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Q: ok i like this guy and i have liked him for about 7 months. we went out twice. the first time only for a day then the sencond time for a week. the only reason he broke up with me he said was cuz he cheated on me but i didnt care but he didnt believe me. now we are good friends. but i want to be more than friends i want to go out with him.but he has a gf but she is realli ugly and im prettier than her her. and i look batter(body wise) im not making fun of her but i want him. wut should i do
kaitlin /14/ florida
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be honest with him. you know that he dont like her so much, *or just bluff* and that you kbnow he never really cheated on you. i think he'll go for it. You want him, dont be afraid to get him!! best wishes, gurl!!
**_Nicole_**
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Q: Ok i've liked this boy for almost a year now and he's known for quite some time. Of course, like a typical girl trying to get the guy, i've flirted and such. But i recently heard that he has called me obsessive. Rude huh? well I'm confused as to whether he actually likes me also and is just shy about it and trying to cover it up as some of my friends say or if hes serioiusly annoyed by me. I personally dont feel obsessive at all and i would realize if i was. Well i dont know if i should keep trying to move foward with the relationship or just quit and find a new guy. Please help!
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i think that you should leave him alone for a lil bit. Not to be offensive, but maybe you are!! Then again, a lot of people may be presuring him to go out wit u or somethin, so they may have forced him to say that because he is too bothered. Leave him alone for a lil bit, then he will realize that he truely like you. Best wishes, gurl!!
**_Nicole_**
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Q: I know this guy since we were 7 years old. I think he is gay. He always talks about gay people. He always points out who is gay. He has no male friends of his own and he goes to gay clubs and claims he is just watching to see who lives a secretly gay life. He also has a lot of woman friends and gossips very much.
He dates women have no flaws. Very pretty women that look like models.He is very picky. He calls every body ugly. when i date a guy he tells me he's not that cute. I've seen cuter. Is it just me or is that something a girl would say? What do you think about this situation.?
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I think that he is a bi-sexual. Talk to him about him, and try to make him talk to you, but dont make him feel bad or anything.
**_Nicole_**
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Q: Do you got any cartoon doll sites so I can get some THAnkz!
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http://www.over-the-moon.org/dollz/dollmaker/make.html
mi friend uses this
**_nicole_**
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Q: My piano teacher just quit recentely and i am very sad. I have known him for a lot of years. He was great at piano and i liked how he teached. I just got another piano teacher. I like her but i really am sad that my piano teacher quit. What should i do?
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You should try to do your best with your new techer!!
i think thats what your other teacher would have wanted. Keep in touch with him and uodate with your progress!
**_Nicole_**
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Q: The first time I had my period it was from the 19-22 then it became 25-29 then 3-7.Wat is wrong?Is this normal? I need advice and i rate very high.thanx
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Thats not true!!!! i KNOW someone who can do that!!!! they just have to be very flexible.
**_Nicole_**
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Q: OK, I am so pissed off right now, I had a crush on these guys and they dared me to wear my short pink lavender skirt to school and wear a thong under it, and bend over while throwing away a piece of paper, so I did it, and when I bent over I let out a huge toot and now they keeping making fun of me! I am embaressed, but now they pobably don't like me, huh?
help please.
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aww, come on! some guys think thats adorable!! dont be to hard on yourself!!
**_Nicole_**
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Q: ok i like this boy in skool, he thinks im too fast for him or something and i dont know what he means cuzall i have ever done is kiss a guy and i get really nervous to talk to him face to face and its hard to just walk up to him and say hi how are u what did u do this weekend and stuff like that so have ny ideas how to give me courage or and easier way to start to talk to him....i dont have his sn
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you should try to talk to poeple you dont know or people you dont talk to people you might not talk to as much. That will build your confidence and then you wouldnt be so nervous to talk to your boy. Best Wishes
**_Nicole_**
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Q: are they're any faster ways to gain weight...i eat all the time but i have a fast matabelism (sry i cn't spell lol) but is there anything i can do to help me gain weight?
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well, you can eat more junk food, but if you try to gain too much weight, than youll be stuck with a heavier body. try to be within the curve of your age and dont try to out do yourslef, ok?
**_Nicole_**
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Q: Are diet pills safe for me to take if I am only 16 years old? And is their quick results? Thanks!
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yes, but you shouldnt overdose, and it is very easy to, so you need to talk to your doctor before you even buy the stuff.
**_Nicole_**
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Q: last night i called a guy that i have known for about a year he moved this summer and i havn't really talked to him that much. well we were on three way with my friend kate and him. he asked me if i still had feeling for him. what does that mean? like is he interested in me or what?
i have two questions.
my friend kate told me that she liked this guy on the phone can't say his name. i also like him and i told her and now i asked him if he would ever go out with her and he said idk maybe. so last night she said i'll ask him if he likes you and if he says yes then i'll hook yall up, but if he says no then try and hook me and him up. and i don't want to hook her up with him. i have known him longer and he was my first love. so what do i do?
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if the second guy mentioned likes her, I think that you should stick with the fist guy who has feelings for you. that may be the best thing for both you and your friend. the first love is not always the one you stay with all your life, or even through childhood(not saying ur a childm but supposedly childhood ends at 19 or something).
**_Nicole_**
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Q: So, there's this gurl that im taking to prom, but she say's that it's just as friends, I don't understand why it can't be more, she is so flirty everytime we hang out, superbowl night she held my hand, and gave me a back rub, and I gave her one, but all she wants to be is friends?? I think she is going through a rough time, this guy lived with her family while he was getting sober, he lived there for 2 months and has been gone now for 2 months and I think she is having a hard time with that, Im not sure how much she liked him though, soo, just help, tell me what you think, and what I should do. thanx
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well, if she is going through a hard time, then you just have to be there for her. Dont try to be 'more than friends' with her, and dont try to get her to bed. just try to be friends, and when shes ready, shell come to you.
**_Nicole_**
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Q: Since October last year, I haven't been having a proper lunch at school. At first it was because I just wasn't as hungry as I used to be and I didn't need to eat. Now, I do get hungry at lunch but I don't like bringing in a lunch from home and I hate queuing in the lunch hall to buy a school meal, I never have money to buy it anyway. My friends have started to comment on how thin I am getting, I have always had a slim build but now they say I am getting too thin. I can see what they mean, I am thinner but I haven't lost any weight at all. I don't think I am overweight or anything but they think I have an eating disorder. I know I don't, how can I get them to see that?
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Why dont you try to eat something! Bring a couple of cookies with you that are full of fat aaNd that you like, and eat them. if they still worry, look up some info on poeple with those kinds of disorders and point out that you dont do all those things. I hope they understand!
**_Nicole_**
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Q: My friend and I used to be really close and walk together to class. Now everytime I try to meet her she isn't there because shes with her new friend. What sould I do?
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you should try to figure out a time to hang out with the both of them, try and be in with the clique.
**_Nicole_**
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Q: i have a best friend and my best friend likes this guy but i like him 2 but she dosent no i do. what do i do? if i like him and he likes me i dont no if she would be mad.
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you have to tell her, that way she knows that there might be a problem if he likes one of you over the other.
**_Nicole_**
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Q: my main focus was a cookie.. or shouldnt i do that
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o, im sorry, i must have overlooked that...
yes, i think thats even better!! he'll like that! it'll be special, but it wont embarass him.
**_Nicole_**
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Q: Im going to make this shrot I want to get him a cookie that says kiss kiss on it and i dont know if that is a good idea. I just want something that noone really does im not wierd or anything I just dont want the old hear is a box of chocolates happy valentines day i want a haha a cookie. funny. sort of memorable thing. But i still want it to be thoughtful. I was thinking a card, cookie, and a small box of chocolates. Dumb idea?
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haha, a thong!! o wait, you said nothing weird... well, yes, go with the chocolate!! Dont try to over think it or it wont come out as good.
**_Nicole_**
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Q: I have to do 5 hours of community service for school and I was wondering if anyone had any ideas on what I could do that would involve things that I like to do. Some things I like to do that might involve any kind of community service are being with little kids and dancing. Any help would be appreciated... thanks.
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you xan get a group0 of some of your friends together and clean up a retention pond or pick up trash in a neighborhood that really needs it!! You can cut your hair for he locks for cancer society, and count however long it takes.... yea, im all out. if your part of a religous group and you go preaching , ive heard that also counts.
**_Nicole_**
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Q: okay i like this guy we'll call him erik so anyways erik and i have been good friends since school started and well now that he had found out that i liked him he flirts with me even more and gives me at least one hug everyday but you see the hug is longer then it is with the rest of the girls that gives him hugs and also he holds me really close to him so i really want to ask him to the dance this friday but im not sure how does anyone have any ideas so i possibly wont get rejected if he was just playin with me? sry for the length
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aww, come on girl!!! ask him!! if your getting aall the extra attention, he must like you! Beacasue most boys would withdraw away from you if they didnt like you back. Best wishes!!
**_Nicole_**
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Q: There is this guy i really like, but my friend has been really flirty to him and is also messing w/ him hardcore and one day i was on the phone w/ him and he was like i don't like it when your friend is all over me and that he likes me alot and i'm the most beautiful/ wonderful/ nicest person he knows and about then she beeped in on his line so when he came back he was like i told her i couldn't go out w/ her because she is christian and i was like ohh. but, he goes to church with me? and he asked me out and i was like i dont even know, because my friend aparently likes you and im a christian and he was like it was just an excuse because i have wanted to ask you out since matts party ( november 9) and he wasn't sure if i liked him. yet, he is the 1st and only i have ever frech kissed and that i've liked this much and i don't know what to do because when he holds me in his arms it makes me feel good inside and i know my friend likes him should i tell her that i want to be with him or should i wait till shes over him if he likes me as much as he claims then he could wait. i dont know though. please help, i rate high. *sorry for the length*
Genni
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i think you should accept, and when your friend asks, tell her that he already liked you when she kept slobbering over him and that he also had asked u out already!!! the truth hurts, girl...
**_Nicole_**
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Hi. Im Nicole. Im here to help, so ask me a question and i'll answer it in all honesty. Im not gonna try to belittle you are anything, because that is totally uncool. If you dont like my advice, then dont even rate. I love to hang out and do a lot of shopping, as the average girl does. I live in florida, and it is kinda hard now that it is the year of the hurricane.. but im not here to complain. Im here to help you, your friend, and whoever wants it. Power to ppl who need help!! (haha, that didnt come out exactly right...) If your question is incredibly stupid, i will delete it. Ask away!
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Gender: Female Location: New York Occupation: Filing and Zoning (surveying company) Member Since: September 26, 2004 Answers: 142 Last Update: February 27, 2005 Visitors: 11405
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