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advice

i like this guy, patrick, but yesterday i found out he likes someone else, alexis. i cant get over him. he asked her to the movies and he was turned down, i heard it was harsh too. what should i do? i still like him

try to talk to him and give him a vibe that you like him, hopfully he likes you back!
good luck!

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I recently got a haircut and my hairdresser cut way too much off! I was wondering if there were any products out there that could make my hair grow back faster. I know theres probably not much out there that could really make my hair grow 'faster' but even something to make it grow in healthier would be just fine. Anything to just make me feel like its growing faster would be fine. Thanks so much.. I rate high!

Going out into the sun definatly helps your hair grow faster. It's always worked for me when i got a bad hair cut.
h.i.h.
nat*

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i like to look at girls bodys..like boobs..butt..and girls online.does this mean i am BI?i never made out with a girl but i almosted did..i made out with a couple of guys..and i like guys but do i also like girls?

please help

your not bi. Its just something you go through at a certain age. But there's nothing wrong about looking at grls bodys if your ompairing... which alot seem to do...
As long as you never actually did anything with a girl then you should be fine.

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what are the best shoes to wear when you're wearing a denim miniskirt and white knee high socks?

i'd go for nice black high heals. with straps and open.

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ok, so my best friend's boyfriend raped her, and i don't know what to do. i know i should tell someone, but she's being dumb, and saying it was her fault, but when you get down to the point SHE WAS RAPED. i don't want her to be mad at me, but i should tell someone right? either that, or i could kill him, but i wouldn't do that. so help????!!!!! please. thanks everyone
Sincerely,
Confused concerned friend

If she was literally raped then YES you should tell someone... even if she gets mad at you know she'll definatly thank you for it in the long run.
so tell someone, like an adult or even the police.
good luck!
nat*

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Ok theres these 2 girls I used to hang out with and they replaced me with another girl sure we still hang out but not like we used to Any advice??????!!!!! I need help
~Dani~

Maybe try to talk to your friend and just tell her that she cant replace you and what not.
My fiend did the same thing to me... but i just started to hang out with my other friends but still treated her like a friend even though she dumped me... but h.i.h!
Nat*

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hey just to let everyone know... i am changing my column to S h Y b l0n D3 so make sure you ask me on there not here LOL
luv ya!
Nat*

AIM: S h Y b l0n D3

I put the wrong advicename... it actually is: ShYbl0nD3 lol ty for asking for my advice!

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I feel as if i'm doing nothing right family friends relationships how can i change things?

Take everything positive even when it really hurts you, but thinking positive really changes your life and makes it alot better.
it worked for me :D
h.i.h. and good luck to ya!
Nat*

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my boobs are really small and my stomach is really big. its like showing off my fat waaaaaaay too much! is there anything that can make my tiny boobs bigger

instead of trieng to make your boobs bigger try excersizing to make your stomch smaller but if you really wanna make your boobs alittle bigger you can either stuff or wear a hevely padded bra.
h.i.h.
natally-

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ok im really shy around guys. And when i like them i end to ignore them... i hate it!
There's this guy i like, i see him every once and a while but when i do i get all nervus and i shake and i ignore him! I dont want to but even just looking into his beautiful eyes is hard for me.. how can i get over this ignoring??? PLZ help!

next time when you see him just say hey or something that usually take alot of cerage so yea just go for him if you really like him.

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im pretty skinny.. but i have big hips.. like an hour glass figure.. but its weird because i have like no boobs or butt and i barely fit into jeans because a size 1 will fit my waist perfectly but it sags soo much in the butt.. does anyone have any good excercises that will get rid of the fat on my sides?

Jogging, Riding your bike really helps. Um... The stepper or maybe even some sports like volleyball tennis basketball. But even stomach excersizes would help.

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i have windows XP and i have 2 accounts. i would like to swich all of my folder onto the other account but how do i do that? thanks for your help!

Um... well i dont really have XP so i'm not sure how you could do that but i know theres a sharing folder that you might have and that should share all the folders with the other account if you copy and past them into there.
h.i.h.

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I've been dating this girl for quite some time now and we've just recently slept together for the first time. I'm 24 and she's 18. She wasn't a virgin so it's nothing like that but after the sex, it felt extremely wrong. I never wanted to ask her out in the first place because I was 6 years older than her but my friends kept saying that "It's not a big deal; You're both adults, 6 years isn't much, blah, blah, blah etc." So I eventually asked her out and I'm glad I did because she's an amazing girl. Her being only 18 did bug me before but not as much as it does now. The sex was great and everything and it wasn't until after we finished that I started to feel like absolute shit. If it helps any, it happened on Saturday night and now, I've been trying to avoid her. I still have strong feelings for her and I don't want to end things with us, but I just don't know how to get past this. I'm not quite sure why I feel this way either. I want to talk to her but what am I supposed to say, "Hey Hun, I felt like I raped you the other night...How did you feel about it? Did you feel as if you were being raped?" I don't think I can sleep with her again until I get past this and I'm not sure talking to her about it will help.

Well being 6 years appart isnt that bad. I have an older friend and she is married to a guy that has kids her age! But i mean thats like 10-15 years appart so i think 6 is fine. And don't worry about it so much. I think going out with a girl 7 years or younger is the perfect time appart. So just ignore that feeling and feel what you actually feel with her.
h.i.h.
nat*

P.s. Im only 14 so its not like i KNOW everything... but i do try to help

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which part of the egg has protein or the most protein?

The yoke has the most protien.

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Hi i've just lost my job and plummiting into depression very fast. I'm trying everything i can to find/get a job but i'm finding it very hard as theres not alot going. I cant seem to be doing enough to please everyone and i'm doing all that i can and i'm slowly making my self ill. Has anyone got any tips.

Well just go around to different obs that you seem interestin in and ask if you can help and see if the want to hire you.

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here is something i dont understand and i sont know if anyone here understands it. Why are we here just why i dont understand it we were put here by god but why it makes no sense. i mean think we live just so we can die it makes no sense so i dont understan why we would be put here by god it makes no sense because one day we could be alive and the next we could be dead just why.

if you look at it we sorta seem like experiments. But thats my opinion. lol. But i think he/she is just trying to see what lives the best and sees what happens when he/she puts another species on earth. But there's probably even more ideas why out there. It jus depends on how you believe it.

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Hey everyone,
I'm 15 & I've liked this girl since about August last year & we just started chatting & then I found out from her friend that she liked me. So we went out for about a month & she dumped me for another guy (her ex-boyfriend that she broke up with to go out with me). Now she says she just wants to be friends, but she is always flirting with me & I'm getting really confused.

Maybe she can't make up her mind. Just try to keep in touch with her and if you still like her flirt back just so that so knows that you still like her too.
hope i helped!
Nat-

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Hey im 14 and i have never had a boyfriend(i kno it is pathetic but thats the way it is). Well there is this boY at school that i really like. We talk sometimes but not much. I wanna tell him how i fell but i dont kno if i should and if i shold then how would i tell him.If i do tell him i dont want him to feel weird around me if he dosent like me back. PLEASEE HELP ME IF YOU CAN!

I'm in the same situation but what i would do is maybe ask him if he likes you and if he doesnt that its ok just incase he doesnt like you, for the wierd feeling that you and i (lol) are worried about. But just ask him sweetly but maybe not when orther people are around just incase. But if you dont want to tell him maybe ask a friend but the best would be to ask him your self.
h.i.h. and good luck!
Natally*

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Does anyone know where I can get a used drum set in good condition???For under $300

Try cheking out any music stores around your area, since i dono where you live i cant name them lol. but hope i helped!
Nat*

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ok well my armpits sweat all the time and i wear the strongest deoterint. i cant raise my hand and play sport cuz im afriad ppl will see. oh by the way im f/13...any segjestions?!
ThAnKs

It helps to put deodarent on after you've take a shower. But maybe put it on like before a game or before you go out side. I can't really help with the deodarent becuz everyone uses a different one but what i use is Teen Spirit Stick and it works for me. I'm 14/f
H.i.h.
Natally*

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