Question Posted Tuesday February 22 2005, 12:23 pm
i like two guys but i only told one of them i lliked them and the other is my ex but he thinks i dont like him ne more. and the guy i told that i liked him im starting to not like him no more. and i want to have my ex back realli badly but hes gotta gf.plz help. from 15/female/new jersey
rainbowsend answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 12:39 pm: You've got to respect the fact that your ex has moved on. He's got a new girlfriend. So until they break up (if they break up) he's off limits.
As for this other guy- if you're starting to not like him anymore, make sure you're not leading him on in your actions. Especially if he's acting like he likes you back. If he doesn't like you, then it's easy- just let the chemistry fizzle out.
Bottom line: It's OKAY to be SINGLE! Crushes are called crushes for a reason- they're supposed to hurt. They're not meant to be easy- they can be damn confusing at times. But that's normal. [ rainbowsend's advice column | Ask rainbowsend A Question ]
advicechick123 answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 12:35 pm: Well...tell your person that noes that you liked him, but once you told him it stoppeed. Or you could say i don't think this will work out. Your ex on the otherhand dont tell yet...be a good friend, flirt a little, and be a nice supportive person. Then onec your so close tell him. [ advicechick123's advice column | Ask advicechick123 A Question ]
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