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hey everyone i think i'm pretty good at giving advice because i know how to listen and take things seriously. it doesnt matter what the question is, i answer everything.
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there was this new girl who i thought was the coolest person ever. Me and her became really good friends... we shared a locker... well anyways then she got to become popular with one of my group of friends... who i was just getting to know. they began to like her more then they liked me. One day she comes up to me and says she isnt my friend anymore becuase i am to touchey feely! soon i lose like all the friends that she made for the same reason. How do i deal with this. They are all really nice to me and dont treat me like i am a horrible person but i dont get what i did wrong and how to deal with this. Alot of them are the sweetest people! Help me please.
Just think about it. Are u a "touchy feely" person? and if so think why...its alright to be who u are...maybe the new girl wanted to fit in and be "popular." Dont think too much on it, it'll make u feel worse...I think the best thing for u to do in this case is to either make new friends or to not be "touchy feely" about this situation. hope i helped! good luck!:):):):)
Hi well like u know i lost prety much the friends that i was really close to before and well laitly i have had hard times of making new friends and well usually i'm really good about talking to people and introdusing my self to them but i just dont know what to do anymore.....what do you think is wrong with me..? and well i hope this site will help me to make some new girls/guy friends that i can talk to when i need some one to hear me out!
First of all theres nothing wrong with u. Second, this dr squirrel is a funny but immature person. You should join more clubs and stuff and be outgoing. be more confident in urself and start conversations with people even if u dont know them...we're all here to help u out dont worry! :) hope i helped! good luck!
ok i like hate my name so much .. it's Liana.. and well people sometimes "cant pronounce it" so they just say "Hey you!" or they just pronounce it wrong. Or sometimes their like "um..you.. i forgot your name" .. and well like is there anything i can do to get people to pronounce my name right or call me something diffferent that is easy to pronounce .. (maybe like a nick name)
p.s. sometimes my friends call me Lee for short but not very often
Thats a really cool name! I know how u feel cuz everyone says my name wrong too and i hate it but i'm kinda used to it now...try explaining to them how to pronounce your name and correct them when theyre wrong..make sure not to just let it go otherwise everyone'll just get used to saying it wrong...if that doesnt work just stick with lee...hope I helped! Good luck!:):)
When ever i babysit for this one family, they never pay me until weeks later. Im kinda shy to ask for it..but what should i do?
Dont be shy! just tell them casually that you need the money, call them up and say something like: When should I pick up my money? Don't directly ask them for it. Hope I helped! >also, dont be shy, its a bad habit (i used to be extremely shy :))
What would be the best way to fix a motivation problem...or lack thereof. I am never fully motivated or try my best at anything. How would you fix that? If I was fully motivated I could be awesome at anything but I just dont have the urge to try.
Just think of what u get after u finish something...Like when i do my homework or something, after im done i take a 15 min break where i do things i like, drawing, taking a nap, eating, lol! U said urself that if u tryed u could be awesome at anything. Dont u want to be? just think about that! good luck ~ hope i helped :)
Ok, so the deal is all of a sudden my friends have starting acting very rude to me. They do not invite me anywhere or call me for anything, I am the one who has to hunt them down if I want to hang out with them. I think this has happened because right now in the group I am the only one that has a boyfriend (3 years) there was another girl who had a boyfriend (for a year) but he broke up with her. So my situation is I am trying to spend time with my boyfriend and my friends and try to get 90's in school AND working every single day. My friends were fine at the beginning of school and all of a sudden they got mad at me for not inviting them to lunhc everyday (when my bf and I go on a date). They apparently are mad at me for other reasons to but won't tell me why. So I bascailly try and hangout with them feeling like an outsider and I don't know what to do. Last night we tried to go out and I wanted to drink but they were saying they needed another driver so I ended up driving... I was having a horrible time and we weren't getting into any parties and my friend was demanding I drive her all these places without asking so I said well some people have to pay for gas, and she actually sat there bitching at me because I asked for gas money (none of the other girls who drive ask for gas money, but I am the only one who actually owns a car and has to drive it everywhere i go, they all get rides) So like what should i do? I am soo mad at them for not telling me anything like If something bothers you shouldn't you confront that person so they can stop ? I have tried to talk to one of the girls and she said "i don't feel like talking about it" like what kind of response is that? My boyfriend is all stressed about it to because I will go over to his house crying because of my friends.
DO NOT GIVE UP ON UR FRIENDS!!!! What u have to do is just talk to ur friends, just pick a day, get together at ur house and just TALK. Just say that you've been depressed because u dont know what u did wrong and u want to know. It might just be a misunderstanding so dont leave ur friends. try not to get stressed out (i know thats impossible it ur situation) but just relax. it'll be over in no time..Good luck!
All right, I have a friend Lizzie, and we are really close. She has a group of friends that I always knew didn't like me that much, and that never bothered me. but all of a sudden she's telling me that she can only hang out with me on the bus on Thursdays, and doesn't talk to me anymore. I know I should give up on her but she's my best friend!! Please tell me what to do.
i know people are telling u to give up on ur friend and make new friends but i think thats the worst possible move. Maybe ur friend is just going through a "phase." Just talk to her whenever u can...sometimes friends try new people to hang out with to get their mind off something else going on..DO NOT GIVE UP ON HER..Good luck! (keep us updated)
I have a friend that I've known since like 3rd grade. I'm a sophomore now and lately she's been driving me crazzy. She's my bestfriend and I don't have another bestfriend, i have other friends but I dunno she's always been my bestfriend. So, yeah.. she's been reallly annoying me. Suggestions?
I dont think u should annoy her back or anything, just tell her that she was being annoying. Dont say it real seriously but say it casually. This isnt a big deal (i hope) so you shouldnt be all serious about it..hopefully ur friend will get the message..Good luck!
Everyone said I'm immature for my age. I don't think i'm THAT immature .. it's just like the way I act. I act the way I do to amuse people, and people think im like soo funny and everything .. I don't wanna stop being how I am because being funny is what I do, but I still want people to stop callen me immature.
What should I do? Please help!
Its alright to be immature sometimes and have fun but just dont be all laughing and playing around when someone is trying to talk about something serious with u. Just be urself but know when to to take someone seriously.
Hey, I just wanted to drop by and say hi, I really like your advice, you're not like *SOME* of these retarded people out there! my sn on this is Squirrel.on.fire13, You're on my fav list FYI.
~*~Ally~*~
thanks! yeah i know, some of these "advicenators" can be pretty immature when they dont know what they're talking about- I can usually give pretty good advice but if I have no idea whatsoever i just tell them straight out-thanx again
~1anonymous
hey! does anyone know any good tips for training a rabbit? my rabbit's really jumpy and i want it to relax and be calm when i'm around... i also want it to play a little bit, and maybe let me hold it.. right now he barely lets me pick him up... thanks so much!!
xox
~Lana
DO NOT THROW IT AGAINST THE WALL OR STARVE IT! dont listen to what these other idiots (srry but they r) r saying..theyre retards who dont have a clue of how to take care of rabbits. rabbits do have brains! all u have to do is spend alot of time with it..put it in ur lap and read or something..rabbits only like to be picked up when theyre relaxed. dont only go to its cage to pick it up..have an "understanding" with it..go to it to feed it a treat (grapes or bananas) and just sit there for a while and look relaxed and look it in the eye..good luck! (anymore questions ttme, these other ppl dont know what theyre talking about) good luck!
i need to lose 15 lbs beacuse teh doctor said i was overwieght i would like a really good exercise or/and a really good diet thats not slim fast !!! thank u
i think the best thing is this exercise: lay down on the floor, lift your shoulders and your legs so ur in a V position, then move your legs up and down and do like 30 each day...or for a diet, eat lots of salad, they have almost no calories and they fill you up! Good luck!