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I have been going out with this guy for about 2 months and he bought me a bracelet and necklace and my friends all think the bracelet is real gold or w/e idk. Anyways i told one of my best guy friends (who happens to be my ex bf) that I was planning on dumping him (and they are friends him and my bf) and he said he wouldnt tell him i said that but instead he told my bf to be a better bf to me and not be so shy around me so that night my bf invited me somewhere but i couldnt go then the next day he got me a really cool necklace so if I dump him that would be mean after he got me stuff and i heard he really really likes me! But I told my best friend about me dumping him and she told our other friend and our other friend told my bf so my bf was all i heard u were gonna dump me is it true and i was freaked so i said no so now if i dump him he'll no i lied and he'll be torn! what to do?? plz help sry this is long ill rate ya thanx love ya! ps. he seems more like the friend type!
pss. i cant help myself very much i have had 8 bfs and never been dumped i dump all them im not a player really i just get bored easily!(i no its stupid) im 13/f!!! (link)
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tell him you dont feel the same way bout him and that you sed no cause you didnt want 2 hurt his feelings. if i was you i tell him to fuk off.
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Me and my best friend liked the same guy, so I decided to back off of him so she could have him. He started liking her, then she told him she didn't want a boyfriend. Tonight at a b-ball game I hung out with him alot and he started liking me and then at halftime my friend came up to me and said "Damn, Andy looks hott tonight" and so I was like..crap. I don't want her to be mad at my, but I like this guy and he likes me, but I don't want it to like mess with our friendship. Its not like I'm going to go out with him right away, I want to get to know him and all....but what should I do? (link)
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tell he to get the fuk of your guy. she had him and she lossd him. he likes u now so tell her to keep away. if she is a true m8 then she will understand.
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so im 20yrs old and i just had a son with a 18 yr old. hes been doing really good with coming over (we both live with our parents) anyways, the problem is that once in awhile he'll say hes coming over and then doesn't even show up or call to say what's going on...i dont understand a little bit because i had talked to him about it and he agreed that calling would be the best thing and he also agreed that he should be calling when plans change, yet somehow he still seems to do it>>he'll tell me the night before that he's coming over and then just not show and not call me until the next day and talk as though nothings up...its bugging me so much i tried talking to him now what do i do??? (link)
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tell him that your son gets upset when you tell him that daddies coming over and when he doesnt show he crys. tell him you wont let him see his son anymore if this keeps happening because you dont want to see your son upset because of him.
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my bf is hidding behind being shy!
we have a son that was just born on halloween and he still hasnt got a job! i need help and he agreed to help, right now my parents are paying for everything and i dont know how to make him get a job, hes 18 years old...the only job hes ever has i got for him he didnt have to work for it so he doesnt know how to get one and ive tried to teach him but still doesnt go and get a job...i dont know what to do...how can i make him get a job but still be nice about it. (link)
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tell him your sick and tried of haveing your parents pay for everything and that you want him to pull his finger out. sometimes you have to be cruel to kind.
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i have a bff who i think of like a sis to me. she has been playing guyz now 4 a month. like she will go out wit them and brake up wit them 4 another.she has gone out wit 6 guyz now in 2 months.i noe i should shay this but she is becomin a hore. she has liked a guy (lest call him k) 4 a year now well k never showed that he cared 4 her. so she decide to go out wit 4 other guyz but always havin her mindd on k. so k has a friend (lets call him z)who really like her but she dont like him. so k makes a deal wit her to go out wit z 4 a week and then k goes out wit her 4 2 weeks. so she does it. than at a school dance she found a guy that she liked who she has seen be4 and had a little crush on him. so they hooked up and k got jealous and asked her out then she broke up wit her new bf to go out wit k. and she bregs about her and k all the time. what should i do? u thinks i am not happy 4 her when i am it is just that she needs to stop breggin about her and k and start carin mor about her friends. what should i do? plz help me! (link)
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tell her its m8s b4 guys!!!
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Hey every1,
This is miSSc and I need some advice about my singing...I can sing, but my vocal range (singing range) is kinda limited and my voice cracks sometimes when I go high. I know most of you will say that I should get voice lessons but...I don't have time for one. I use to take lessons but I had to give up because I started not having time for one. So...got any tips? I want to improve my "chest" voice. The highest note I can hit is a high "C" but I want to go higher with out straining my voice and not cracking either. Please help me!!!!
Sincerely,
MiSSc (link)
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practices with different types of songs. ones with different type of notes in. sorry i ant help you any further. good look
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Alright I'm a 17 year old male. I met this girl through a friend of a friend basically. At first it was rather awkward cause I'm a really shy person but she isnt. Then we got to know eachother rather well and became good friends. But I love this girl, shes so great. I've told her this and at first she started ignoring me. Then she was okay with it. She never said she loved me back. She just said it was okay If I loved her. So I started being more nice to her. I baught her lunch for a month,I pre-ordered the new Ev CD for her (she's a HUGE Ev fan), I gave her a necklace too... then she suddenly started ignoring me again. She won't even talk to me anymore. Some of her friends claim I freaked her out because I baught her stuff but... I was just being me. Being nice. I just wanted to see her happy. Anyhow, she's talking to me again but its not like before. It's only a hello here and there. So What do I do? (link)
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u should go up 2 her and explain y u did it all. apologise for the way u acted like u know buying her stuff. i know u wanted to see her happy bt i agree with all ur m8s u probly freeked her out. im a girl and i understand wots shes going through. all u need to do is basically tell her the truth. im not being nasty bt she prob doesnt fell the same way about you as u do her. if u get my drift. girls get freeked out by the way that people especially boys. if tboys tell girls they love them it can scare them away. just say that ur not gonna lie about still loving her and you can change the way that you feel bt tell her u still want to be m8s wiv her cus u like the relationship the way it was before. she might not acept it as first bt she will cum round it may take a while bt she will trust me i am 1.
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there was this new girl who i thought was the coolest person ever. Me and her became really good friends... we shared a locker... well anyways then she got to become popular with one of my group of friends... who i was just getting to know. they began to like her more then they liked me. One day she comes up to me and says she isnt my friend anymore becuase i am to touchey feely! soon i lose like all the friends that she made for the same reason. How do i deal with this. They are all really nice to me and dont treat me like i am a horrible person but i dont get what i did wrong and how to deal with this. Alot of them are the sweetest people! Help me please. (link)
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get over it! tell her that she was the one who was touchy feely and that u didnt want to tell her to her face incase you lossed friendship with her. turn everything that she sed to you back oin her it should make her feel like shes guilty. and as for the other ones there just following ur m8 cus they dont wanna b left out. dont bothere with them there not worth it.
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I lost my virginity in Feb after my 15 birthday. Since then my boyfriend and I have had sex atleast twice a week. He pulls out so we have never completely finished, and we have never had a pregnancy scare. Recently our sex has felt diffrent though. Like it has lost the unique, wild touch it once had. Could I be bored with sex? I get the same pleasure, but instead of feeling fulfilled afterwards I just feel-there. Can someone explain this to me? I'm so confused... (link)
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if ur getting bored y not experement with him. its not sex ur bored of its the way it happenes. if its the same all the tym y ask him to try sumfing new. good luck!!!
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I started dating this really great guy... but he is really sensitive. He broke up with me and lied to me about why. We got back togethre and he did it again. This time i got upset with him. He was being a complete jerk. I dont want our freindship to be wasted but i feel all weird around him and he is getting on my nerves. Should i forgive him and try to forget about feeling weird or should i leave him alone? (link)
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want my advice? fuk him cus 2 me he dont sound worth it.
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my mother 2 months ago got married, to a man she met over one of those dating websites, hes from england, and in the one week he came over to visit, they married. he left for a couple a weeks, and now he will be here till january. hes been here for 2 months so far, and hes annoying my mom, (me also) and he won't pull his weight, and hes not helping with bills or anything, so now my mom said if he doesn't bring in his money for a job he got then shes divorcing him in january. well with that now said how do i explain to my friends, that now i prolly wont be going to england, and that my mom is going to be divorcing the man that she recently married, and met over the internet... its put so much stress on me about my mom coming to talk to me about how she can't stand him, and my grades are slipping and shes mad about that, but she doesn't realize shes putting it on me... what do i do?
-sometimes im miserable, but thats so typical-
-but of all the things i am-
-i am beautiful- (link)
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tell her the truth and explain to her that it puts stress on u with ur school work and other stuff 2. and tell her if she h8s the guy so much then divorce him she doresnt want to be with sum1 who doesnt pull his weight around the house.
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ok there's this boy a whole grade younger than me but i like him. and we talk online and sometimes we get into fights but we always end up forgiving eachother by the end of the night lol. but one time i went up to him in school (he was with his friends) and i asked him a question and he said "hey dork (even though im head cheerleader) do i know you?" i was so hurt that i left and everybody started laughing! then later that night he IMed me and said sorry and i said "2 bad u made me feel like crap so apology not accepted" and i blocked him.. was i right 2 do that? or should i give him one more chance? (link)
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no he made u feel lyk crap u stand tall and dont even think about takin shit from some1 lyk him if hes really ur m8 he wouldnt ov sed that 2 me he sound lyk the dork not u. u could get ur own bak by doing the same thing bt make sure ures is 10x better. good luck m8 !!!!
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well my boyfriend is sweet and everything but he is too sweet , I mean he watches out for me and he said that I was the only one in the world for him , he even promised that he didnt like no other gurls like cheerleaders and movie stars , stuff like that, but I cant stand it any more! he calls to check on me at 4:00am! what do i do ?
I dont want to break his heart but I need some time alone, plz HELP!!!! (link)
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TELL HIM STRAIGHT! tell him u dnt want to be woken up at 4 am wen ur sleeping and tell him its ok to fancy other girls bt just dont cheat on u kk good look.
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i just lost my virginity nd now im freakin out cuz we were dumbasses nd didnt use ne thin i forget wen i last had my period nd i don remember wen im supposed to get it next nd im like freakin out bout maybe bein pregnant or sumthin wut r my chances of bein pregnant?? i kno that there is a chance cuz theres always a chance but like is it a big chance or a small chance lol idk im freakin out so sumone lemme kno! thnx!!! (link)
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wen i first lost my virginity i was just lyk u. the best thing to do is take a pregnacy test and find out for sure if ur not 18 (which i dont think u r) ur period wont be in a usual routine and u neva now wen it will next cum on so take a test if u r then take it 1 step at a tym. good luck and i ho[e ur not pregnant!
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14/f here, freshman in high school if that helps.
This requires a lot of explanation, so it'll be pretty long- sorry.
I have been going out with a guy, let's call him Bob, since October 18th. I first met Bob in sixth grade Art class, however he was really dorky and being the prep I was, I ignored him. In seventh grade I didn't see him or think about him at all. In eigth grade he was in my health class. I noted he was there and looked vaguely familiar, but didn't think much of him. This year, I saw him again at the Aloha Dance, and he looks much better, basically average. I danced with him and we agreed to meet up again sometime, then the dance ended and we went our seperate ways. Me & my friends were hanging out after school at the library one day when my friend asked who the guy was staring at me. I turned around and there he was! I said hi but that was it. This happened several times over the course of the week. Finally two weeks before the Homecoming Dance he asked me to go with him, and I said yes. I was so thrilled to be asked, I didn't really think about whether I liked him or not. He picked me up for Homecoming with the traditional wristlet, photos, etc. etc. then we went to dinner, and it was pretty quiet. The homecoming dance was fine except for the fact that he insisted on spending all our time with HIS friends- a few times I sneaked off to the "bathroom" just to hang out with mine. Also, he insisted on dancing VERY close. Finally at the end of the night he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes, once again so happy to be asked I wasn't thinking. That was October 16th and I'm still dating him. There are several problems though.
First off, I DON"T LIKE HIM!!! Not at all. As a friend, yes, but no romantic interest.
Also, he's superpossesive- I never get to spend time with my friends at brunch or lunch. He insists on kissing me in front of my friends, which embarasses them. It just really annoys me.
Third, he's too serious about our relationship- he's told me he loved him (i just smiled), and is talking about PROM! (I'm a freshman, as is he.)
I know I should break up with him, but he's just too nice. Many people have told me I go too far when I try to be kind, and this is the best example. I really don't want to hurt him!
-tinkerbell_7141 (link)
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tell him straight sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind but make sure u do it ur self and not get one of youre m8s 2 do it. just tell him everything tht u have just told me. if he doesnt take it straight away just turn round to him and say that u neva lykd him the way he likes u and u only went out wiv him to be knid. BUT if he still doesnt take it my next piece of advice is DONT TAKE ANY SHIT FROM HIM!!!! i really hope that helps. GOOD LOOK!!
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This guy kissed me on the cheek and on the hand. and is always snuggling up to me and stuff. But he's a year younger. Do u think he likes me or what? (link)
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well why not ask him. to me it sounds like he does but some boys do that to be friendly but ask him and find out.
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hi im elle. im 13. Heres where i need advice...my mom doesnt know how to control my brothers. at all. so they are insane. all the time. she constantly blames it on me. "well its because youre not the perfect sister!" im a good student. im know im not perfect. but she could at least treat me with more respect. she grounds me all the time. and my brothers run wild. they are constantly fighting and everytime she hears them fight she goes "elle what did you do?" wtf? thats not right. and my dad has the worst temper ever and always fights with her. we're poor and i can never do anything. they dont trust me. its like i dont even exist to them. and they do some really bad stuff. i mean like drugs. i just want to know what i should do. i have a hard time talking to them just because everytime they ever talk to me in private its bad news. always. so what should i do to make my life better?
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well dont worry love im in the same boat as you always getting balmed for everything and grounded all the time. it crap itsnt it but trust me talk to your mum and dad tell them what you think of them and tell how you feel when they treat you like shit. but make sure that you are the one in control telling them what you thing of them. tell them exactly what you have written to me. the worse part is if you the oldest and 'you have to set the example' that annoys me but just try keep out of there way. but please do tell them how you feel.
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What are some things I can do to make a girl like me more... and also how do I tell a girl that I like her? I mean, I really want to tell her, but I'm too shy..
Please answer this question, I really need to know ASAP! (link)
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ask the one you like the most what she thinks of you if it good then go to the other friend and ask her the same question. if one is better than the other then you should know whgich one to go for. bt if they say the same then go on your instinct but just be careful how you word your question because girls chat you know. i should know as i am a girl. ok good luck!!!
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ok ladies i need your help haha,
ok every girl has worn lipstick at least once in their life, but what if youre about to have a makeout session with your boyfriend while wearing lipstick, doesnt it get all over his face or something, and make a big mess? well, please help quickly! i kinda need help NOW!
thanks! (link)
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dont wear lipstick!!!
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