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I need Help
Well to start off.. My mother left a week before Christmas and I miss her so much.. My dad is go crazy because she left all of us.. She don't call or even write to us. I need so help to know how to help my dad through all of this pain.. Thank you if you write back... I really do need as much help as I can get.... **** Thanks Heather****
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You can't really help him much I'm guessing.. it's probably hard on all of you and there isn't much I can say. Have you ever thought maybe your dad should get counciling, or.. just share your feelings with your dad.. you two problem feel the same about things..
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stay home with him and talk to him about it. and pray with him each night. mabye things will come around, and if not it could be for the best.
~hope i helped~ britt xoxo
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well you should help out around the house as much as possible.. and talk to your dad and maybe you should try and find your mom.. or ask your dad about family conciling.. it works.. i.m me if you need anything jilliix3 xOx jiLl
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talk to him about it. talking aout it will help him feel alot better
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I'm so sorry about everything you're going through. Try to take his mind off things. Help around the house, make dinner for him. Maybe he just needs someone to talk to right now. If you need anything else, feel free to send me a message. ♥ Kristen
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Im really sorry about what happened. There's alot of things to do to get your mind off your mom and for your dad too. You can help him around the house, like cleaning and doing the laundry without him asking. Make little father and daughter dates, so just yall two can go out and talk about things. If your the oldest then you can help by watching your brothers/sisters. The little things help the most! Im sure your mom has a reason for leaving but it wasnt right for her to leave yall at that time, once again im sorry for everything and I hope everything turns out right.
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Be your dad's BEST friend!
Comfort him! make him feel good around you, do whatever you can to make him happy.
Brush it off and mvoe on, even though she's not there you can survive right?
I mean, Life goes on!
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this is a really tough one and even though i havent been through this exact problem, and i don't know how you feel, but i do understand your pain. now, your dad is going to keep going crazy......if you let him. you need to let him know that it's noone's fault your mom left. the fact that she hasn't had any contact with you since she left shows that shes not ready to be a mother and that it is her fault for leaving..not yours or your fathers. you need to SHARE your dads pain and not be against it. let your father know that you are sharing his pain and that the two of you are in this together...you both were hurt deeply by the absence of your mother. please stay strong and no matter what, always know that you WILL get through this..if you need ANY more help at ALL with this or ANYTHING else...please email me. i'm here and would love to help you. feel better and stay strong. keep your head up high and don't ever let it down. take care,hun.
-ashlea
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Comfort your dad,and be there for him.Your family is going through a rough time so you'll have to be there for eachother.Im sorry this happened to you!Just keep hoping your mom will come back,and hang in there.;) -jen-
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You know this is a really hard situation and im sure you are hurting alot to! im so sorry! my friend had her mom walk out on her and her siblings to. Im sorry! Just be there for him and thats all you can really do and just talk about it.-trix
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talk to him straight out about how you feel and how you know he feels and that even though its gonna be rough, you love him and will do all you can to help keep the rest of the family together. And tell him that he is still your dad and that you need him. dont be afraid to shed a few tears- this is an emotional time.
**_Nicole_**
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well you can just try to strike up a conversation with him and tell him everythings going to be alright because you have your children who love you also. try to make him feel loved and respected.
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