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Question Posted Monday February 21 2005, 5:27 pm

I like this guy at my school. I'm not sure if he likes me or not. He's a senior and I'm a freshman. We are friends, and his best friend is my brother. I want to become more than friends, but I'm not sure if he does. My parents and my siblings don't think I should date or anything of that sort. This guy is not like any other guy I know. He's special, I just don't know how to tell him that. I'm also not sure if he likes me. Whenever he's doing something, he always persuades me to go. And if I'm not going to do something, he then says, "well then I'm not going." I don't want to say anything because that would be awkward at school and church. I'm not sure what to do, should I go for it and ask him or not!?!?! Sorry its so long!

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MiZzAdViCe16 answered Monday February 21 2005, 11:05 pm:
dont ask him girls should NEVER ask a boy out there not surposed to!!!!! if a boy really likes you he will ask you out or ask a friend of his to ask you ?s about him if you notice any signs of that he likes you but if not dont do anything just let mature take its coarse!!

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mizzthang91 answered Monday February 21 2005, 8:28 pm:
well maybe you should just tell him how you feel! lol it'll be fine and if not tht whats the worst that could happen!? lol good luck and hope i helped!! xox Ari

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BARBiE_D0LL_x3 answered Monday February 21 2005, 8:24 pm:
Well in the beginning, reading that you're a freashman, and he's a senior, kind of gave me a scare. But after I read along, he doesn't sound like the typical senior. He's obviously making it obvious that he likes spending time with you. If a guy likes you, they make little comments, like the ones he does. They try and make it obvious without them even knowing they're doing anything at all. If you think it would make it awkward for you, maybe you should put deep thought into this before you take the next step forward. To me, it sounds like he likes you. I think, before you make any moves, you should try and find out if he likes you as much as you like him. Heartbreaks are hard, that's why girls should NEVER ask the guy, EVER. If you feel comfortable enough, talk to him about it. You should be really comfertable with the person your with, anyways. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year, and we share everything with eachother. Maybe get to know him a little better, then go for it! I don't see why you shouldn't. Tell me what you ended up doing! Hope I helped a bit, good luck! <3

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XoXloveMEorLEAVEmeXoX answered Monday February 21 2005, 7:28 pm:
It more the likely wont work out. sorry....

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SurpriseYourself answered Monday February 21 2005, 6:59 pm:
well other people told you to write a note, but i wouldnt say that is the best approach, my friend at school has been friends with this one guy for a while and he wrote her a note saying that he wanted to move theie relationship to the next level, she didnt know what to do, she dosent like him like that but she couldnt just say no to him, now their dating but only cause she couldnt say no, even when she dosent like him that way, so what im saying is that it may be a little awkward if you write him a note, ask him yourself or your brother, it'll turn out better

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ask_elmo answered Monday February 21 2005, 6:47 pm:
You could start flirting with this guy, and see if he flirts with you too. If you were too afraid to ask him how he felt about you, you could maybe casually ask your brother if his friend likes anybody. If you're not afraid to ask the guy how he feel about you, then go for it! You could also write him a note asking him. It definetely sounds like he likes he, though!

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angieroonie answered Monday February 21 2005, 5:56 pm:
go for it girl!!! slip a note in his bag/locker at school. that'll give him time to think about it. good luck!

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Karen answered Monday February 21 2005, 5:47 pm:
To tell this guy that you like him and that you are interested in him, you need to start flirting with him. It sounds like this guy does like you, since he always wants you to go somewhere with him and when you don't want to go, he doesn't go either. It won't be awkward if you say something but it may, since both of your families see each other at church every weekend and such. Just talk to him and tell him how you feel. You should also ask your brother if it's alright if you and his best friend, this guy, could ever go out. So, you should definitely go for it and ask him. You may miss a chance with him if you don't. Hope I helped :)
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wantinganswers112 answered Monday February 21 2005, 5:41 pm:
I think you should see where he stands and talk to him about how he feels. Your never going to know how he feels if you don't talk to him. Who knows, he may be crazy about you but not wanting to say anything because of your brother and you parents and the whole not dating sitation. I'm your age, and my mom is the same way. I think that if he does like you, you could work something out between the two of you, until you can convince your parents that you're mature enough to date. Good luck!

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l3fty14 answered Monday February 21 2005, 5:39 pm:
hmmm.. well i dont know?? first of all, hes a senior and youre a freshmen - just by what i know, most seniors dont like freshmen (like that) - it could be different but whatever.. he could just be a little flirty with u and likes messin' with you because he thinks of you as a friend and you're his best friends little sister. if you really think hes got a thing for you then go for it!! hope it works out,
aMi

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duckylama123 answered Monday February 21 2005, 5:38 pm:
You shopuld try flirting with him more and show him that u like him. I don't think that ur brother will mind.

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OxJaImEaLiSoNxO answered Monday February 21 2005, 5:36 pm:
omgoshhh!! this is a fun one! just flirt with him A LOTTT and then eventually go to one of those things he always invites yoo to.. then when the time is right ask him if he still has feelings for any ex girlfrends or something.. and then yall will get on the topic of yalls love life.. be like.. "would yoo ever have feelings for me?" these kinda things usually end up positivly.. if not act like nothing happend!

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