about

I love to give advice to ask me anything ill answer to my best ability... even fi that isnt good ... who knows maybe it is.

advice

How do I get my gf to think im "sweet" and really hang out with me alot? movies? talk on phone alot? what should i do?? I RATE REALLY HIGH!


=)

girls always end up being the one coming up with date ideas... welll for me and my family its always beenthe girl asks the guy and invites him places... take a stand an let her relax intive her to a romantic dinner and done just tlak on the phone or goover to eachothers houses girls like to get out hope i helped

-becca

[view]

I really didn't know what category to but this under but here is the question does anyone have any GOOD fundraising ideas to help raise money for the American Cancer Society? Thanks for all your help I need as many ideas as I can get.

have a bake sale and car wash at the same time and invite your buddies to help... if it isnt illeagel where you live go door to door and skf ro donations i did that for my neighbor's grandson who had a mental issue and i made over 200 dollars towards him. be creative and use your talents

[view]

me and my bf are always joking around, and we aren't serious that much. i feel like i don't know him quite as well as i would like and that we never talk about anything serious. any suggestions?

alto fo couples feel this way and i have had that problem before... one fun way to learn something about yor bf while being sily but serious at the same time is to make a box full of questions on little slips of paper and sit down to dinner or something and taketurns pulling and asking questions... if he doesnt answer punish him ... like he gets no kiss but if he gives you a good answer give him a kiss... who kwos it miight be stupid id suggest trying it out...

-becca

[view]

hey im 14/f and im 5'4 and im about 100 pounds. I wanna take off like 10 pounds for the summer, but i dont want it to be a rapid change. I was hoping in like 4 months i could loose tht weight. What is the best way to loose the weight but not torcher myself? PLEZ HELP!!

100 lbs and 14 years old you dotn need to lose weight you need to gain weight.. im under weight and i know its nice to be skinny but if i were you i wouldnt try to lose anymooer weight its not healthy.
-becca

[view]

Im doing the talent show at my school. I already signed up so i cant not do it. I wanna sing, but i dont know what song to sing... does anyone have any good ideas for songs?
I sound sorta like Kelly Clarkson, Martina McBride, Leann Rimes, SheDaisy, Play, Shania Twain...
-*%Nat%*-

i woudl go to the choir teacher at the school and ask if she could recamend anything for you spacific voice... luck!

[view]

ok...I lost my virginity when i was 11...im 14 now..ive never messed around w/ anyone except one boy...but both of them boys i truly LOVED...does that make me a slut?...

wtf you said i have oly messed around with ONE boy... then you siad BOTH of THEM BOYS i truley loved... ummmm i gues its a bit slutty to be having sex at 11.

[view]

Just about a year ago I lost a friend, a really close friend. And well...yes, I was to blame for this. She did something which I totally disagreed with her on, and well, I was so angry, and the matter was so serious, that we just stopped talking. A few weeks ago, I saw her in at school in the hallway, and I got this huge feeling of regret about everything. I realized that I miss her a lot, and that becoming friends with her again would be a big improvement to my life, which btw is quite frankly suffering at the moment. After I realized this though, it didn't make much sense. I don't know her anymore, at all. She could be a totally different person, and the fact that she could and most likely is still mad at me. I don't know how to deal with this.

well the only way you will find out is by talking to her... good luck

[view]

There is this girl Amanda at my school. She is one of my really good friends. But sometimes I think otherwise. When girls usually go to school they try and get all "dolled up" for the guy they want to impress. I get all "dolled up" so Amanda wont tell me that I don't look good or that my hair looks bad. Is she a real friend or not? What should I do?
Thank you;
Jessica

well if you dont look good then maybe she is just trying to help but you shoudlnt feel obligated to doll up in the morning... try not doing it one day and see her reation then you can tell if she is a true friend.

[view]

I have this in school and I would consider her one of my best friends. She has a boyfriend and I really like her boyfriend. I don't know what to do. I have asked some of my friends that don't know her but they tell me the same thing, don't do anything. I wouldn't want to lose her as a friend so I won't do anything. But know what if they break up and he likes me? do I go out with my best friends ex-boyfriend??

thanx

if they do break up and he ends up liking you first thing you do is ask your best friend for perminsion... is it okay ?? Make sure she is being senscer.! good luck.

[view]

Hey it's me again the 14/f that is pregnate..For those of you that don't remember or know me, I had a boyfriend in jail and the side relationship where I got pregnate and found out from a test. Pierre is his name..not mike..but anyway pierre wants this baby aborted..he said he's not going to lose his football career over me or the baby..i`m already 6 weeks and I love this baby more than anything now. Telling my boyfriend was hard.. even harder then telling my father! My boyfriend was really mad since he just got out of jail and everything and wanted to kill the crap out of pierre..well my boyfriend really loves me and you can tell..since he said he'll be the father since pierre won't....but what should i do..should i still consider abortion? because I really want this child...

No i would not consider abortion... esspecily this far into the process. You are a lucky one even though you dont have the father of your baby you hav a man (who seems nice) willing to be the father and help you through everything. If you have to in the end you can always give it to the annoyomus baby adoption center. good luck.

[view]

AHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! some time i think god is so not fair specaily this time...
im a 15 years old girl, have a nice family and 2 dog i got a happy life but at the time i was most happy is my sister tell me she is pregnet! i cant take it. i think when i telling ever one this no one gonna care about what is wrong with this but my family is so differient from others. when i was born my dad is really sad b/c im not a guy and so is my sister we grown up together have a really close relationship between sister and sisters and ever thing is happening ill tell her what is wrong with it so she is the most trusting and role model of me . one thing my dad doesnt like is she dont study hard and always makes my dad mad all the time but we still live happyly but now she is telling me that she is pregnet and let me explain to my partents i cnat do that b/c i kown i will break all my dad and my moms heart i cant be that selfish but thing over MY SISTER IS BEING MORE SEILFISH ! sorry for being so long plllz help me what to do and what should my sister do should she get a abortion or else?

PS: i want her to get married frist then have kids so they can starting off with a good life

Okay... well this couod be 2 things. Maybe god meant for this to happen and that it really is a blessing. Number to is that god didnt mean for this to happen, he gave your sister a choice and she choose the wrong one. I would jsut try to comfort her but i do think SHE needs to tell your parents not yoi. good luck

[view]

On the last day of term before the christmas holidays, my boyfriend broke up with me. I was heartbroken and I wanted him back so badly. Then on christmas eve I met up with him and some other people and we got back together. At first I was so happy to have him back and everything was good, now it's the not the same. We don't hug and kiss as much as we used to, we hardly ever talk even though we see each other everyday. It's not the same as it used to be. I do love him but it isn't working. I know that if I broke up with him I would regret it and it would make things so hard for all my friends because we're part of the same friendship group. I don't want to break up with him but I feel like I have to, what should I do?

i owuld say you need to talk to him about this. Tell him that you miss hwo htings were before you broke up the first time. That soemthing isnt there like before. Tlel him youi still love him and doo nt want to break up with him. just talk to him. who knows maybe he feels the same way.

[view]

my friend likes this girl (whos also my friend)...who also likes him..he asked her out n she said yes then after a week he wanted to pos pone the relationship, since there was so much stuff goin on as well..and she seemed to started to inorge him but didnt notice that she was and theyre are still friends..and hes been depressed and shit, its just that he still feels like he screwed everything up again and that he missed my chance by wimping out of it..and he was going to ask her back out today and didnt...and now he states the he is worried about this fag chris trying to pull sum shit off ....since this chris guy seems to giving him smirks when ever she is around both of them at the same time..and he did it to my friend be4 this one with the other girl he liked..and he is afaird he is gonna punch a whole in his wall bc he punched one in anger..and i dont know what to do..he calling himself a loser..and i know that he would never go anyone near sucide or w/e since he is a high honor student, in honors classes, band and etc..i dont know why someone would not wanna go out with him in the 1st place..hes just soo awesome..and i told him that he wasnt a loser..and that he was awesome..but i dont know exactly how to help him..hes like my bff now hes just soo gr8 when i need him for advice and such...any advice for me or him...(or both)-thx

P.S. i met him in july on-line (yeah i know i know the whole speech) with a bunch of others in our school..and we became really close....hes almost a 2nd me..he seems to be open to me n im open to him as well..like he told me a serect only me and someone else know..and something that only i know..and the thing is i dk it seems strange not even a year do we know each other only 6mths and were really open to each other
-thx again

(btw were all 14 besides chris who i think is 15)

awww well all you can do it comfort him and help him get his confidence back. THis situation really isnt all that unique. I would talk to you friend that he likes and try to get him to ask her otu again
sorru thsi sint my best advice

[view]

Can a person be in love in 8th grade? Or is it just bogus? I do believe I'm in love and I wondering if it really is love. All of my friends alkways say I'm in love with this boy and I have been for a while. Thanks!

well it depends on yrou definition of love. I believe you can fall in lover a any age. seriously ost people in 8th grade say they love someone in their profiles and what not. But like most o the poeple i know will have i lov you _____ after like a day of dating. youlll know when its love. it is so much deeper then a crush.

[view]

I give up. I dont deserve gods love. I am not worthy enough for it. He gives me a gift and i dont use it. I fail one class, i am a porn addict. I give up i dont deserve god anymore. I dont even deserve to live, i, i really dont care. i am not good enough. I am not as loyal to him as i should be. i dont deserve him at all. im done. Please give advice or a way to end it all

okay i have a friend who is addicted to porn and he has problems liek this and he htinks he has failed god to. but god will give you a ssecond chance if you ask him 2. Just try to be more loyal if you need go to your local church and thalk to the pastor.

[view]

i am moving all the way across the counrty....and i dont know how i should tell my best friend! :'( plez help me

moving is always a hrd thing to do but you shoudl tell her right away... amke sure she is one of the firsts poeple you tell. You guys can cry together and what not becuase its hard and that what i had to do when i moved. Just tell her you promise to keep in contact and youll call as soon as you get there... etc. Just be there 2 comfort her and spend as mch time as possible with her.

[view]

ever since i was a baby ive had really blue eyes, and now i want to emphasize them. everyone thinks theyre really pretty, will wearing like, teal colored clothes emphasize them?

everyone says i have gorgeous brown eyes so heres what i do. put sparkles right underneath your eyes and wear a light eye shadow like ligh pink or blue for you. use a dark eyeliner and put 2 oats of mascara on. it really draws attention to your eyes... good luck.

[view]

Hey everyone. I was wondering what YOU think is cute to paint or re-arrange your room, because my room has no windows and its always so dark and depressing down there and i was just wondering if you had any ideas to spice it up a bit at low costs? i will rate for effort.

this idea might be totaly off of what your thinking but i think it would be totaly cute. Okay since you dont have a window herws what i wouold do. MAKE ONE and i dont mean like place one in your wall i am being mroe creative then that.

Find an empty space on your wall where you would want a big one. then you know like those over head things and you pull down. You could like do that but have like a drawing of rain or snow or sun on it! One of each wheater and make it look like a window... then according to the wheater out side just change it. Its kind of hard to explain but i think its better then nno window. Also make sure there is coor in your room

like lttle colorful things like lamps or carpets... etc. paint your room a brither color but not super bright 2 give it a happier tone to. hope i helped a little bit. i could help more if i knew liek the size of the room etc.

[view]

ok...for the last day of school, before break, i wore white pants...because they were white, i work a thong...im not a slut, so i dont let it hang out, and i usually wear a belt with my pants, but these were nice pants that i didnt need a belt for...well during lunch, i was walking up to my friend and my guy friend wanted to hug me from behind, but ended up steping on my pants adn everyone saw i was wearing a thong. he didnt pants me, but some people saw the string...i know its not bad to wear thongs, but that was a pretty embarassing situation, and i didnt want everyone knowing. tommorow i go back to school, and i dont want everyone laughing at me...what do i do?

jsut blow i off if peopel do laugh. most people at my school wear thongs its nothign to be embarresed about. just if people laugh say so wut... because so wut! te he

[view]

please suggest good rock groups/bands.. punk is ok too.. thats.. aren't that well known.. thx everybody

franz ferdinand... jason mraz is like soft rock, im just oging to name the bands i like. the above and the shins and snow patrol and keane and the killers. hjope i helped

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
humorist-workshop
eXTReMe Tracker