Hey. My name is Corey and im 14. I might not always have all the answers but sometimes a second opinion is greatly appreciated! So ask away, and dont be shy cuz it will never show your name (=
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well lets see i really like my ex boyfriend and i have never gotten over him i have gone out with 2 people since him and tonight was like wow he was flirting with me and everything.. well his gurlfriend was right there and his gurlfriend is one of my best friends!
and i dont no what to do...
see if she was my best friend then she shouldnt have said yes to him, but does he still like me?
or is he a player or sumthin like tht?
he is with a new gurl like every 2 weeks or mabe 3 if he realy likes her...
- confused
oh yah and i am 13 he is 14.. if tht helps any
sorry so long! (link)
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well if hes going out with your best friend then she shouldnt have gone out with him in the first place... but anyway... if he has a new gf every couple of weeks, he's obviously not your best bet. of couse he is going to flirt with you, he prolly does with everyone! you may think he is your only one... but believe me, you will find so much better.
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ok... my family never has gotten along, but for some reason its starting to bother me more. i dont know what to do because i really cant handle all this stress! helP! (link)
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well i have that problem too. if the problems dont involve you then you dont need to worry about it. its their problem and as much as you want it to stop, that might not happen. your best bet is to just stay out of it and try to let THEM settle it all. if your one of the people involved, be the bigger person. whenever an argument starts, simply say that you dont want to argue and walk away form the situation or change the subject. if all else fails, go to your room and turn your music up reeeallly loud... hah
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Ok, I am definetly old enough, but my parents won't let me babysit! they say I am too young for the responsibility! but i am totally ready for it!! All my friends baby sit already, and I am wayy more mature than them! Whenever I am with my younger relatives, I watch out 4 them, why won't they let me do it as a job? how can I persuade them that I am ready!? (link)
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ask them what you need to do to be allowed to babysit. odds are they will say something like do your chores or something stupid like that... you could also ask them if you could take a babysitting class to ensure your ready to babysit.
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Ok,I have a bf and I really like him but I have been attracted to other guys lately. And, quite frankly those guys have been flirting with me! I dont know what to do I can't tell if I am crushing on them or if I just like the attention of them flirting with me!! There, are like 2 or 3 guys other than my bf...one of them I hardly kno, but he was really cute and nice and kinda flirtatious. idk dis is all so confusin! The others I kno well and are pretty good friends with my bf what do i do!?! (link)
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well... dont flirt with other guys if you have a bf. if you like your bf you would stay true to him. if you find yourself flirting with other guys, be fair to your bf and break up with him. you might need to consider staying single for a while. sometimes its more fun anyway.
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My b/f likes me more than I like him. He is always "I love you" and stuff like that, and I just dont feel ready for that type of relationship. Well, at leas he says her loves me, but supposedly he says the same stuff to every girl. Sometimes i can tell he foudn some of the things he asays online at pick-up websites. Idk what to do!?! Should I break up, or no. Its nto as amazing as I thought it would be going out with him. This is all so confusing, and just in case he does love me, id ont want to break his heart and risk ruining our friendship!! (link)
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well if you cant handle the love hes going ot give you, you might not be ready for a relationship. While other people say he says the same things to them, i wouldnt believe them unless you are sure they wouldnt be trying to ruin the relationship. as for the pick-up lines... thats sooo not cool that he cant think of his own! but maybe its part of his sence of humor (you would know this more than me...) this is really a desicion you should prolly make on your own. just close your eyes and let yourslef tell you if you really like this guy or not. if you do- great! just casually bring up "____ said that you said you loved her and were over her... is this true?" watch his body language and actions to see the answer more than his words. if you dont like him, even though you dont want to break his heart, you have to do whats best for you! TELL him that you still wanna be friends. if HE doesnt want to be friends anymore, you cant blame yourself. you tried. its HIS loss (=
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ok i told my parents. i siad nothing about the drugs. i told them it was a mistake n i was pressered into it by my friend (totally a lie) so they wont let me talk to my friend anymore. and um i said taht i was pregnet and i wanted to keep the baby and that my b/f was in for taking care of the baby. so they beleived me, they really didnt care. what a life i have! lol! so ya im going to move in with my b/f (he's 16 and live on his own) and im packing my stuff now. my b/f has a job so we can afford it. and im going to get a job after my baby's born. lol me and my b/f have already picked out some cute little names. if its a girl its going to be Ashley Marie and if its a boy its going to be Jason Thomas. lol we're so excited! im think about getting a job at Wal-mart after this baby is born. so ya. its all good. me n him will start our own life, no parents telling us what to do! hey, maybe we'll have a kid of our own! you know, where hes ACTUALLY the dad! lol! and i also think im going to drop out of school, for good. my b/f is in school still so he can get a education. so.. i better go i got to call my b/f i'll kepp ya posted on what new. lol
~!luv ya girl!~ (link)
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that wonderful that everything worked out for you! be sure to keep in mind that what happens if you and your bf break up? try to have a backup plan, just in case. you should actually have 2. one for when your still pregnant, and one after you have the baby. i suggest you drop out of school just for a little while and have the baby, then go back to finish highschool (at least...). you wont get far in life without an education.
well i love the names! keep me posted on how the rest of everything goes! and pleeeease stay off drugs until you have the baby, and visit the doctor a lot to make sure its ok. (= good luck!
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hey this is the pregnant 14-year-old lol
ok well thank you for your adivce. it means alot. i called my friend and told him. he didnt want any part on my kid. i called my b/f and he agrees to take care of my child. he aceptited my apologie. im very glad he did to and guess what? he still loves me!! lol!! well also im going to have to get out of school in like a week. im going to the doctors soon, i'll keep you posted on how it goes.
how should i tell me parents now? lol i STILL have to tell them. beause the reason i found out i as pregnet was my friend who has a child has one of those "see if it turns blue" devices. well woo hoo it turned blue! lol!
how should i tell my parents??
HELP!!!!!!
holy shit i just barfed im getting sick already? is that normal?
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thats great that everthing with your bf worked out! (= you cant keep this from your parents, so i say go with the same method and confess... you might want to leave some of the drugs out of it though. say you did something stupid, and your pregnant, and you realized your mistake and your ready for the consequenses (sp?). be sure to tell them your keeping the baby. i dont know how pregnant you are to tell if getting sick is normal yet... but you WILL get sick! keep me posted!
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i dont have a bf and everyone else does. should i be finding a little flick to be like everyone else? (link)
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NO! dont do what everyone else is... if you rush it, then nothing will seem right and you might end up getting used or hurt since the feeling arent really there. wait until you find someone that is right for YOU
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me n my b/f have been going out for 8 months! n 4 weeks i got stoned with my friend. and we ended up "going all the way" i was totally out of it. i didnt relize what i doing. how can i tell my b/f what i did. o ya n to put the cherry on top, im pregnet. i think im going to go ahead n have the baby. so ya. i really need help please dont ask me to sned you my screen name. i cant let anyone know.
How should i tell my b/f? because he means everything to me n i know he'll take care of my baby. but my friend, he's juts a friend so he wont take care of my baby.
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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wellll.... if your bf and you have been going out for 8 months, then it should be a pretty good relationship. usually trust is stronger if you have been going out longer. i think that your best bet it to just confess to everything, and that your VERY sorry about everything. hopefully he will trust you and your promise to never let this happen again. tell your friend that your pregnant, but you DONT want him to help with the kid. If you want your bf to help you take care of the baby, dont be so sure that he will accept... thats like being a dad. its a really big responsibilty. just when you tell him you want his help raising the kid, dont make it sound as if he HAS to, make it sound like an option. you should prolly stay off the drugs for a while too... (= for the babys sake
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