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My friends and I are pretty close. We pretty much have at least 2 things in common, which is good, because I mixes it up a bit. But, sometimes, I just feel like we are keeping secrets from each other. There's this one matter in which they said was a 'personal problem'. I mean, They were keeping it between them at peeking out at the world saying 'Ha! You don't know it.' At least it felt that way. Then, I think they shared this with another one of my friends. I just feel like I don't know what's going on.
Also, A few of my friends are hanging out with a girl I don't like. I'm worried they are talking about me behind my back.
So my question is: How do I politely ask them to share it with me or just don't obsess over it, and, what do I say to my friends about the girl I don't like?

Thanks.

~Squcet~ (link)
Hmmm...

This is a tough one. Go to your friends and talk to them. Tell them that you arent comfortable with them not sharing things with you, and if they choose not to share anything with you, try not to be so showy about it.

Also, just tell them that you wouldt be comfortable hanging out with this other girl andthat they are still entitled to their opinion, you choose not to hang out with her.

Hope a helped a little bit,

~Puppy~


okay i need some help pease....(it might be long if thats okay) its about math and English project...

Well ther is this project i am suppose to be doing with 3 of my friends and well that makes the 4 of us. so on of these 4 dose not want to do anything she dose not want to get involed with it and when she comes over she is like well i gatta life i dont want to be doing this project its stubid....So my 2 friends and i did the whole MATH project without her and we put her name on it becasue we had to say who it was from and we put her name on it and she did some of the english the only reason we put her name on there was becasue we did not want her to be like oh they kiked my out of the group n i did everything and stuff like that was that a good thing we put her name on it? should we take her name off i donno what to do. (she is my friend not best but a friend) (link)
You should take the name off. If she was giving you a hard time about the project, she dosent deserve a grade, whether she did a tiny bit or not. Hope i helped

-puppy-


does anyone know how to post your xanga in your profile? i tried copying and pasting the address at the top of the screen, but i just it to say xanga in my AIM profile. i tried deleting the rest and leaving xanga, but i tried it later, and when i clicked on it, nothing happened. how do you post it in your AIM profile?!?! thx in advance!
~*erin*~ (link)
you click link at the top of your profile, and type in the adress there. At the bottom.. it will ask what you want it to say, there, type Xanga


There is this guy I have liked for 3 years. Tomorrow is our school dance and I really want to go with him. How do I ask him? Should I ask him? Please don't say flirt with him and see if you really like him. I need help now! I'll rate high. Please help me! (link)
Ask him.. it seems to me that he likes you, so... just ask him!


everytime i try to sumbit my answer to a question on this site, it says "Chatspeak detected. Type in english please" does anyone know why it's doing that, and how to fix it? I Rate High for the effort! thanks~* (link)
When you type things like, omg! lyke, I didnt know that!


i have a friend who i don't want to just be a friend..he's a guy im a grl and we tried goin out once but it didnt go to well so what should i do, conceal my feelings or talk to him? (link)
Well, you should never conceal your feelings for someone. Just talk to him and tell him how you really feel. If he likes you, too, you could try dating him again and if not, he isnt good enough for you anyway.


What the youngest baby do you think that you would put a 14 year old in charge of? And do you really think that at 14 they are responsible? (link)
Well, seeing as my sister is 13, and she babysits 1 yr olds, I think it depends on how responsible them seem. If they dont seem responsible, dont leave them with responsibilities


Ive just started babysitting and i dont no how much i should charge and hour. any ideas? (link)
Uhh.. well, my sister charges 7 dollars an hour for 2 kids so, if there is only one 3.50 and if they arent potty trained, you might want to make it 4.50


My friend katie and lisa and this other girl carly, were waiting after practice for their rides and carly had Katies cell phone and she threw it on lisa to get her to pay attention. Since Lisa wasn't paying attention, she didn't catch it, so it bounced off her stomach and hit the ground and it kinda broke, some pieces came off and the front is all messed up. Carly acted liek it was nothing, and didn't really apologize. My questions are:
1. Do you think Carly should pay a small price to get it fixed or for consulation? Or have her apologize.
2. If so, how should katie approach her and ask for either money or an apology?

Thanks (link)
Well, to answer your first question, yes, Carly should pay a price to repair the cell phone and she isnt really a good friend if she didnt offer to in the first place. And second, Kate should just go up to Carly and say something along the lines of, "well, you sort of broke my cell phone, and I was wondering if maybe you could pay to repair it." If this dosent work, I am out of advice. But, to me, Carly dosent seem to be a very good friend. Hope I helped


Well, this kid in my class bothers me about what I wear. I know I shouldnt let it bug me but I know they are talking about me behind my back. What should I do? (link)
Well, just really try to stay tough. Be sarcastic with a smile. Hope i helped. :p


is it a good way to make money
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Well, if you are referring to babysitting, it depends. If you take care of the children responsibly, then it is, but if you dont, they wont pay you. lol hope i helped


i have these kids i babysit for, and i mean theyre okay and everything, but they dont listen!! i dont know what to do, i even take out my cell phone and pretend to call their moms! theres a 8 year old A.D.H.D. boy, a 4 year old girl, and an infant. i get paid 4$ an hour...does that seem like enough for what i have to deal with? (link)
Well i don't babysit, but my sister usually babysits 2 kids, a boy and a girl. And she gets payed 7$ an hour. So, you might want to considor asking for a raise on your pay because that dosent seem entirley fair. Considoring there are three kids and one of them has a condition. Hope I helped


When ever i babysit for this one family, they never pay me until weeks later. Im kinda shy to ask for it..but what should i do? (link)
You should just call them. It will take a bit of the pressure off. Just ask them if they could please pay you on the night you babysit and not pay late. Hope I helped


Ok I just learned how to run the Laundry machine but the only thing is that when I dryed the clothes, they still smelt like the people who wore them, so is there any specific kinda soap to use and how much do I put in there?

~*Cleaning Ladie*~ (link)
Hmm... maybe try using a different brand... All, Downy, and make sure you are putting the soap in the right place. Hope I helped


~pup~


My boyfriend is amazing. I love him to death. But he is a little immature sometimes when I need him to just be serious. Any way I could tell him in a nice, non-offending way?? (link)
He is probably just a little shy. He dosen't know what to say, so he trys to find a way to make you laugh. Just let him know that he dosen't need to be shy around you. If you both love eachother, this is nothing to lose a relationship over.

Hope I helped.




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