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Hey..Im Amber yah im 14 years old and i live in maine...i love to answer questions and i do my best to help anyone out. i guess i give pretty good advice cause most of the time it works for most of my friends..but im not always right...im really big into sports i LOVE to play all kinds of sports. i play lacrosse and play other ones with my friends and cousins. Im always out busy doing stuff so i hope i can help you with whatever you need. cause i been threw some pretty thuff things to..so i kinda know how u feel.

advice

i need to know how to grow my ails the fastest way before my birthday party its in a week and there just a little bit long not that much i want the white part of my ails to show relly good and relly long i know not to bite them cauz i decided to stop but any other ways !!!!!!!!!

I dont know any other ways besides just letting them grow or getting fake nails any time i want the white part to show i just get a french manicure! well good luck!

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where can i get music off the internet? not anything like limewire or anything that i have to download?

i just got to www.yahoomusic.com

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does anyone know any cool sites to get cool things for you AIM profile..besides quotemania b/c its down!

i'll rate 5's

thanks!

well what i usually put in my profile is usually like www.quizyourfriends.com make a quiz have your friends take it and put it in ur profile! or i usually do is www.buddyprofile.com! thats usually what i do! or i usually put songs or something in my profile like this http://www.flashplayer.com/animation/imissyoudaddy_movie.php GOOD LUCK!

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14/f

Ok there is this boy in school and in the begining of the year we talked not alot but enough...so then one day he told me that i was pretty so i figured he liked me..(he didnt really just go over to me and say ur pretty but there is a hole long story but you dont need to kno it to help me)...so then after that happend he kinda just stopped talkin to me and we never really talk much...so does he like me or not??
please help ------->i'll rate 5's

well maybe he just wants to be friends with you or something get his aim screen name or email address and try to talk to him just be your normal self i dont really think he likes likes you i think he just likes you from the point im reading it from! or either that he was embarssed and is afraind to talk to u again!

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what's a virgin?

a virgin is someone who never had sex before!

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well i got the courage to tell him how i felt! he was so suprised that i told him cause he thought i had lost all my feelings for him! he told me that it still would take him a while before he forgives me, but that he would cause hes in love with me! we've been hanging out outside of work and he tells his friends that im his gf and hate when i talk to other guys! so i guess were good! one thing is that he uses it against me! if he needs something he'll tell me that i owe him and this is wat i need to do if i want to be with him! is this right? i kinda feel i deserve it. but do i?

haha its good news but bad! okay well you are not really "going out" and if you want to go out with him and have him treat you like shit then go ahead!! But also if you dont want him to treat you like that then just say i love you with all my heart but i hate how ytou put things against me or something like that! if you want to go out with him just be like Will you go out with me? and if he says yes then just see how he treats you and if he says no well thats it and you still are friends and everything! well good luck!

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hey heres my story:
im 18 yrs old and in love with a 24 yr old man! my story starts like this, hes my manager at my job and iimediatly had an instant crush on him but me i dont have that much confidence in myself so when he satrted to show intrest in me i panicked and backed way and brought in a freind to go for him, but the only thing is that the friend is actualy me! the real me that i would like to be but dont have the confidence to be! i made up her name and a whloe life for her(me).and called him pretending to be this person! everything was going so well and my emotions got stronger and the more we talked the more we had in common! i ended up fallin totaly head over heels in love with him and decided id tell him and low and behold he felt the same way! and of course he wanted to meet! i didnt know wat to do! i thought for days and days as to wat i should do and finaly decided i should tell him the truth! that the women he was in love with was me!.... well when i told him over the phone he seemed fine and didnt wanna talk about it just wanted to put it behind us and told me that he could never trust me agian! and im the type of person that trust is important to me and it broke my heart to hear that! so anyway the next three weeks passed by and evything was fine he was nice and called me to talk like friends he invited me to places with him and stil comnfided stuff with me! we were all cool then he hit me with a song he had wrote! he had origianly wanted me to hear it but my comp didnt have speakers so he sent me the lyrics! it was amazing lyrics it touched my heart but he didnt say that i was for me! so i read it he imed me like 20 times asking me if i had recived it and wanted my reaction! once again i panicked and retracted my emotions and played it as if i didnt understand the message he was trying to convey! like i liked the song and wanted to know who the artist was (knowing that he wrote it). he immediatly signed off! then greated me at work with a big smile the next day and asked me once again if i had recived the email! again i backed away! and now so di he! he wont talk to me as much anymore and insist on makeing me jelouse with the other female employees! meanwhile im standing hear with all these feelings and dont know wat to do! im in love with him so much it hurts i cant take it anymore he keeps telling me that my apolagies just arnt enough!can u pls tell me wat i should do! it hurts to have these strong feeling twords someone and not be sure that they feel the same way! i want to go back to when i was the real me!( wich he named lola)
sincerly,
lola( the real me)

ok well im so sorry to hear that but also think of it this way hes 24 and ur 18! so you might love him but he probley dose not trust you very well because you lied to him and he probley did not like that but he works with you and you see him and at least you get in touch with him theres nothing you can do besides talk to him and act like nothings wroung...just say your sooo sorrry and i kno you wont accpet my apogay but anyways for what i did was wroung and i like you alot and i dont want to loose you as a friend. thats all i can say for now tell me how things go because thats all that you can do and if he dose not accpet ur appogiy then im sorry to hear that but thats it any mroe things that happends send one to m y inbox!

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what is a 3 sum?

a 3 sum is when 3 people have sex instead of 2!

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Hey guys I ned some help.

First of all I have had a bff since kindergarden, let's call her ***.

I am becoming friends with the popular people, and I truly am friends with them. I do a lot with them. Whenever i hang out with those girls, *** gets mad at me and says I am trying to be popular. I am NOT!! *** Hates the popular people. I hang out with *** a lot and I hang out with my new friends a lot too. I need help, because I love *** and my new friends. I don't know what to do.

well just let *** know that shes your best friend and nothing can eva stop that! shes just jelous that you have new friends :) hope i helped and good luck! sunny411

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What does LAX mean? Is it short for like lacrosse or what?

Lax is Lacrosse i play the sport! hope i helped, Sunny411

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hi i'm 15,male,ohio and there is this girl that i like but shes really popular and i'm not i'm hated by everyone popular and i'm not sure if she hates me and i'd really like to get to know her shes gave me her number but never sits by me on the bus and jus says hi.

well at least she knows ur there! you have her number give her a call sometime! if you have aim or something like that and she dose to just ask for her screen name. or just get into a convo with her. hope i helped and good luck!

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ok so my family has 1 computer that has internet..and me and my sister fight constantly about it. so my mom decided that we get the computer every other day. so like i get it today all day and she gets it tomorrow all day..then i get it the next day...and so on..but i think thats totally unfair..cuz i like to talk to my friends everynight/day. so can someone help me with coming up with a plan or somethin to make it so we both get time on the computer everyday? thanks

Hey my friend has the same thing just like switch every now and then my friend has a special time she can be on i think its every 2-3 hours or something well hope i helped and good luck

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my sister and i do not get along, does she hate me?

i was playing the sims 2 downstairs. and i used her eyeliner. so she somehow got into my room. and saw HER eyeliner. she comes downstairs. with a prissy attitude. and starts SCREAMING at me! for NO REASON I JUST USED HER EYELINER! so i say "say it nicely or i wont talk" she says it nicely but not meaning it nicely.. so she slaps me with all her might!

that was about 1 day ago.. and i still see the hand mark (she does karaty, sself defence, softball etc) and i think i have anger-managements and i start thorwing shit around like i broke my moms keyboard holder (but i fixed it) i broke the lamp but i fixed it and i broke everything there like my little sisters toys... well my oldd ones and now my little sisters..

do you think my sister hates me?

hey im sorry about whats going on in your house i understand about everything and i understnda about the eye liner! but she slaped you!!! wow im sorry to hear that! but i dont think she hates you its just your sisters and everyone fights but to have her leave you alone try to not use anything thats her and just dont try to leave her alone and maybe things will go good hope i helped,

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my grandma recently past away, & i love my grandpa i just don't know what to talk to him about can someone give me ideas?

hey im sorry about your grandmother but always talk to your grandfather about like what he likes as in sports or what you like to do maybe school or talk about something that you love to talk about! well i hope i helped! good luck

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i'm debating if i shood have a 14th b-day party. or jsut a little gathering with friends. for my 13th my mom treated me and 3 close friends to movies a nite in town and dinner. idn if i shood do that again or have some friends over at my house. i think i'm a little too old to like have a planned party somewhere like at a party place

hey thats cool just have like a slumber part or something and have pizza and all these cool games or something that sounds like fun!! lol

hope i helped,

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14/f
Is this just life?
Like almost all my friends has a boyfriend and i have not even had a good relationship with a guy. i feel like im not too good enough for other people. Is there going to be someone there? Is there any way i could do to make someone like me? Please Help!!!

and i really want a good boyfriend that i would like!

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ok i am 13 i am a make and i have a problem.. i have been datin this girl 4 about a month in a half now and i rlly love her yea yea i kno most peaple say that ppl as yong as me dont kno wat love is but thats not true i love her and i kno it but anywayz i finally got 2 talk 2 her 2day 4 the 1st time in about 3 weeks and i came 2 find that she was mad at me because this girl named misty told her that i asked her out and i didnt but when i got 2 talk 2 her she was all sad and mad and she thought i did it i told her i didnt and she says she bleaves me but just somethin is tellin me she dont can any 1 plz help me...

-it might not be something that you are looking for....

okay well....since your relationship you ever had and you guys are really close just ask her whats wroung if you guys can talk to each other about things just let her kno that you love her more than anything....or something like that. maybe this "misty" person wants you and is trying to break you 2 up...just let her kno that you did not ask anyone out because there is no one better than her!!just if you need any help just e-mail something to my inbox! hope i helped and good luck!

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i`m 16 & my boyfriend is in jail i love him more then anything in this world .. he says hes gonna change but i dont know if i should believe him what should i do

well...just belive him for now! when he comes out see how it works. it has happend that alot of people have changed and some did not change. but he probley loves you to. so why would he lie? well just see how it works out. hope i helped,

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I care a lot about my friends but to some of them i kinda feel like im not that important to them and we always have fights and its really hard and i need to kno how to handle it cuz im tired of fighting and having to deal with it its really hard well plz give me some advice ill rate high
Thanx

*i might of read the question wroung but heres my answer and hope it works out for you*

this happend with my friends i cared alot about all of them. and there was 5 of us. 2 of them did not hang out with the other 3 so i was stuck in the middle. but if you do things with all your friends and you are having a good time then you know they care about you to. i gotton into silly fights and stuff but i guess thats life. its really hard to keep friends and deal with them. but you could always talk to them asking why do you feel left out or that it seems like you guys are useing me. and that could always work for just a simmple chat with them. but think of it that you will always get new friends. and always keep the old. but friend ships are hard. good luck! hope i helped,

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A guy I know said he wants to neck with me. What does that mean?

OoOoO that guy wants to make out with you!
hope i helped,

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