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Trying to forget an ex!


Question Posted Sunday October 31 2004, 11:17 am

I am a 21 year old female and went out with a guy at uni, who messed me around a fair bit. He was from the Channel Islands and we knew it would be hard to keep seeing each other. We finished towards the end of uni because of this and I was gutted. He said it was best we didnt have contact, as it made things easier. Then I saw him in a pub and he begged for me back, saying he missed me and couldn't be without me. He even said he'd do anything to get me to come to live near him (he actually helped me apply for a job over there)and things were great. We finished uni, etc and it turned out it would be a while until I could get over there and then the job wasnt guaranteed. Sadly, we decided to finish it. We promised to stay friends and arranged to meet when he came over here. He seemed so excited to se me. Thing is, when it came to the time he came over he just totally ignored my text and phonecall so we never met up and I havent heard from him since (I text him recently to say hi). He has met someone else and I have too but I just cant understand why he has done this and I cant forget him! Its really stopping me from moving on. Any ideas on how I can forget him and any ideas why he has done this? Thanks for your time!

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xO_Chelsea_Ox answered Sunday October 31 2004, 1:12 pm:
Try to hang with the guy you might as much as possible and maybe party a lot and try to have as much fun as possible and eventually forget him. Like put away any pictures of him away and erase all his numbers and e-mails... He probably did this because he wants to forget so he doesn't have to live with the pain... I hoped i helped!! :)

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simplyxsweet answered Sunday October 31 2004, 1:01 pm:
yu shud try to talk thing out wit yer mom n reason wit her, maybe u both can go shopin together n pick out sum outfits yu both like that, are in style, n if not u can always go to yer dad n talk to him bout it bcuz dads tend to give in easyer, or if its a shirt yer mom wont really let u wear wen u go out where a jacket or somethin over it, n if its make up jus put it on, u cant really notice mascara n jus try to pic out light colors like lip glosses n eye shodows she might not notice u neva kno

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