living up to my potential. i don't know what to do. He hits my mom to and i get badly bruised from the battles. what can i do? who can i go to? and is there anyway possible that i can get out of my house and be adopted or something? help me Please. (link)
well, i think that you should first find out if your dad drinks and he might be a little drunk. And that might be whay he hits you. But if not, i think that you should report your dad. Even though that he is your dad, he shouldnt be hulting you like the way that he does.And if you tried your hardest, than that is all that should matter. I think that oyur mom should divorse with him and then go live somewhere or kick him out.


my friend has this guy that she has been on and off with for what seems like forever. They both still like eachother and yesterday she wore his clothes and boxers (yeah...) to school. Should she ask him out? (link)
Well that sounds very creppy. But if that is the case, then i think that she should ask him out. There is nothing stopping her.


Well, I'm a little unsure if I should be upset or not.
Okay. Well my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months now and I found out a few months ago that I was not his "first" (talking about making out.) He was mine without a doubt. But it's not just that i'm not his first that upsets me, it's with who. It's this girl from another school named elena. She's a slut and she knows it. My boyfriend "didn't even like her" he claims. But, what concerns me is that if he didn't like her, what if he made out with me and he "doesn't even like me." Am I upset over a stupid thing? Because if I am I want to not ruin our relationship over something so stupid.
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Retro_Romance (link)
I think That you are getting upset about a silly thng. So wat if your bf kisses another girl. All that matters is that you like him and he likes you


I got a prom dress for my Senior Promt his year last year when they were on sale. My mom made me get it a size bigger tha I am thinking I would grow into it over the year but I haven't. So I was wondering how much do you think it would cost to get it taken in about a half a inch. thanx for any help (link)
It would cost $10


I've just had my train track braces removed and been given a retainer. I didn't think to ask my orthodontist, but...if I wear my retainer more (like round the house after school as well instead of just at night), will it make my teeth more likely to stay in place or move quicker or whatever? Would wearing it more than just at night do more harm or good?
Thanks! (link)
It would make them more straight.


I'm currently a senior in hs and already have a dress for my Senior Prom but I like my Junior Prom dress better. So would it be weird to wear last year's dress again. Or should I just suck it up and wear my new one. (link)
I think that you should wear your new one because if you wear your old one then you would be a fasion repitator.And thast is BAD


omg my hair is sooo frizzy and i dont know what to do about it! i've tried many products but nothing seems to work!

please help! (link)
well, mi hair is a frizzball. so mi mom went to a store that was just ment 4 haircare and got mi this thing that you put in your hair while it is wet and takes out the frizzes.


Hiya,
I was just wondering...what's the point of a hidden track on a CD? I know they're there and how to get at them and all that, but WHY are they there?
Thanks!! (link)
They are there just 4 decoration


my best guy friend and i tried to start a bf and gf relationship but we feel uncomfortable being that. we just wanna be really close friends. i was wondering should i ask him to the prom and just say we can go as friends?! and when should i ask him?! (link)
Well, i think that you should ask him to go as friends because itf you feel unconfortable then ju7st be really close friends. I would ask him in a place that is very relaxing 4 the bothof you.


panic attacks can you feel sick with them lifeless dizzy as though you are going to pass out can you help me please (link)
i THINK YOU SHOULD SEE A SYCYATRIST.


Everytime someone comes up and touches me, I get paranoid and start shaking violently. It's only when I don't know when someone is going to touch me. I get so freaked out, and I hate it. I always start shaking and I can't help it. I have to curl up when I'm shaking to try to control it. And after I stop shaking I end up getting paranoid for the rest of the day. I've always been like this, and I don't know whats going on. Any suggestions on what might help? (link)
I think you should try to talk to your mom and mabe you could talk it out. Everyone says that talking about always helps.


So there is this guy that i like and that he tells me he likes me but yet he never talks to me and he is always with other girls and the other girls say that he says he likes them!! i really like this guy so what should i do? How can i find out who he really likes? (link)
i no how it feels to have the guy you like like you back but never talk 2 you. One of my best friends has the same problem. She really likes this guy and he really likes her back. For Valentines day he gave her one that had 10 hearts on it. But now, he finally sits next 2 her and he never talks 2 her. i think you should try to talk to him more and then mabe he wont feel as shy around you that he does now. By the way is ur name jenna??


i like two guys but i only told one of them i lliked them and the other is my ex but he thinks i dont like him ne more. and the guy i told that i liked him im starting to not like him no more. and i want to have my ex back realli badly but hes gotta gf.plz help. from 15/female/new jersey (link)
well, if your ex hasd a girlfriend,then i think you should move on with ur life and even though it hurts it is the right thing 2 do.


my best friend likes a guy who is a total *beep* and he leads her on then pushes her away. he wont make up his mind. he tells her he likes her but when she says she likes him and can theygo out he gets all wierd and just says shut up or lol or some stupid stuff. i dont know how to help her ne more. I need advice now. (link)
well, i think that you should tell your friend that she should break up with him. If he doesnt no wat he wants, then she should put him on hold.


I have this guy friend and we are like best friends no dout but I knida really like him and everyone thinks he kindof likes me. I dont know if I should go out with him or not because his guy best friend likes me too and I dont want to ruin thier friendship or our friendship
Please Help::f/13::I rate high (link)
Well, i think that you should go out with both of the guys and see which one you like more. If they like you as much as they say thay do, then their friendship will not end because of a girl. Their are a lot of fish in the sea for them.


so theres this kid i like, hes rele nice but one of his rele good frends i also idk and im mixed help me here please! i need some1 and a theripist not agreat idea not my mom my frend is mad at me and yeah im just so mad! wht do i do?? x0o (link)
ur so cool


there is this one girl that likes the same guy as me and she keeps on stealing him. I know he likes me b/c he has admitted it, so why did he go out with her?? I really like this kid. Should I ask him out again when he breaks up with this girl, or should I find someone else?

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i would ask him out. if he likes u as much as he said he does then he will go out with u.


17-female-cal

I wanted to know if there was a certain career I can go to for these things. I've been getting really interested with the mind and what makes us do the things we do. I've been getting interested in things like, eating disorders, mental illness, personality disorders, insomnia, ADD, OCD, SAD, why people lie and a lot of other things like health, vegetarianism, raw foodists, etc. I want to learn more about this stuff, but not just through the internet. What are some courses that teach you about this kind of stuff and how can I apply what I know through a career? If you know some careers, do they pay well?

I believe I'm suffering from ADD, OCD and SAD. As I'm researching these, I come across other disorers and I get overwhelmed and I want to learn about them all... (link)
painters get paid really well and so do builders.


I like this guy at my school. I'm not sure if he likes me or not. He's a senior and I'm a freshman. We are friends, and his best friend is my brother. I want to become more than friends, but I'm not sure if he does. My parents and my siblings don't think I should date or anything of that sort. This guy is not like any other guy I know. He's special, I just don't know how to tell him that. I'm also not sure if he likes me. Whenever he's doing something, he always persuades me to go. And if I'm not going to do something, he then says, "well then I'm not going." I don't want to say anything because that would be awkward at school and church. I'm not sure what to do, should I go for it and ask him or not!?!?! Sorry its so long! (link)
You shopuld try flirting with him more and show him that u like him. I don't think that ur brother will mind.




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