My friends and I are pretty close. We pretty much have at least 2 things in common, which is good, because I mixes it up a bit. But, sometimes, I just feel like we are keeping secrets from each other. There's this one matter in which they said was a 'personal problem'. I mean, They were keeping it between them at peeking out at the world saying 'Ha! You don't know it.' At least it felt that way. Then, I think they shared this with another one of my friends. I just feel like I don't know what's going on.
Also, A few of my friends are hanging out with a girl I don't like. I'm worried they are talking about me behind my back.
So my question is: How do I politely ask them to share it with me or just don't obsess over it, and, what do I say to my friends about the girl I don't like?
This is a tough one. Go to your friends and talk to them. Tell them that you arent comfortable with them not sharing things with you, and if they choose not to share anything with you, try not to be so showy about it.
Also, just tell them that you wouldt be comfortable hanging out with this other girl andthat they are still entitled to their opinion, you choose not to hang out with her.
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