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I have this in school and I would consider her one of my best friends. She has a boyfriend and I really like her boyfriend. I don't know what to do. I have asked some of my friends that don't know her but they tell me the same thing, don't do anything. I wouldn't want to lose her as a friend so I won't do anything. But know what if they break up and he likes me? do I go out with my best friends ex-boyfriend??
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See how things go but keep on the low about it for now and stopasking everyone becuase it wll get to her and then it wil be worse
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Last summer I went through a problem just like that.... Its long so scroll down to the last paragraph if you just want an answer and not a story!!!lmao
I went to my bff bday party and my friend was totally checking out my bfs bro. So I got them hooked up. Even though later that night I was gonna holla at him. But I always put my friends befor me. But I became insainly jealouse of there relationship and started having him over everyday during summer. Finally they broke up. Like 2 days later we started gonig out. After 3 days he was a coward and got his friend to break up with me. I didnt really care. But I lost my bff bc i went out w/ her bro. my other feriend and a bf in one summer.....
If I could go back I would. But now they go back out and I couldnt be happier for them. And all of us are friends again.
What Im trien to say is dont interfear if he likes you that much then he would go for you.
sorry solong I hope I helped!!!
Bianca
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I wouldn't take the chance of screwing up a friendship over a guy. Your friendship is worth so much more then some guy you like. There will always be other guys, but never a bestfriend like the one you have.
♥ Krissy
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if they do break up and he ends up liking you first thing you do is ask your best friend for perminsion... is it okay ?? Make sure she is being senscer.! good luck.
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If one day, the actually break up and your best friend's ex-boyfriend likes you, DO NOT go out with him because it will seem weird to your friend and best friends never do that. If people tell you not to do that, then don't. But lets just say if they did break up and it has been a few months since they did and this guy likes you, maybe you can go out with him but you would need to talk to your friend. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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In a word NNNNNOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!! Boyfriends come and go, best friends can (and often do) last a lifetime. Best friends are more like family. Would you abandon your sister or your mother for a boyfriend, especially when you knew it would hurt your sister or mom? Never sacrifice your friendship/love/sisterhood for a boyfriend, especially during teen and early 20s. You have your entire lives ahead of you and your best friends are the best people to be with during those times. Live it up with them -- you can't go wrong. I've had a best friend for - never mind how long we've been friends, but boys/men have never come between us, which is why we've remained best friends.
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Well, If you seriously like this guy then you should ask your friend cassually what if a friend of hers liked her BF, what would be her reaction. She would probably give a negative answer but If she gives a positive answer like "yeah, then we can just break up if my BF likes her too, cuz I am thinking about breaking up with him...." and blah blah or something like that then go for it after they break up If he likes you. (I think Positive answer is unprobable though) If negative then just you gotta wait till they break up and see how your friends attitude towards him is and if its like friend and no-jealousy type then you could go for it then. But if that doesnt happen either I guess it would be best to just forget this guy. :) Hope I helped.
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Okay... i really think that you shouldn't go out w/ him...only because he's your b/f's ex-! I mean, look @ it like this would you rather have a boyfriend or a bestfriend? Think about that!
~Alyssa
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NEVER. rule of thumb never go out with your best friends ex. unless you guys don't talk anymore and it's been like years after.
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no no no no no never ever ever not good dont do it- unless hes the love of your life and you guys are going to get married and die old together then dont do it
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boyfriends come and go best friends are forever. dont loose something so great over a guy. we arent worth it, heh.
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