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friend or not?


Question Posted Thursday January 13 2005, 11:06 pm

There is this girl Amanda at my school. She is one of my really good friends. But sometimes I think otherwise. When girls usually go to school they try and get all "dolled up" for the guy they want to impress. I get all "dolled up" so Amanda wont tell me that I don't look good or that my hair looks bad. Is she a real friend or not? What should I do?
Thank you;
Jessica


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Additional info, added Thursday January 13 2005, 11:46 pm:
Im not a lesbian. I just try and look nice bc I don't want her to tell me that my clothes don't match or what I'm wearing looks bad. So yeah thats it.
thank you
Jessica
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tawnyj2j answered Friday January 14 2005, 3:57 pm:
maybe she doesnt want to hurt your feelings if she says i dont know or doesnt answer she is not your friend

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Karen answered Friday January 14 2005, 11:55 am:
She doesn't sound like a good friend; does she critize you all the time? Just wear what you want to wear and ignore Amanda. You're the one who chooses what to wear, not her. Just talk to her and tell her about how you feel about criticism. Hope I Helped :)
-Karen

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DrummeR4LifE answered Friday January 14 2005, 12:57 am:
well if she treats u like a good friend yea... but... if she doesnt take u for who you are (including : not getting dolled up and just acting like urself) then i would say that she isn't a good friend.
Hope every thing works out with you and amanda!
natly-

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*ashlee* answered Friday January 14 2005, 12:32 am:
friends tell eacother they look like shit all the time. shes just trying to keep you lookin good. wat a pimp

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Beccers_boo answered Friday January 14 2005, 12:16 am:
well if you dont look good then maybe she is just trying to help but you shoudlnt feel obligated to doll up in the morning... try not doing it one day and see her reation then you can tell if she is a true friend.

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JadedinNowhere answered Friday January 14 2005, 12:00 am:
Wear what you want to wear, look how you want to look, regardless of what she tells you. If she is your real friend she'll see you for how you are on the inside and not how you look on the outside. If she makes another crack be forceful and tell her that is hurting your feelings and that you don't like it when she says things like that. You will find out if she is your real friend if you don't have to look your best just for her everyday.

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arielle answered Thursday January 13 2005, 11:25 pm:
i dont think so try to make some new friends .......READ MINE ITS CALLED ......COMPLEX RELATIONSHIP

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