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Name: KalieAge 14
Location: Georgia
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Well to start off.. My mother left a week before Christmas and I miss her so much.. My dad is go crazy because she left all of us.. She don't call or even write to us. I need so help to know how to help my dad through all of this pain.. Thank you if you write back... I really do need as much help as I can get.... **** Thanks Heather****
Im really sorry about what happened. There's alot of things to do to get your mind off your mom and for your dad too. You can help him around the house, like cleaning and doing the laundry without him asking. Make little father and daughter dates, so just yall two can go out and talk about things. If your the oldest then you can help by watching your brothers/sisters. The little things help the most! Im sure your mom has a reason for leaving but it wasnt right for her to leave yall at that time, once again im sorry for everything and I hope everything turns out right.
On the last day of term before the christmas holidays, my boyfriend broke up with me. I was heartbroken and I wanted him back so badly. Then on christmas eve I met up with him and some other people and we got back together. At first I was so happy to have him back and everything was good, now it's the not the same. We don't hug and kiss as much as we used to, we hardly ever talk even though we see each other everyday. It's not the same as it used to be. I do love him but it isn't working. I know that if I broke up with him I would regret it and it would make things so hard for all my friends because we're part of the same friendship group. I don't want to break up with him but I feel like I have to, what should I do?
Hey! Okay, first stop trying to make everyone else happy, and instead focus on what you want and what you think will make "you" happy! If this relationship is not working or going as well, dont put yourself through it, ovb. you arent as happy as you wish you would want to be! Maybe you should talk to him about it and tell him how you feel ... usually that helps alot ... or if you think things just arent going to change, move on! You might be in the same crowd of friends but who cares, yall can still be friends! Just remember, everything happens for a reason!
well i might be going to the movie with a couple of friends and my boyfriend later on today. but he's respectful of how fast i want to take things, and he asked me if it would be ok if he kissed me and i said that it was fine. and he said he was going to kiss me today when we went to the movies. the only problem is, its my first kiss and i don't know how to do it. this is really embarresing but i really need help. so please answer soon. i rate good. thanks in advance!
Its really sweet that this is your first kiss! There's not really a specific way to kiss, usually you just go with the flow, follow your partner and you'll get the hang of it! First kiss is usually really nerve recking because you dont know what to do, but just take it slow and enjoy it! Its fun and you'll love it!
I love my boy friend so much. We have been going out for a while now and (i no its early) but valentines day is coming up and i want to get him somthing that shows i realy care and love him. Something really special. But the thing is, i have no idea what! any suggestions? thanks i rate high.. and srry to burst some of yalls bubbles, but sex is not an option l.o.l.
Thats really sweet! You need to get him something your not ashamed to give to him but also something you know he'll like! Maybe like a really sweet card with a sweet quote that just perfectly describes yall's relationship and than put some lip-stick on, and put kisses all over the card! Or have him a card ready and put inside "Happy Valentines Day, here's all my kisses" and give him a bag of Hersey kisses! You'll think of something just make sure its unique, something that no-one's done before, and totally surprise him! Hope I helped!
i use nyc eyeliner and everytime i use it it comes off easily so i have to bring my eyeliner to school and put it on there. my friends thinks its annoying cause i need to go to the bathroom or use their mirror in their lockers to put it on. whenever my friends put the eyeliner i use on, it stays on for them but it doesnt for me. i tried many kinds of eyeliner but i still cant find one that will stay on, someone please help!
p.s i dont want to use liquid eyeliner or very expenisive eyeliners
Hey! Okay well I really think you should consider Mary Kay make-up, its waterproof and ive been using it for quite some while, and its great! It doesnt cost much and its "not" liquid either! Oh and one more thing, you won't have to put it on either at school!
Hope I helped!
I used to be best friends with this girl but we fell out because I spent too much time with a new group of friends and my boyfriend. Now I just hang out with my boyfriend and the new group but my ex friend has started taking over. She's poisoning my friend's minds against, flirts with my boyfriend and is just generally taking my place. There is no way that we can ever be friends again but she's destroying what I have with my other friends too. What should I do?
Hey! Okay you should really talk to her, weather your friends or not with this girl, because if you feel like she's taking your place, you should do something about it soon! Its your friends and your boyfriend, and you shouldnt feel like she's trying to be you or taking your spot. You should find a way to tell her and explain to her that she should back off, otherwise she's gunna keep on doing it and do you really wanna lose your friends and your boyfriend? Plus If I were you, I would tell them how you feel about her, and they'll understand.
Hope I helped!
Kalie Noelle
hello. i am a girl and 14 years old. i have a boyfriend. he is the sweetest most wonderful person you can ever meet. there is this other boy in school and he told me he liked me. yesterday, i was in school and i said "im bored, i want to makeout" my cousin went over to the boy and told him to go to the restroom when i went. i went to the restroom and he was there. i like him too. so then we kissed. i feel bad about this. i kissed another boy when im going out with another one. i feel so guilty and i dont think it meant anything to him. But i feel like i did something really really bad. i dont know what do to. i dont want to hurt my boyfriend in any way. what should i do?
Hey! You need to really think about this before you talk to your boyfriend! Do you want to tell him and hurt him, or keep it a secret and tell the other boy you made a mistake? You ovb. have a great boyfriend that likes you alot, and then .. you have this other boy who just said he liked you, I mean do you really like him enough to give up your wonderful boyfriend? I think you need to really think about this hard and to learn how to not get caught up in the moment with this other guy when you know you have a bf whose only wanting to kiss you and no other girl.
- Hope I helped
xoxo Kalie Noelle
okay. im still a virgin. but i think im ready to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of a year and 2 months. we have done nothing BUT kissing. and im so happy hes patient with me and doesnt push me to do anything i choose not too. but now i am ready BUT i want to go on birth conrol and use a condom just to be on the safe side. the thing is im not on the pill so what would be the best way to ask my parents to put me on the pill without them thinking imma have sex.? cuz they know im still a virgin and think imma stay one till marriage. which i was planning on doing, but i think im ready to lose it..and i've found that special one to lose it to
Hey! If you really dont want your parents to know, lie and say either one of two things, your periods happening every 18 days and is not on track, because one of my best friends has to be put on birth control because of the same exact reason, or if you do, and only if you do have acne that is not going away, you can also be put on birth control for that, because my cousin is on the pill for that reason, but make sure before you decide what to lie about that you got all the facts together, so it'll be believable!
Hope I helped! xoxo!
i've known this guy named connor for 2 years i like him but i'm not that sure he likes me back.you see ever since he found out i liked him we've been avoiding each other.so i'm not sure he likes me can you help me?
He probably does but is really shy to talk to you or say the wrong thing, maybe you should confront him or talk to him about it, because he's probably wondering why your advoiding him too!
okay, so im 13 and im really small like my body is and im only like 5"4 i weigh bout a little over 100 pounds and im not trying to be arrogant but im really fit. The only thing is my boobs are really big. I wear a D cup bra and even when i wear sports bras they like look really big anyways theres a lot of problems. Im majorly into sports and they get so much in the way and they make my back hurt really bad. Second of all I always get hit on by like way older guys and I dont want that because im a really christian person with a strong faith and its just wrong. Then theres also the problem that like a whole bunch of guys like me and the only reason is because of my boobs, and theres been like a whole bunch of rumors that i had a boob job which is NOT true at all and a lot of girls dont like me because of them because they get jealous that the guys at our school really like me even though i tell them i dont like any of them. Then i also have stretch marks and i dont know how to get rid of them??? can someone please tell me about any really good bras that will like hide them or help support them, cause ive talked to my dcotor and they just gave me this pain medicine to keep them from hurting when they put strain on my back and stuff and also to hide them from perverted guys that im tired of dealing with?? please help me
Hey! I just turned 14 a couple days ago, Im 5,2 and 115 pounds, and I'm also a D cup. The things you said in your paragraph is almost everything I have. I'm really happy I have big boobs but I dont like dealing with the stretch marks! Go to Eckerds and buy Vita-K Solution for Stretch Marks (helps fade away stretch marks, Body Lines plus Ridge Lines). If you want a good bra that has a full cup for your boobs to cover up the stretch marks, go to Victoria Secrets, there bras are comfortable and supportive and you'll probably want an underwire bra or a push-up. I play sports also (Soccer) and I have to run alot but now Im use to them being there, and I bet you will get use to them too. I dont wear sports bra's when I play soccer, I wear bra's and it helps me alot! My back doesnt hurt and I've had big boobs since like 5th grade, so you may need to see another doctor just for a second opinion. There's not much to do with the older men and the preverts except ignore them. The rumors will keep going, the only way to deal with them, is not let them get to you. There's no way you can hide your boobs, be thankful you have them that big, some girls are still an A at the age of 16! The girls at your school are just jealous and you just got to know which guy really wants you for you, not all the other guys who want you for your boobs. I hope I helped!
xoxo - Kalie Noelle
Hay.. i once when out with this guy Hayden.. we went out for 5 months...im only 13 years old.. yeah really young to have any thing SERIOUS* well.. one time we went swimming.. we went into the house... n he was touchin me n places i didnt want him to touch me.. rite b4 he left.. he fingered me.. n i didnt want this to happen.. im affraid he is going to tell everyone at school what happend.. cuz if this gets out, they mite think imma hoe.. n im not the kinda girl who wants to be n this situation.. also.. i broke up with Hayden because he was a sick perv... i found a much better boyfriend named Justin! He is so great! *not a perv* but he heard about this rumer... i didnt want to tell him what Hayden did to me cuz i didnt want him to think i wanted Hayden to do this to me or that im that kind of person.. should i tell Justin what happend? or should i keep it to myself... Also.. what should i do about Hayden? i told him the real reason i broke up with him is because i didnt like him any more... should i tell him the real reason or keep it to myself.. Hayden and me broke up July 7.... i need help! answer all my questions please!
Hey! Well you shouldnt hide nething from your boyfriend because from what you said, it sounds like yall have a really good relationship together, and you dont wanna mess nething up, and im sure he will be understandable about the whole "Hayden" thing, and just tell him the truth if you wanna keep dating him, because no1 likes sercrets kept from them!
Hope l Helped!
- Good Luck -
Kalie Noelle
Okay I asked the question about being 13/f and my breasts hurting size 38c. Well today i was noticing that my right breast kinda feels like it has lumps in it. I think I might have breast cancer. But I am confused. If I do I don't know how to ask my mom to take me to the doctor to find out or even tell her that I think I do.
Hey, well its really important to check if you have breast cancer, if you kinda feel like you do, and dont be scared/embarassed because she's a girl too and she will understand, and im 13/f and im a 32D, so maybe there's not nething wrong, but check just in case! ((good luck))
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oK: so i have kinda oily skin... and whatever i do... its still oily! what can i use/do to make my complextion shine free? thanx!
Hey! Ok my friend has the same problem, and well your probably getting the oil from not washing your face good "enough" ... and if you wear make-up, there's this really good make-up remover from Mary-Kay, and you would think it would be alot of $$ but actually its not, and than there's some acne cream, and that works miracles, and its only $7!
Hope l helped!
Sorry... this is a sex question and there are somewhat graphic content. Not really bad but if you're young, you might not want to read this. Please only OLDER columnists answer this. I don't want advice from an inexperienced 13-14 year old. Someone who knows what I'm going through would help. And so... here's my question....
Hey, I'm 14/f and my boyfriend is 16. Yesterday I was at his house and we were doing sexual things and then I told him to go get a condom. (he uses them normally for self pleasure so it doesn't get anywhere...) So he went upstairs and got it but when he came back down I was crying. I don't know why I was crying. I really feel like I'm ready to have sex with him. We've been together for 2 years and we love eachother very much. It's weird though, I know that I'm physically and emotionally ready to do it it's just that, whenever we are about to, I get scared. Is this normal? Can anyone help me out?
PS- I'm a virgin and so is my boyfriend and we both want to lose our virginity to eachother.
Hey, its okay to have these feelings, mostly all girls are a little scared when there about to lose it, but if yall both know yall wanna lose it to each other, than l think you'll both know when its the right time
Some of my friends are really scared to kiss a guy! They don't know "how." What should I tell them??
--> There's no right way to kiss
last spring, i did 69 with a guy i dont even know. i know his name, we go to the smae school, but we havent talked since. i am embarrased everytime i see him, becasue i was drunk when we did it so i didnt really realize what i was doing. he stares at me alot, and his freinds say that he likes me, should i stay away? hes not my type.
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Hey i was wondering if anyone knew of any good shampoos for curly hair. My hair is pretty soft but i want it to be really soft and for it to look soft and shiny. I tried dove and that works ok but if anyone knows of any good ones for curly hair..or just in general that'd great thnkx :-)
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