My friend and I used to be really close and walk together to class. Now everytime I try to meet her she isn't there because shes with her new friend. What sould I do?
jazziewolf answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 11:34 pm: Tell her that you feel you are being left out. I doubt your friend realizes that she's making you feel this way, and will shape up quickly. Perhaps you can become friends with her new one, and the duet can become a trio. [ jazziewolf's advice column | Ask jazziewolf A Question ]
r3miXx327501 answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 10:41 pm: Maybe you should talk to her if you can and tell her that you miss hanging out with her. Ask her if you and her new friend can do something sometime and maybe all of you could be friends. If not then Im sure you could find plenty of new friends...
just join clubs and stuff and get to know different people...
Good Luck!
XoXo,
*SaRaH* [ r3miXx327501's advice column | Ask r3miXx327501 A Question ]
Brittany13 answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 7:55 pm: What I think you should do is try to hang out with her AND her new friend. The same thing happend to me and I just hung out with both of them and now all three of us are friends.
OrangeLuverr answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 7:01 pm: Well right now i dont go see my friend at break because i found some new people. it doesnt mean that she doesnt like you, it just means that she just needs something new. For now just find some other new friends to hang with, cause theres really nothing much you can do.
Goodluck [ OrangeLuverr's advice column | Ask OrangeLuverr A Question ]
xxsexyinpinkxx answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 6:31 pm: well obviously she is trying a new kind of life. she doesn't mean anything by it. she is just trying new things. she may come back to her old self. then she may not. you can never really know what your friends are going to do. you always have to be ready for change even though you may not like it. [ xxsexyinpinkxx's advice column | Ask xxsexyinpinkxx A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 5:57 pm: Just talk to her and ask her if she wants to hang out sometime this weekend. Go to a movie. Are we there yet is really good but meet the fockers is a lil bit better!! Anyways if she already has plans with her new friend get to no her new friend and get to know her she may be very cool. Give everyone a chance. Hang out just 3 of you. Later on talk to your friend about this whole thing-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
MestUpElf0192 answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 5:39 pm: Maybe it's time for you to get a new friend to walk to class with. Of corse you don't want to be left behind, but sometimes it's best if you both move on.
If this friend is a very close one and you all have been like that for a while then you could try confronting her about your feelings.
sshelbyy answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 5:35 pm: I think you should try and hang out with her more often by yallselves. Maybe you can befriend her new friend and you wont be so left out everytime they walk together. Also, just because ur friend is walking to class with another friend doesnt mean yall arent friends or that yall arent as close, im sure she just doesnt know how you feel! [ sshelbyy's advice column | Ask sshelbyy A Question ]
AdviceMistress answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 5:34 pm: confront and tell her how you feel and that you wish she would spend sometime with you like you guys use to do and that you hope you did nothing wrong to make her not want to hang out with you. just talk to her and see what is going on?!
sweeetascandy answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 5:14 pm: i think you should just simply ask her if she still wants to walk like before, say you were just wondering. if not, then find someone new to walk with. =] hope i helped & please view my column and rate! [ sweeetascandy's advice column | Ask sweeetascandy A Question ]
TrUtH_hUrTs_1 answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 5:14 pm: you should try to figure out a time to hang out with the both of them, try and be in with the clique.
Karen answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 5:08 pm: You need to talk to her and tell her about how you feel. If she is your friend, she should make the effort of listening and understanding you and trying to be close again. Hope I helped :)
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.