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Question Posted Tuesday November 23 2004, 11:00 am

When ever i babysit for this one family, they never pay me until weeks later. Im kinda shy to ask for it..but what should i do?

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DancinCutie08 answered Monday July 11 2005, 2:28 pm:
tell them you have other plans or u want to be paid the night u babysit or before. its not fair to u

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xOtWiXi answered Sunday March 20 2005, 12:01 pm:
I would give them a notice saying that their payment is due. If that doesn't work, tell them that you need the money for supplies or whatever. Don't be embarrassed, YOU EARNED IT. ♥

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XSugarPieX77 answered Friday December 10 2004, 6:24 pm:
Hey, just be like to the mom or whoever and be like im saving up for a sweater or shirt but i dont have enough, i hoped i could get babysitting money.
~Brina~
p.S- If they dont pay you then maybe you shouldnt work for them.

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dinoold answered Wednesday December 1 2004, 4:19 pm:
STOP babysitting..see whne they go get GAS for their car..the cannot tell them I will pay you later..or if they get FOOD they do not say..oh later..

so..DO NOT babysit for them untell you say..i need the money BEFORE now due to late payment..ok.

I am sorry but they are totally using you..and they are the CRUMMY adults who should be made to babys sit for minimum wage.

Ps if they object say see YA..unless you really like the children..but then get your paresnts to talk to them.

Grr..sorry but they have totally takne advantage of YOU!!!

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x0xjohndeerx0x answered Friday November 26 2004, 10:30 pm:
ask 4 ur money u worxed 4 it u earn it ...:)

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morgan0612 answered Thursday November 25 2004, 6:54 pm:
i kno its hard to ask these things but sometime u need to. i have the same problem. but last month i went up to the parents of this child and told them that i needed to be paid to help pay for something i needed and they said they were sorry they didn't have any money and i told them that i couldn't babysit for free anymore and that i would not do it anymore unless they paid ahead of time. so try what works for u just explain what u mean and it do good(by the way they did start payin me ahead of time)_____Mo

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Pornstar answered Wednesday November 24 2004, 2:00 pm:
Next time they call you to babysit, you tell them that you don't have a problem babysitting, but you need to be paid that night. If they say that they can't do that, then tell them you can't do it.

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puppydog1733 answered Wednesday November 24 2004, 12:32 pm:
You should just call them. It will take a bit of the pressure off. Just ask them if they could please pay you on the night you babysit and not pay late. Hope I helped

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theblondeone989 answered Wednesday November 24 2004, 2:34 am:
Just ask them. Unless they're close family friends or something of the sort, I'm sure they KNEW you didn't just watch their kids for kicks. Plus, it sounds like they're still paying you, right?

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russianspy1234 answered Wednesday November 24 2004, 1:57 am:
well do you get paid? im guessing yes, so they are a bit late big deal. if you need cash now and youre shy about asking them you could always borrow money from someone else.

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DancinChica7 answered Tuesday November 23 2004, 8:14 pm:
If you want the cash you have to speak up. but be polite you don't wanna sound rude. ay something like could you please pay me tonight because i need the money. good luck

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WoWsErS123 answered Tuesday November 23 2004, 5:16 pm:
No what you mean! just ask them next time be like can i have my pay or w/e you wanna call it lol now? because im going shopping or something! hope i helped!

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Roxybabii922 answered Tuesday November 23 2004, 3:31 pm:
Well in that situation I would take the easy way out, by getting someone else to do it for you. Or you could casually tell them that you were hoping to have the money within the week so that you could go do something or spend it or something.

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LiiDDLESTUNNAx answered Tuesday November 23 2004, 3:07 pm:
well if i was you don't be shy i'd say somthin to your parents first. if your parents tell you to handle it on your own like mine would just politley ask be like is there away i can get paid a little bit earlier then i usually do.

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Beccers_boo answered Tuesday November 23 2004, 2:12 pm:
You need to be asertive. When you get there... double check on how muc htthey are paying you per hour... etc. Then ask them if it is possible for you to start getting thie money the night you babystit or the next night. just be polite.

-beccers_boo

keep me posted

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mercedes answered Tuesday November 23 2004, 11:53 am:
It's hard to ask people for the money they owe you when you feel like you're lucky to have the job in the first place, but think of it this way: They're lucky to have someone who is reliable and available to watch their kids. People don't leave their children with just anyone, so obviously they are quite happy with you.
I'd go this route: Next time they call you to babysit, say yes, and then say "This is perfect, I wanted to go to the movies this weekend (Or whatever) And didn't have the money." They'll understand then that you don't babysit becuase ou have nothing better to do, you babysit BECAUSE YOU NEED THE MONEY. They'll get the hint.

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babychick answered Tuesday November 23 2004, 11:45 am:
i really think that you should go up to them and ask for them to pay up and be like i need this money and if they dont pay it then say i cant babysit until you pay me.

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1anonymous answered Tuesday November 23 2004, 11:38 am:
Dont be shy! just tell them casually that you need the money, call them up and say something like: When should I pick up my money? Don't directly ask them for it. Hope I helped! >also, dont be shy, its a bad habit (i used to be extremely shy :))

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amcdragrad08 answered Tuesday November 23 2004, 11:04 am:
I used to be in this situation myself. You need to ask this family for the money, otherwise both of yall will forget. If she or he doesn't have the money right then, then ask for it the next day. The more u ask, the more likely that u'll get ure money. :-) ~amc~

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