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I really like him!!
Hey im 14 and i have never had a boyfriend(i kno it is pathetic but thats the way it is). Well there is this boY at school that i really like. We talk sometimes but not much. I wanna tell him how i fell but i dont kno if i should and if i shold then how would i tell him.If i do tell him i dont want him to feel weird around me if he dosent like me back. PLEASEE HELP ME IF YOU CAN!
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ok look i am fourteen and i have had a gf but there is this chick at my school that i really like and i wont tell anyone uncase it blows up and she hates my guts so i understand kinda were you are comin from so i think the best thing for you to do is to just tell him i mean i am going to talk to this chick i mean if he dosent like you than o well but if he does then think of how happy you are but your takin the risk if you do so idk do wut ever your heart does cause that is wut will be iffected the most by this issue. so keep your chin up and never stop smiling kidd!
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don't worry... its not pathetic... since you guys don't talk much... you should build a friendship this way you'll be able to feel like you can tell him anything... than get his number so you can talk after school... after you guys are good friends and you feel like the time is right ... then just tell him that you have feelings for him... if he's a true friend he won't feel wierd around you
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you need to tell him
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don't tell him because guys, especially before college, they tend to act weird and NOT talk to you when they know you like them just flirt with him more than you have and if you show them how you feel he should get the hint.
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I think you should tell him. Its better that he finds out from you than some random person right? And maybe you'll find out that he feels the same way. If he doesnt, you'll probably be able to build up your friendship again. I liked this guy and he found out cause supposedly I was "obvious" about it, but now I dont like him anymore and we're friends. So it all works out in the end, dont worry!
Good Luck!
-Rachel
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I have a crush on the guy that sits next to me at lunch (everyone knows now so it's not embarassing) And one day this girl told him I liked him... during lunch when I was sitting right there. She knew I'd punch her, so she walked out of the cafeteria, I followed her, she went into the bathroom, I followed her, I threatened to punch the crap out of her (she's weak, I would've won... believe me, when I'm mad, I can HIT!) but I figured, my semi-close friend got expelled for fighting, do I really wanna risk that? I didn't. But ever since, you can just imagine how I feel everyday sitting at lunch, talking to him. Now that he knows I like him. At first, extremely weird, then about 2 days later, just awkward, it's the next week now, and I'm back to being friends with him, no more awkwardness. What I'm getting at is, it's good to just let them know you like them. That's how my sis and her boyfriend ended up together. One day she just spat it out, they were talking on IM, she told him she really liked him, then on 12-28-04 he asked her out. You have to let them know you like them. Boys are stupid and they don't know you like them unless you're a.) all over them, or b.) up front with them and let them know how you feel.
B is the better option. Of course it'll be awkward at first. I'm 14/f, I've had plenty of boyfriends, after my last break up I thought I'd never like an older guy again, the jerk I was dating wanted to go a little to far and he wouldn't except no for an answer, until I physically hurt him and made him realize, no was my answer. It's not fun when you've been with someone for a year and they pull something like that on you. But again, what I'm trying to get to is just let them know, the awkwardness goes away after a week or so, and if he does like you, then he won't be afraid of rejection because he knows that you like him. Guys are as good at hiding wierdness as girls are at hiding sadness (and boy am I good at that) But just be open with him, let him know you like him, but it's okay if he doesn't feel the same way and that you don't want any wierdness between the two of you. And don't let it get too far. Because it's yuor first relationship (if you end up together) he'll probably test you (unless he's not like that) he'll see how far you're willing to go. Whether he threatens your relationship, only go as far as you are comfortable. Sorry I kind of went of on my 'life story' and that it took a while for me to get to my point, but I hope you got, and understood my point. It's not pathetic that you've never had a boyfriend. I'd rather have been single all my life than have dated some of the guys I've dated. Good luck with your relationship 'problems'
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I'm in the same situation but what i would do is maybe ask him if he likes you and if he doesnt that its ok just incase he doesnt like you, for the wierd feeling that you and i (lol) are worried about. But just ask him sweetly but maybe not when orther people are around just incase. But if you dont want to tell him maybe ask a friend but the best would be to ask him your self.
h.i.h. and good luck!
Natally*
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ok im 14 almost 15 as of next month, i never had a boyfriend either so it is NOT pathetic! I told my friend that I liked him and he was happy that I told him, we don't act weird or anything around each other..I may seem a little afaird when I talk to him or when I'll see him tomorrow maybe..But just act like yourself and tell him, maybe in a small note or a little poem or have a friend tell him. Good luck
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