Question Posted Saturday February 19 2005, 6:13 pm
ok my ex-best friend keeps non-stop talking behind my back and saying how bitchy i am ( even though i'm not) and she keeps telling this guy i like bad things about me, some are true and some aren't and she is getting on my nerves and i just don't know what to do because she was my best friend until christmas break ( which was when i found out when she told all this crap about me) i can't ignore her because she's in my group of friends... what should i do??? by the way we're both 14 and female...
MiZzAdViCe16 answered Saturday February 19 2005, 10:14 pm: you can tell that she is jealous of you and the way you are because the only reason why some one would talk bad about you was because they are jealous and you should also tell her you found out about her talking stuff about you if she doesnt already kno
Ana21 answered Saturday February 19 2005, 8:22 pm: 3 words. shes not your best friend. best friends dont do that to each other. do ignore her. eve though shes there doenst mean you have to talk to her. abd also so ask her what the heck is going on? hope i helped!
~*ana*~ [ Ana21's advice column | Ask Ana21 A Question ]
shake answered Saturday February 19 2005, 8:14 pm: Slap her, she deserves it. Shes immature, she'll grow up over time, maybe shes just mad at the moment because she crapped her diapers and no one will help her clean up her mess. [ shake's advice column | Ask shake A Question ]
xxxxxx answered Saturday February 19 2005, 7:07 pm: ahh i know exactly what to do in this situation. you need to confront her personally, in person, but dont flip out, yell, or anything. when you get her alone just stop her and be like, look why are you saying stuff about me? and most likely she'll either be speachless or be like "cause i hate you youre a bitch blah blah blah" and then be like "alright look, i didnt do anythign to you, i didnt say anything about you, so just stop" and be serious, but dont be rude or sarcastic. and then walk away, if she screams something back who cares, but she wont stop if you tell her online cause thats not even intimidating. once you maturly talk to her she'll probably stop and feel stupid. [ xxxxxx's advice column | Ask xxxxxx A Question ]
sunny411 answered Saturday February 19 2005, 6:56 pm: Okay well one thing is that what you could do i say "What are you doing talking about all this crap about me we are best firneds and you turned into a non best friend." Or just say....You are acting like a total jerk and i dont want to be friends wirth you anymore. I have heard all the crap you are saying behind my bak and i just dont think you are a good friend. and if she is like i dont know what you are talkng about just be brave and be like I know you know what i am takling about... well good luck.
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.