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I've been in love with a man for the last 3 years. I've never felt such strong feelings for a guy in my life. I believe that he loves me too. The problem is that he's married. I've never crossed the line with him. We've never even kissed but have exchanged loving glances. He knows how I feel and that I've been suffering in silence. We have so much in common and have similiar values.
He has a very rocky marriage. Everyone knows he and his wife arent happy. They work together at a cafe and they fight like cats and dogs. They have nothing in common and I've heard that she has several addictions, including drugs and gambling. They have no kids together but she has two grown children from her first marriage. They don't respect my friend and steal from him. She is abusive to him and takes his money to gamble or spend on cigaretes.
He is a gentleman and a christian and would never ask me to have an affair. I've already told him I don't believe in extra marital affairs because my dad cheated on my mom. But he has never indicated that he wanted to leave her for me. He is very shy and reserved, and sometimes I think he's in denial of his feelings for me, or scared of his feelings for me.
I am young (mid 20's) and have lots of guys after me. But I don't want to date any one because I am in love with my married friend. I don't want to have an affair either. I feel a lot of guilt because after my dad cheated on my mom I vowed to never do what my dad did. What should I do? (link)
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okay sooo... think of it like this. what if those kids do respect him and you just don't know it or think it. i mean i found out that my parents had gotten a divorce when i was little b/c my dad cheated. that was about 7 or 8 years about and i jsut found out. i was young so i understand why they didn't tell me but they still haven't i read it from my older sisters diary that i found. i cried. think of what would happen if they found out. they would start to hate you or worse. try and ruin everything you have with him. don't show the feelings really strong just be there for him.
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today at my sister's house i called my boyfriend and we'll my other sister was having the phone all to herself so when he was talking to his mother my stepsister had hangup on him and after 4 calls he said don't call back. We'll i need to know should i call back in like a week or try to explain it when i get to school. but i have no idea if he is talking to my step sister or he was talking to me. i need help
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ummm.... thats a tuffy! lets see... try and talk to him about it. Maybe he was trying to do something and you kept interupting him. well i guess i will talk to you later!
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just monday my boyfriend and me had a fight.You see on sunday i called him and his sister answered and she was telling me that my boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend ericka had a relationship ever since we were going out but she ever found out about are relationship and the next day he was telling me that he was not cheating on me. But i did not believe so i asked his friend that he never lies to if he was telling the truth so he was but because of his past it interfere our relationship and on tuesday he wrote a letter saying that he still liked me and never would cheat on me at the end of the letter he asked if i trust him and i said yes so ever since that day me and him are still going out but now i am still having thoughts if he is still liking any of his ex's but now he is backing away from his friends that are gurls and his ex's. I am wondering if i did the right thing. (link)
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honey dump him or you'll wind up getting hurt even worse. been there and done that!
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my friend says that when you finger someone, the person being fingered can being wearing pants but i dont think that is true ...is it true or no ..if its not true how can i tell her? (link)
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hi... you can have pants on but the guy should have his hand down your pants. you have to actually get in the girls pussy in order to finger her. i have had it done to me a couple of times. same guy though. so tell your friend she is either smoking something or she just doesn't know a thing about it.
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okay so this has been really bothering me *hence, the subject*.. does anyone think it's weird that i'm going to be sixteen and i've never kissed a guy? (link)
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its not weird.. i have a friend who is a senior in high school and still hasn't had her first kiss. its fine... i mean you could just be waiting for the right guy. he will come around soon.
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Ok i just had sex a few days ago for the first time. We used a condom i made sure of it!! Ever sence like the next day ive been liking having clear stuff come out of me. Its kinda like the stuff sometimes you get before or after your peroid but its not after my peroid or before. I asked my one friend that already had sex and she said no she didnt have anything like that. What does it mean?
*-*thanks a bunch*-*
~*~If your nice about it and dont make fun of me ill rate you a 5*-* (link)
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hunny... don't worry about it. it is discharge. just like every other person has said. it is discharge and there is nothing to worry about. that link guy was a total meanie and plus he's a guy what does he know???
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14 f - Okay i've just noticed that my best friend has really changed...see last december she got hooked up wit her prince charming n up till this very day they r still together, i want her to be happie wit him, but i feel i'm loosing her in the process! Look we used to talk everyday n then she would 3 way call him, n then it changed to calling me, n then leaving me to talk to him, and that was only for like 30 min...n then now it's like she bairly calls, and when she does it only lasts like 5 min. at the most! I've tried telling her, but it alwayz stays tha same!
*dazed n confused* (link)
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honey, honey, honey! boy does this story match my life. ok.... i had a boyfriend for 10 months and then i found out he was cheating on me. he like practically took over my life. i stopped talking to my friends and i would ALWAYS be on the phone with him. is your friend becoming lazy in school and becoming disrespectful to adults, particually her parents? if so you need to have her come over and tie her to a chair(so she can't get up and walk away) and talk to her. remind of her of all the good times yall used to have. trust me it works. my friends did the same thing to me. tell your friend that you miss her and want her back to her regular self. do it before she gets hurt. trust me. she might even be considering having sex with him since they have been together for so long. i thought about having sex with my bf and then i got the "talk" at school and i changed my mind. ask her if she is considering having sex with him and stuff. if so just go to your library and see if they have any videos or picture books about S.T.Ds. trust me it will change her mind. (we puked at our school) just see whats up with her. trust me. things might get back to normal!!
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Ok here it is my best friend has a sister who is older but pretty, smart, and funny. Im totly attracted to her. See im 16 and she is 21, we always talk and im always complimenting her on how good she looks. What should i do? I really like her and i do not think age really matters! (link)
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umm... lets see... tell her u like her, tho it is illegal for her to do anything with you. all b/c of your age difference. just tell her how you feel. who knows she could like you. plus if u r a hottie then totally go for her!!
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Okay.. I will admit.. i'm a stoner.. I like drugs.. I'm just starting to wonder what these drugs will actually do to me in the long run. If you can get me any sites or information on the drugs listed .. Please tell me... I rate high
1. Cigarettes
2. Marijuana
3. Crack/ coke
4. Acid
5. Meth
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stop now or die! simple as that.
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ok...i went out with this guy for a while on and off then finally we just stopped going out...then one of my friends went out wit him and i wasnt that comfortable at first but then got used to it but still thoguht about him..they broke up for a couple days and i started liking him again..but they got back together..and i still have feelings for him...whut should i do!? (link)
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well.... did she ask you if it was ok to date him?? if not that is so not being a good friend at all. if she was truly your friend she would've asked you. tell him your feelings. girls don't realize it but guys change their minds more than girls do!!
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hi im 15 and i have long hair, like every other guy at school. but it looks really bad, like its always messed up when i wake up. it looks good with a hat on, but without nething..*twitch* ne ideas to what i can do to make it look good in like 5-10 minutes? thx (link)
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dude... my like brother(not real brother just seems like it) grew his hair out and it is a freaking afro. this boi is white. go and get a hair cut PLEASE.. before you look like him.
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theres this girl i like and she has a boyfriend . me and her were supposedly supposed to go out but we never did. what should i do about that ...... THeres also this other girl shes smart pretty and seems like my type but i dont know if she has a boyfriend can you help me out with both of these i think i know the outcome of the first one (link)
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OMG!!! eric... who says you don't have a chance with freaking stephanie??? and idk who the other girl is. UGH!!! gee... boi you always have the romance issues besides tiffany. lol. gee lets see... ummm....
1.) Tell the other girl that you like her and stuff. and also tell steph. make sure they both know and then which one comes running first.
ummm... i aint in a mood right now. kinda sad but theres your advice.
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i just plain out need help lol (link)
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i need your problem so i can give you a solution. PLEASE WRITE BACK IN HERE AND TELL ME SO I CAN HELP YOU!!!!
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My best friend and I got into a fight because she lied to me about why my boyfriend broke up with me. She actually told him she was in love with him and stuff like that.. since she KNEW he also liked her. And the reason she did that was to get him to break up with me.. all because of jealousy! Well.. she finally told me the truth.. AFTER she knew 2 other people told me. She thinks im mad at her for causing him to break up with me.. but im mad because she lied.. I tried to tell her that.. and she got really defensive and blocked me. Everytime i try to talk to her at school, she walks away from me.
She and I have been friends for a few years now. I hate for our friendship to end like hers and her other best friend's did. How can I talk to her? I tried appologizing and all she said was .. "Mhm Im sure you are". How can I make her realize we are both better off with each other? (link)
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if this has happened before with her and her other "best friend" then it must be happening with yall. she obviously isn't a really good friend if she did that. i just went through the sme thing but i didn't lose my bf and he doesn't like her. she likes him but everyone calls her fat and that she has herpies. WHO CARES!! i don't like her anymore. just tell your friend to go _____ herself.
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I have a girlfriend right now and i like her, but im not sure if i like her like that right now. theres this other girl that i like and shes not my girlfriend what should i do (link)
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WOAH!! lets see..... i am going through the same thing right now but i LOVE my boyfriend but i like someone else. i would tell you to break up with your girlfriend but it is all up to you. personally if i were a guy, and guys are stupid(no offense), i would break up with my girlfriend.
yall don't even seem like gf and bf to me b/c yall don't sit together and don't talk to each other.
you just might even be better off without each other. you know?
2nd of all???
does this other girl know that you like her? do you know if she has a bf? does she like you?? you need to find out these things if you are going to break up with your gf. you don't wanna do something stupid and ask that girl out and come to find that she doesn't like you.
hope i helped!!!
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I like this guy at my school. I'm not sure if he likes me or not. He's a senior and I'm a freshman. We are friends, and his best friend is my brother. I want to become more than friends, but I'm not sure if he does. My parents and my siblings don't think I should date or anything of that sort. This guy is not like any other guy I know. He's special, I just don't know how to tell him that. I'm also not sure if he likes me. Whenever he's doing something, he always persuades me to go. And if I'm not going to do something, he then says, "well then I'm not going." I don't want to say anything because that would be awkward at school and church. I'm not sure what to do, should I go for it and ask him or not!?!?! Sorry its so long! (link)
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It more the likely wont work out. sorry....
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Ok, my head hurts really bad. Its not a headache ( I know when I have a headache) and Its kind of a weird feeling, like my head is a melon and everytime I lay down or bend over, my head feels like its goign to fall off. My nose is all stuffy and I have no idea if I am getting sick or what. What do you think this is, the flu? What should I take (over the counter) to help me get better? Thanks (link)
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you could either have a sinuses efection or it could be something bigger than that. my friends step-sister got this diease and like it was a diease that made her brain grow and stuff. she was in the hospital for a week or two. she got over it. ask your parents to take you to a doctor.
hope you feel better soon
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ok my ex-best friend keeps non-stop talking behind my back and saying how bitchy i am ( even though i'm not) and she keeps telling this guy i like bad things about me, some are true and some aren't and she is getting on my nerves and i just don't know what to do because she was my best friend until christmas break ( which was when i found out when she told all this crap about me) i can't ignore her because she's in my group of friends... what should i do??? by the way we're both 14 and female... (link)
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look honey it is called P.M.S.
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I'm in a very long distance realtionship. But I know I love him. Do you think it will work out? (link)
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TIFFANY.... honey... i went through the same. but NOPE it didn't work out. i don't know tyronne and it seems that he just doesn't wanna talk to you at all b.c he never picks up his phone or when he does he says call back in 15 minutes and then falls asleep
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how do you get a girl to fallin love w/ you/ like you? & how do you know if she does like you/ love you? does she like act diffrent then around other people or what..???? (link)
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depends on the girl.... some girls just fall for everything that is romantic just like me. yep! and some girls will play hard to get. if the chick likes you she is deffintely going to act different around you!! trust me take some advice from a girl. i know these things....
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