about

Heeey! This is Rachael. I'm from Illinois, I'm 17, and I'm Polish. I'm here to help you as much as I can. My advice isn't always what you wanna hear but hey what do you expect? I have a hard life, its not simple at all. I have had experience with almost everything. I've had a rough life.



love - i fall in love too fast. i've dated over 98743215967878 guyssss ... like seriously. no that doesn't make me a slut, it just means i'm not judgemental. i fell in love and i was this close to getting married. till he slept with my best friend ...



sex - im not a virgin, but i'm not a whore.



drugs & alcohol - i have had a tough life like i said. i'm currently not on any drugs, i have had problems with cocaine & ecstasy. i was addicted like fuck. i smoked weed from 13-15. i also drank non-stop. i'd get wasted during the weekend and not go to school for 2-3 weeks. i'd cut class all the time, get in so much trouble. like one time i brought vodka to school in a water bottle and wow, that was a bad experience. my parents would beat the hell out of me ... i wouldn't come home for days ...



piercings & tatoos - i only have one tatoo. my folks still don't know about it. its on my lower back of an angel. i have 19 piercings. 8 in my left ear, 6 in my right. I have my tongue pierced, and i just recently got the web under my tongue pierced. *1-21-05* hurts like a bitch but i love it. and I HAD my nose, but i got rid of that. And the rest of the piercings are somewhere I don't want to mention.



life - i live with my cousin, 3 houses away from my home. i couldn't stand living at home so i just figured i'd move out. my parents hate me. i am the oldest and it sucks, thats maybe why i'm so odd. I have a best friend, Brooke, she's been with me thru the good times and bad. I love my family, but my parents just can't deal with all the shit I pull. Neither can I. I'm such a screw-up and I can't change all that. I don't know what I plan on doing with the rest of my life. I tried committing suicide before, thats how bad it gets sometrimesn. I overdosed on ecstasy, stupid I know. Its not worth it I realized. Now I'm just tyring to get better and I don't give a fuck anymore what everyone says. Its my life.


i can pretty much help you with everythings. i'm only 17, but i've experienced loads of shit.


i'm not afraid to be me. i'll say what i want. i do what i want. live with it.





i've been down a horrible road in life. screwed up major. i just hope no one has to go through all that i did.




advice

Help im realy bored i do nothing all day except watch T.v and i have allready browsed the intire internet help!can you think of something to do I am realy realy bored!You may think that in exagerating but im not its realy an emergency.
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lol go play sports or something. i played tennis today, lol, weird but it gave me something to do. =)

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ok everyone says that my sisters and i are beautiful but i think their just saying that because of my older sister, because she gets a lot of compliements(sp) so i wanted your opinion on how i look. i want you to tell me honestly even through you dont have a picture...i have blue eyes,dark dark brown hair,im 5'4,my hair is a little past my shoulder,i have freckles..thaanks for helping me and please answer honestly i wont get offended by your answer. thank you

Hey! Sorry for taking so long to answer! =) I think you're hot! Honestly, you seem really pretty from your description. Listen to people! =)

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OK so my BFF's little brother is completely discusting!!! He acts very preverted even to me! It's sooo gross. He does things that are well REALLY inapropriate! Oh man when ever my friend and I try to tell him to stop, he will just ignore us and tell me I am sexy. Ya it's that weird for peet sakes hes only nine! How do I get him to stop?!

Hey. That's quite funny, lol, in a disgusting/perverted kind of way. Lol. Just act perverted back. I doubt he's serious. He'll proably pussy/chicken out if you try making a move on him. Just act normal, act like you don't care. Make it seem as isf you're interested in him and you want him back. Lol. It'll be funny. Well if you need more help, leave one in MY INBOX.Please rate, thanks babe!

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My friend wants me to hang out with her her boyfriend one of the school sluts and my friends brother in 12th grade when im a sophomore. I dont want to but i want to do something over the weekend is it a good idea to go along?

Nooo... if you don't want to, then don't. Foloowq your heart don't do anything stupid.

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Did anyone marry someone their high school love?!

:)

Yep, lots of people do! If you really are INLOVE then probably yeah =)

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okay, im 14/f and i havent had a boyfriend yet all my friends have at least been asked out and many have had boyfriends..no one has asked me yet and im old fashioned i wont ask a guy out i really want a boyfriend and all my friends have one i think im ugly and thats why no one asked me out please help me--desperate

hey hun - omgsh don't worry! i know people that are like 18 and single! i'm sure you're not ugly and i bet you can get a guy and you don't even know it. my sister can help you with this, she's in your situation too. (her username is xglam0urx) just talk to more guys and flirt. don't pay attention to your friends, they're sluts, hahaha. guys re just as shy as girls! sometimes in some sitautions even more. time will change everything. don't worry about i, you're only 14, you got the rest of your life. hope i helped, please rate me and view my column. thanks babe!

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ok i'm 17/f (almost 18) and i tend to fall for younger guys. the past 3 guys that i've liked (i went out with one) have been 15 and young 16. i'm a senior and they're all sophomores (one should be a junior). to make it better, my brother is a sophomore as well, and is older than one of them (the one i went out with). my friend says that going out with sophomores would make me look like i'm easy (which i'm definitely not...i'm waiting until marriage). is there any way that i could get myself to stop liking younger guys or is there nothing wrong with it? thanks so much :)

nope! absolutely nothing wrong with it. most married couples are from 2 to even 32 years or more apart, if it feels right and you're happy then its all good. i've been in your situation before. if you need more help drop one in my inbox. well hope i helped, please view my column!

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ok so theres this guy at my skool and he ALWAYS flirted with me...so obvious well we went to this camp for the program were in...we went on feb. 14- today.....we jsut got home...well he has a gf of 10months!! and shes really ugly notto b mean..but we rode together on the bus n fell asleep and then at camp at night it was really cold and he had his arm around me and then he started holdng my hand and everyone thought we wer going out...well on the bus ride back (its a 3 hr ride) we had this blanket over us and he was holding my hand and cuddling with me and he gav me a kiss on the lips....and then he was like "you kno we cant do this at skool everyting has to go back to normal" iw as like i know...but i wanted to cry..i like him so much and its obvious he does like me....and hes not the player type and that was the first time hes cheated on his gf...and then we got off the bus and he gav me a hug and everyone was waiting for their parents....and he started ignoring me...and then he told his friend which is also my friend...he was like "god this whole weekend sara just wanted to hook up w/me....and i didnt even want to i said no",...THATS BULLSHIT! he was the one who started holding my hand and kissing my cheek and stuff! im so crushed....i dont know what to do...hes in my english class and thats it....should i ignore him or if he trys to talk to me should i be like i heard what you said...or something...what do i do?? :(

what an asshole. ignore him and if he bugs you or asks whats wrong tell him. you don't need to put up with that shit. tell me how it goes and please view my column and rate!

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im a 15 year old girl, and there is this hot senior guy that i have a big crush on. he has all the characteristcs i look for in a guy, and i have been in love with him for a long time. ive asked him to the dance, and he said yes. however, he gives me a lot of mixed signals, saying that underclassmen and senior relationships are bad, while also saying that he would love to go to the dance with me and that he would have a hella good time with me. how do i know for sure if hes interested in me or not?

just ask him, be like out of curiosity, i was just wondering ...? don'tworry about it. life is short, have fun at the dance. good luck babe. tell me how it goes and please view my column and rate!

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Is there a way to stop a pregnant woman from drinking? I don't understand why it's not against the law. It's aginst the law to supply alcohol to minors, but it's ok to posion your unborn child?

OMGGG! that's horrible, she will soo regret it later. i agree with the other answers and maybe try calling the cops anonomysly or the hospital. they'll probably be the best help. =] hope i helped & please view my column and rate!

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hi,
my girlfriend was late on her period by 2 days and then we had sexual intercourse. she is still late 5 days after we had sexual intercourse what does this mean? im sure the condom did not split and everything went fine but im still worried. was she most fertile then or least could you please tell me?

thanks,
rob

have her take a pregnancy test or for best results see the doc. =] hope i helped & please view my column and rate!

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My friend and I used to be really close and walk together to class. Now everytime I try to meet her she isn't there because shes with her new friend. What sould I do?

i think you should just simply ask her if she still wants to walk like before, say you were just wondering. if not, then find someone new to walk with. =] hope i helped & please view my column and rate!

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hey omg your so pretty!! and i was wondering if you know any ideas for a cute sn.. im blonde, i like words like sexy cute etc.. and i want to be in playboy someday but i want a sn thats not like everyone has.. i was wondering if you could help me think of any?

aw thanks! hm, i'm not really good with this but here goes. i'll try


future playboi x


xo playy boy


cute sexie bunni


sexe play m8


sex e blondie xox


future play m8


x bl0nd playgirl


... im sorry, i don't know if you'll like them. i tried, hehe. if you need more help, drop one in my inbox. i think the limist is like 16 letters? the spaces don't count and you can just format it and add the spaces later on. well hope I helped! later babe! good luck! :)

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Omg..what do I do when I want to get my nose pierced and my parents aren't open up to it? Like..it's my dad I'm mostly worried about. He doesn't get it. He's just like "No..it looks ugly I dont want you to do that." But does he NOT understand that at any time I want I can take it out? It may leave a tiny mark but nothing major because my sister has had it done before and she hasn't like worn it in a year or more..and theres no mark unless you look really closely (which isnt bad at all)...

I mean Im gonna be 15 in March and I dont want it for my birthday..but like say if I wanted it for this coming christmas -- how can I maybe get them to consider it?? It's really hard though I'm warning you...

I was talking to my dad today and was like "So..what? you're not even gonna TRY to consider it as something I can do?" and he's like "as far as Im concerned its a no." and so Im like "THEN WHEN WILL YOU CONSIDER IT and really think about it??" and hes like "not now..I dont know."

But hes not gonna let me get it -- bottom line. I am not a spoiled person..and I am not a bad kid at all. I dont smoke anything, I dont do drugs or drink...the most I do is have an attitude or anger problems around the house and Im trying to work on that but I cant when they piss me off and my sister acts like another MOTHER to me (which I dont need right now)...

Should I make a list of what it WON'T do? Like what I mean is -- should I write down on a piece of paper stuff like "1. it wont be permanant...2. I can take it out anytime."...etc.

...and like.. just say all the bright sides about it? Because I really would make a list..I want it that bad and I dont want to wait until I move out because I dont want to get it when I'm older. I want peopel I knwo rto get used to me having it NOW before I get older..ya know?

I'm not doing it to fit in with anybody either..or just to be different than anyone else. I'm simply considering doing it because I want to be different then what I am now. I mean it's not like I'm getting a tattoo where it will be permanant..and it's not like people will point and LAUGH at me..I mean Im not gonna be the only one in the world with it done and if I ghave my ears pieced from liek when I was 7 then I dont understand why I cant have my nose pierced..even when Im 16

I told my dad "well 16 year olds can buy cars and pay bills for those cars but YOU wont let me get a nose piercing?" That kind of made him think..but he still said no.

But anyways..sorry for the longness of this question but if anyoen has been in teh same situation then please help. I really want this. I'd be so happy. =)

Thank You.
-me

just do it. lol. i did mine before. talk to my sis - xglam0urx, she'll help you out with this!

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OK here's the deal.... all of my friends have been going to this club ... Club Ice.... this club is the shit.... but my dad WILL NOT!!! let me go.... it's like all of a sudden i'm locked in my own home... i'm not even allowed to go to my fucking friend's house... and she lives THREE houses down.... I don't know what the fuck my dad's problem but.... I'm driven to the point where I'm ready to sneak out.... I've almost run away about 3 timez.... but I just can never pull myself to do it.... I know you've had a lot of experience in this area... so0o I was wondering can you give me any tips on how to sneak out?? I'm really desperate here.... I had so many planz but none of them will ever work now that I can't go anywhere.... PLEASE help me!!!

I know how you feel. You can a) stay home and listen to your dad, or b) fuck it all and leave. But I'm gonna give you some advice, dont do it. Don't sneak out. I was like that and it caused so much trouble in my life. I guess maybe you can be just try talking to your dad and asking him his reasons for not letting you go. My dad IS JUST LIKE THAT. Haha my friend lives 4 houses downm, funny huh? Lol ok but the thing is if you sneak out and get caught, you will eventually, so that means you're gonna loose your dads trust. That'll suck even more bcz then for sure you wont be able to do anything. So if I may, I suggest maybe just staying home. Sucks I know but its kinda worth it. But if you want to sneak out, well I had a couple of ways. I'dd say I was going to my friends, sleep-over at friends, or I'd say I was going on a school trip. say ypu have to to the library to study and pull an all nighter or something? or if you have relatives, or a bro or sis that live with you, they can maybe help ya out and cover for you. what i used to do was pretend to go to sleep, pajamas and all and my dad would fall asleep qiuck so i'd just leave sometimes thru my window, or just out the door. if anything have a bro or sis cover for you incase yuyour dad hears the door and say that they were checking if the door was locked or something. i don't know, lol. just ask more quwestions if you need to and ill be sure to answer them asap. goodluck & have fun! - rachael

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Okay i like this girl in my school....I dont think she likes me.But she dont know I like her like that too....We met this year but we are really close.....What should i do!

ask around and you'll find out if she likes you. and if she does, how about you ask her out on valentine's day and let her know how you feel? hey its an idea =) *please rate & visit my column*

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i broke up with my boyfriend but now i really want to go back out with him. i think he still likes me because he flirts all the time. we've only been broke up for a week and i don't want to sound deperate or foolish. what if he's mad i broke up with him? i tried to talk to him about it but i couldn't because i was so nervous. i couldn't force the words out. what should i do? i really want to try to do it in person but how can i get over my fears and what should i say? i have no clue how to word anything!

tell him how you feel. trust me, it'll all be good. just do it before its too late, you'll regret it later. just tell him exactly how you feel. =) hope i helped please rate, I"M NEW!

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they say theres somebody out there for every one but how do you know when you find that person and what if you never find that person?

you will find it and you'll know it when you do. its a feeling unexplainable! =) -please rate, I"M NEW!

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well me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 3 months then all of asudden he says he wants to take a break. i asked him why and he said we need to live our lifes. what do you think he ment by that?

i think he means he wants to experience more or be more free and do what he wants without having to be wih someone all the time. i don't get it, he's weird, lol. =) hope i helped, view my column 7 please rate, I"M NEW!

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My freckles are really dark and ugly. Any ideas on how to make them fade permanently or temporarily? Can I get rid of them? Please help! I'm tired of being covered in polka-dots, whether they are angel kisses or not!

freckles are cute! =) but if you wish to get rid of them, just use cover-up. maybelline & almay work good. please rate, i'm new! =)

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