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friends vs. guys
Me and my best friend liked the same guy, so I decided to back off of him so she could have him. He started liking her, then she told him she didn't want a boyfriend. Tonight at a b-ball game I hung out with him alot and he started liking me and then at halftime my friend came up to me and said "Damn, Andy looks hott tonight" and so I was like..crap. I don't want her to be mad at my, but I like this guy and he likes me, but I don't want it to like mess with our friendship. Its not like I'm going to go out with him right away, I want to get to know him and all....but what should I do?
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i think you should just go with the guy if your friend is a true friend she will respect you decision and move on and dont let her feeling for this guy control if you like him or not
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*I think that if you really like this dude-then you should go for him! You said it yourself-He started liking her, then she told him she didn't want a boyfriend. So just go for him! :)*
*Hope I helped!*
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ask your friend if you can have him, he isnt going out with her if just be like i no we both like Andy but since you don't want a boyfriend can i go out with him.
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talk to her about it and tell her exactly how u feel. you'll probably both see that you should both stop liking him and youll realize that this one guy isnt worth getting inbetween you two! but talk to her about it! thats the best thing u can do! : )
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If shes your ture friend then she would understand if you too started goin out she had her chance now its urs
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Your friend can think he's hot, it's okay, maybe her decision that she doesn't want a b'friend still stands. She made that decision and it's good that you decided to take things slow with this guy. Best way to go. If she gets mad at you if you do end up going out with him, remind her that she decided not to be with him. Or try checking with her first before you two really become an item. But just because she said no, it shouldn't influence your chances. Unless maybe she said no to him so she wouldn't hurt YOUR feelings. Looks like you need to talk to your friend first and find her true feelings. If she is still interested in him, then that's when you'll need to consider your friendship with her before jeopardizing it.
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does she know you like him? if so maybe she was tring to encourage you but didn't know how to express herself. if she said she didn't want a boyfriend it only makes sense that she wouldn't care if you liked him. your best bet is to ask her. its a scary thought, confronting a friend, but isn't it better to be open and honest with your friends? good luck, i hope things go well! :)
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tell he to get the fuk of your guy. she had him and she lossd him. he likes u now so tell her to keep away. if she is a true m8 then she will understand.
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Okay you just need to talk to your friend... ask her how she would feel... and try to respect her feelings... also tell her that if she wants to date him your fine with that since ovbiously you are fine with it soince you said you backed off. If she says she would be upset about it you need 2 decide who is more importnat to you the bff or the guy?
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Just because she said he looked hot that doesn't mean she wants him as a boyfriend. I mean my friends say my boyfriend's hot... should I be worried? Just calm down a bit I'm sure she won't hate you if she finds out that you like him. Just go ahead with what your doing she clearly said she didn't want him pretty straight forward. If you are worried then ask her say you like him and you want him and see what she says. If she finds that out then she should be the one backing off. Don't worry about stepping on people's toes just go ahead and tell her what you feel and I'm sure she'll be cool with it
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