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Well i am a student at Parma City High School, yeah i am a guy but i am really good at giving advice for girls as well as guys so just ask me a question and i'll give you an answer. i like helping people so if i give u advice, i want some feedback on how it worked
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Okay so I'm a 14 yr old female. Sometimes I let my emotions get the best of me in certain situations. (like going WAY too far with a guy) currently i've kissed 45 guys, have given 2 oral, and have had sex with 3. People go around calling me a whore and a slut all the time but I don't see it that way. I also think that I'm starting to have feelings for someone I used to like before. The problem is that I've also done stuff with his best friend. What should I do? Should I bother to waste my time? I really care about him alot but I'm afraid that he'll look at my sexual history (with his friend especially) and expect alot from me. Also what can I do to stop people from spreading rumors around about me at school? It's gotten so bad that people go into the girls bathroom to catch up on my love life! Please help me!
-Confused about my boundaries
I think a whale should go swimming with cement shoes
i've been friends wit this gurl for 2 years and we've gottin into fights alot but then we become friends again after huge fights.she started to call me a whore and that..we r kinda still friends and that but idk if i should still be friend wit her ..everyone is tellin me not to be her friend but idk.i still wanna be friend but i dont want what happend a while ago to happen again and brake up our friendship....what do i do?..
i have a nother ?. ok theres this kid that rele rele likes me and i like him to but mii mom wont let me hang out wit him cuz hes in a higher grade..hes rele sweet,careing and sexii...idk ..what do i tell mii mom to let me hang out wit him..?
Well, she doesn't sound like much of a friend. Talk to her about it and see what she says and if she keeps doing it, just forget about it cuz a real friend wouldn't do that.
About this guy, just tell your mom that your going to hang out with some1 else or have him meet your mom and see if u can hang out with him while shes around. and when he comes over, its probably not a good idea to pour water on him while hes standing at your door if u still want him to like you lol
ive kindda got a problem that can no one can find the answer to but me, but how is what i want to kno. i met a guy last year whom i fell for the momment i saw him. he had a rep that was pretty bad (ex havin sex w/ every gurl) but i want to be a virgin til im married. when he met me i told him straight up how i am. somehow he understood and we talked off and on for about 9 months and went on 2 dates b4 he asked me out we've been going out for almost 6 months now and have finally told eachother that we love oneanother. weve never had sex and still our relationship is great, at 6 months hes gonna ask me to marry him but i'm only 16 and hes 21 i dont want to be tied down even tho i do love him but at the same time i cant say no b/c i love him. how do i tell if what im feeling w/ him is true and if so then do i say yes and be tied down at 16 or do i just turn him down completely? my rents love him and everything just about fits.. what do i do?
well, i think you should just tell him that you love him and everything but you just don't feel like your ready to get married yet. Yopu are only 16. just talk to him and tell him that you want to marry him someday but your still in high school and your just not ready yet. plus you would definately want to give it some more time and make sure he is everything you think he is and if he loves you as much as he says he does, then he won't have too much of a problem with it. honestly your 16, you haven't had much of a variety of guys yet and for all you know when you become an adult, your opinion of him might change and then ure your 18 years old and married to some1 that might have been what you wanted at 16, but not anymore. hope i gave you some helpful advice
Why is it that all teenage boys only want sex, sex and sex? Are there any teenage boys, anywhere, that want a serious relationship? It's so hard to even find a half decent guy anymore. Don't guys just ever want to take things slow and want a girl for more than just sex?
being a teenage boy myself, i think i should answer your question. If its a serious relationship you want, its gonna be pretty hard to find. there are some guys that would just love a lasting relationship but most do just want sex. about 1 in 1,000 want a serious relationship as a teenager and i can back that up cuz i am the only one i know. anyway, just hang in there and consider all of your options, some guy might not look like a charmer but once you get to know him he might be the sweetest, nicest, most caring guy you have ever met. just keep your eyes open and you'll meet the guy of your dreams