Question Posted Wednesday February 16 2005, 8:23 pm
ok so theres this guy at my skool and he ALWAYS flirted with me...so obvious well we went to this camp for the program were in...we went on feb. 14- today.....we jsut got home...well he has a gf of 10months!! and shes really ugly notto b mean..but we rode together on the bus n fell asleep and then at camp at night it was really cold and he had his arm around me and then he started holdng my hand and everyone thought we wer going out...well on the bus ride back (its a 3 hr ride) we had this blanket over us and he was holding my hand and cuddling with me and he gav me a kiss on the lips....and then he was like "you kno we cant do this at skool everyting has to go back to normal" iw as like i know...but i wanted to cry..i like him so much and its obvious he does like me....and hes not the player type and that was the first time hes cheated on his gf...and then we got off the bus and he gav me a hug and everyone was waiting for their parents....and he started ignoring me...and then he told his friend which is also my friend...he was like "god this whole weekend sara just wanted to hook up w/me....and i didnt even want to i said no",...THATS BULLSHIT! he was the one who started holding my hand and kissing my cheek and stuff! im so crushed....i dont know what to do...hes in my english class and thats it....should i ignore him or if he trys to talk to me should i be like i heard what you said...or something...what do i do?? :(
sweeetascandy answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 10:25 pm: what an asshole. ignore him and if he bugs you or asks whats wrong tell him. you don't need to put up with that shit. tell me how it goes and please view my column and rate! [ sweeetascandy's advice column | Ask sweeetascandy A Question ]
leetizzle319 answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 9:14 pm: You should def. confront him and tell him how he made you feel.Dnt be mean or yell at him though.Talk to him as calmly as possible.Make sure you explain to him how it made you feel, and ask him if his feelings were true or if he was just trying to hook up with you.If he says that he has true feelings for you,then you should ask him why he had to be so immature by telling his friend that you were all over him.If hes actually honest with you and says he was just trying to hook up with you,then you should relize that he brought you down just to make himself look like the bigger person,and you should also relize that hes not a good friend, atleast not good enough for you. [ leetizzle319's advice column | Ask leetizzle319 A Question ]
pinkiesweetie2121 answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 9:02 pm: if he is willing to cheat on his longterm gf then he is good enough, BUT he cheated!! still, if you really like him, sit him down and TALK. he apparently likes you, and you like him, just be careful, you know wht he did to his longterm gf!!
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