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too touchy feely
there was this new girl who i thought was the coolest person ever. Me and her became really good friends... we shared a locker... well anyways then she got to become popular with one of my group of friends... who i was just getting to know. they began to like her more then they liked me. One day she comes up to me and says she isnt my friend anymore becuase i am to touchey feely! soon i lose like all the friends that she made for the same reason. How do i deal with this. They are all really nice to me and dont treat me like i am a horrible person but i dont get what i did wrong and how to deal with this. Alot of them are the sweetest people! Help me please.
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Just think about it. Are u a "touchy feely" person? and if so think why...its alright to be who u are...maybe the new girl wanted to fit in and be "popular." Dont think too much on it, it'll make u feel worse...I think the best thing for u to do in this case is to either make new friends or to not be "touchy feely" about this situation. hope i helped! good luck!:):):):)
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tell him to stop touching the fuck out of you
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get over it! tell her that she was the one who was touchy feely and that u didnt want to tell her to her face incase you lossed friendship with her. turn everything that she sed to you back oin her it should make her feel like shes guilty. and as for the other ones there just following ur m8 cus they dont wanna b left out. dont bothere with them there not worth it.
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There are a few options to think about here:
1. Is it possible that girl wanted you out of her new circle of friends? Perhaps she wanted to prove to herself that her new friends liked her because of who she was, not merely because you introduced her to everyone else.
2. If you ARE a touchy-feely person, there's nothing wrong with that...as long as you know the people around you are okay with it. Not everyone feels comfortable having other people touch them, even if they are very close friends.
The final solution? I'd talk to your old friends, ask them why they've stopped being close to you, and hopefully be able to rebuild from there. If they're still treating you nicely, then that's a really good sign.
I'd also talk to them one-on-one, as you'll get more honest answers and be able to connect more fully with people.
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