On the last day of term before the christmas holidays, my boyfriend broke up with me. I was heartbroken and I wanted him back so badly. Then on christmas eve I met up with him and some other people and we got back together. At first I was so happy to have him back and everything was good, now it's the not the same. We don't hug and kiss as much as we used to, we hardly ever talk even though we see each other everyday. It's not the same as it used to be. I do love him but it isn't working. I know that if I broke up with him I would regret it and it would make things so hard for all my friends because we're part of the same friendship group. I don't want to break up with him but I feel like I have to, what should I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? x3_x_Georgia_Girl answered Saturday January 8 2005, 12:52 pm: Hey! Okay, first stop trying to make everyone else happy, and instead focus on what you want and what you think will make "you" happy! If this relationship is not working or going as well, dont put yourself through it, ovb. you arent as happy as you wish you would want to be! Maybe you should talk to him about it and tell him how you feel ... usually that helps alot ... or if you think things just arent going to change, move on! You might be in the same crowd of friends but who cares, yall can still be friends! Just remember, everything happens for a reason! [ x3_x_Georgia_Girl's advice column | Ask x3_x_Georgia_Girl A Question ]
Beccers_boo answered Saturday January 8 2005, 10:55 am: i owuld say you need to talk to him about this. Tell him that you miss hwo htings were before you broke up the first time. That soemthing isnt there like before. Tlel him youi still love him and doo nt want to break up with him. just talk to him. who knows maybe he feels the same way. [ Beccers_boo's advice column | Ask Beccers_boo A Question ]
SaReBeArSwEeTiE91 answered Saturday January 8 2005, 9:53 am: Well the only thing i can firstly say is talk to him! I mean tell him how you feel! You should ask him if he feels that your relationship is different now that its the 2nd time around! But if your not happy maybe you should end it. You may regret it but is it worse to live being semi-happy or maybe regretting something you could get over in a few months! Hope i could help! [ SaReBeArSwEeTiE91's advice column | Ask SaReBeArSwEeTiE91 A Question ]
o0psychicwish0o answered Saturday January 8 2005, 7:50 am: If you really like him or love him then do what you think is best. I dont think you should though. Try starting convos when yall are walking together. Yall could probally study together too. You can kiss him and hug him first too. you dont have to wait for him to make a move. hope i help [ o0psychicwish0o's advice column | Ask o0psychicwish0o A Question ]
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