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What Has Changed?
Ok, so the deal is all of a sudden my friends have starting acting very rude to me. They do not invite me anywhere or call me for anything, I am the one who has to hunt them down if I want to hang out with them. I think this has happened because right now in the group I am the only one that has a boyfriend (3 years) there was another girl who had a boyfriend (for a year) but he broke up with her. So my situation is I am trying to spend time with my boyfriend and my friends and try to get 90's in school AND working every single day. My friends were fine at the beginning of school and all of a sudden they got mad at me for not inviting them to lunhc everyday (when my bf and I go on a date). They apparently are mad at me for other reasons to but won't tell me why. So I bascailly try and hangout with them feeling like an outsider and I don't know what to do. Last night we tried to go out and I wanted to drink but they were saying they needed another driver so I ended up driving... I was having a horrible time and we weren't getting into any parties and my friend was demanding I drive her all these places without asking so I said well some people have to pay for gas, and she actually sat there bitching at me because I asked for gas money (none of the other girls who drive ask for gas money, but I am the only one who actually owns a car and has to drive it everywhere i go, they all get rides) So like what should i do? I am soo mad at them for not telling me anything like If something bothers you shouldn't you confront that person so they can stop ? I have tried to talk to one of the girls and she said "i don't feel like talking about it" like what kind of response is that? My boyfriend is all stressed about it to because I will go over to his house crying because of my friends.
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DO NOT GIVE UP ON UR FRIENDS!!!! What u have to do is just talk to ur friends, just pick a day, get together at ur house and just TALK. Just say that you've been depressed because u dont know what u did wrong and u want to know. It might just be a misunderstanding so dont leave ur friends. try not to get stressed out (i know thats impossible it ur situation) but just relax. it'll be over in no time..Good luck!
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well if they are avoiding you and are not helping out with gas moiney when you drivew them , they are obviously not very good friends.... i have been in you situation with my friends and i have found new friends some of the time... i have always said to my friends... "relationships come before friendships" and they dont liek it but , what can i say if it makes you happy with your boyfriend/girlfriend it must be working....... just talk with your friends tell them if they wont talk and help you ouit that you wont be thier friend anymore.... HOPE I HELPED IM ME IF YOUD LIKE GGAMEPLAYERE
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to tell you the truth you need new friends because the ones you have are jealous bitches sorry but its the truth. find some new friend even if it takes time. hope things get better. ~natalie~
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I think ur friends r jealous of ur relationship wif ur bf. They r trying to make u drive them about so u wont c ur bf as much. I think u should just tell them no matter wat they try 2 do they r never going 2 break u 2 up. Just be boss 2 them tell them 2 stop using u and if they deny it just tell them they r being unfair and try 2 find some new friends
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u know what i think babe...you need new friends. these people are shallow and they are using you. try hanging out with some of your boyfriends friends or join a club or a youth group or somthing but you deserve better than friends who will just use you and make you cry. you'll find some real friends soon i promise and you'll be so much happier. and hey if your from around mass i'll even be your friend. you seem like a nice enough chick.
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